The 133-year-old old man who doesn't meet often seems to get along well, and there are not so many estrangements. Because of his age, it seems that all he needs is a company. At this age, the old man doesn't seem to be able to worry about other people anymore. He just keeps saying that he will die soon, remember the funeral service phone number posted behind the door, and so on. When people are old, it will be useless, for example, if you forget to put on your pants and open the door, but at that age, you can't control it, right? In fact, we don't need to be too harsh, as long as the elderly are happy. After living for more than a century, the only fear is that he will die and no one will find out. After so much experience, you will find that it is not a big deal.
"Carter, I'm 133 years old. I've spent my whole life trying to figure out something, but you know how it turned out? It didn't work out." The world is not for understanding, we have to feel it with our heart. Painful Socrates and happy pigs, you must know that sometimes the results of thinking are often not satisfactory, but instead fall into an endless loop. To give her grandmother some comfort, Carter even wrote a children's book instead of the soft erotic novel she'd been working on. Finally finished what I've been wanting to write since high school, is this an alternative teaching from my grandmother?
"I'm dying, and you'll live on, so stop complaining." Living is the greatest gift. Some hospice, some warmth, better than nothing. The grandmother fell asleep silently in front of the open TV, and the warm sunshine came in. This may be the greatest death without pain. When Carter went out again, it was already cold and bleak outside, and sadness was unavoidable. The arrival of the severe cold may be a symbol of the old man dying, but it may not be the next warm foreshadowing.
The neighbors across from Grandma Carter were the couple and their teenage daughters. There doesn't seem to be anything wrong with it. Carter, a stranger who inadvertently broke in, suddenly became a vent for women big and small. Sometimes people are so strange, some words, they would rather talk to strangers than show them in front of close people.
Sarah is going through not just a woman's midlife crisis, but a major crisis in her life. The eldest daughter, Lucy, was rebellious in adolescence and could hardly communicate; the younger daughter looked quite precocious, but after all, she was a child who would be sleepy later; Under such circumstances, I also found out that I have breast cancer. Is the joke of life too big? A series of loneliness, fear and helplessness have nowhere to vent, and I don't even know how to express it. Fortunately, at such a moment, Carter came. The unfamiliar and handsome young man is good at listening and confiding, reaching the balance mode that each other needs, and even brings a trace of ambiguous feelings.
It's all lonely people hugging each other for warmth.
She confessed to Carter that she knew about her husband's affair and tried to dissect her feelings for him. At the moment in the supermarket, he said to her: "Your husband must be crazy." This gave Sarah a huge comfort. At this moment, she needed such affirmation and support. Chemotherapy is about to start, and the pain, the cold hospital, the removal of the breast, and even the end of life. No comfort, how to go on? This is an affirmation of a woman's self-confidence. The child does not understand, the husband is having an affair, and even the breast is about to be removed, all of them are deeply questioning whether she is a qualified woman, and any blow at this time may collapse. As Lucy said to Carter: how could she not want to scream when she saw herself! Maybe Sarah had already screamed and no one was listening. How pitiful, there are so many close relatives in one room, but no one is willing to give more warmth, perhaps, she dare not ask for it.
For the sake of the children, don't mention divorce, even if you don't love anymore, even if you know about those cheating behaviors; you don't dare to be vulnerable and fall down, what should you do with your children? In fact, who can support and bear the burden? This is how life is, there are always so many unsatisfactory things. To Sarah, as Carter wrote in his farewell letter: "Sometimes I'm so desperate for it that I forget I have responsibilities. I'm here to escape, but I met you, and you're grateful for everything. . I hope you can seize the time you deserve." I hope everyone can share this. We should all be grateful for everything that happens.
The neighbors across from Grandma Carter were the couple and their teenage daughters. There doesn't seem to be anything wrong with it. Carter, a stranger who inadvertently broke in, suddenly became a vent for women big and small. Sometimes people are so strange, some words, they would rather talk to strangers than show them in front of close people.
Sarah is going through not just a woman's midlife crisis, but a major crisis in her life. The eldest daughter, Lucy, was rebellious in adolescence and could hardly communicate; the younger daughter looked quite precocious, but after all, she was a child who would be sleepy later; Under such circumstances, I also found out that I have breast cancer. Is the joke of life too big? A series of loneliness, fear and helplessness have nowhere to vent, and I don't even know how to express it. Fortunately, at such a moment, Carter came. The unfamiliar and handsome young man is good at listening and confiding, reaching the balance mode that each other needs, and even brings a trace of ambiguous feelings.
It's all lonely people hugging each other for warmth.
She confessed to Carter that she knew about her husband's affair and tried to dissect her feelings for him. At the moment in the supermarket, he said to her: "Your husband must be crazy." This gave Sarah a huge comfort. At this moment, she needed such affirmation and support. Chemotherapy is about to start, and the pain, the cold hospital, the removal of the breast, and even the end of life. No comfort, how to go on? This is an affirmation of a woman's self-confidence. The child does not understand, the husband is having an affair, and even the breast is about to be removed, all of them are deeply questioning whether she is a qualified woman, and any blow at this time may collapse. As Lucy said to Carter: how could she not want to scream when she saw herself! Maybe Sarah had already screamed and no one was listening. How pitiful, there are so many close relatives in one room, but no one is willing to give more warmth, perhaps, she dare not ask for it.
For the sake of the children, don't mention divorce, even if you don't love anymore, even if you know about those cheating behaviors; you don't dare to be vulnerable and fall down, what should you do with your children? In fact, who can support and bear the burden? This is how life is, there are always so many unsatisfactory things. To Sarah, as Carter wrote in his farewell letter: "Sometimes I'm so desperate for it that I forget I have responsibilities. I'm here to escape, but I met you, and you're grateful for everything. . I hope you can seize the time you deserve." I hope everyone can share this. We should all be grateful for everything that happens.
Lucy is still young, which is nice. During adolescence and high school, the biggest worry is which clothes look better, which eye-catching boy to date, the little gossip on campus, the confrontation and rebellion with parents, these seem to be the whole world. Anything can make the tears endless and make the sadness flow back. Everyone has been young before, and looking back now, the corners of their mouths can't help but go up. At that time, they were really stupid and naive. How could there be so many new words to express sorrow! Only when you really face the wickedness of life, you have to worry about making a living, and when you see that there is so much injustice, hunger, and suffering in this world, will you understand how beautiful it was to be innocent and worry-free at that time. Everyone has a process, a process of growth. Maybe it's a young love that doesn't expect anything in return, maybe it's the shock of the passing of life, maybe... There is always a clip that will bring you up.
What is Lucy's segment? It may or may not be enough, but it has definitely grown. Freud's theory of childhood spirit has always fascinated me. Childhood memories can have too much influence on a person's life. The original white paper. Whatever color you want to paint, it is what it is. Lucy's hostility and distance towards Sarah all stemmed from what she experienced when she was ignorant when she was a child. Sarah may have been afraid of hurting her, but she has been reluctant to mention it. However, at this moment, what the little girl needs is genuine inquiry and care. . All good intentions, but in the wrong way. Caution turned into indifference. Have we seen such misunderstandings less often? Finally, in the hospital, as Sarah faces survival issues, they open up to each other and tell their love. Mother and daughter love each other deeply, there is no doubt, but many times, we lack the correct communication and expression, perhaps, is the lack of an opportunity. But no one expects such an opportunity to come at a critical moment. Don't be too late, we can't wait. "I don't want to miss the process of getting to know you gradually", we don't want to, so don't hesitate, every time is the best opportunity, as long as there is still a chance, the sooner you understand, the more time you have to talk about love and hate , isn't it? Our problem is that we are too polite to strangers and too harsh to close people. Get rid of this problem and you will be fine.
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