Brother and sister love story

Coralie 2022-03-21 09:01:36

I read it again and still don't understand it. It seems to be a story of too much sex addiction. After reading some of the comments and thinking about it, sure enough. This movie says it's not what it seems. The film is about the shame of brother-sister love, the shame of his sister's one-night stand with his boss, and the shame of his own somewhat serious sexuality.
I feel like the male lead is trying to use perverted sex to "override" the shame of the fact that he is in love with his sister. I think he's trying to use a shitty behavior to escape this feeling, or use it as an excuse to love his sister; i.e., my sexuality is so perverted, then brother-sister love is better than this Up, it doesn't seem so perverted.
Of course, "truth" is not so easy to discover. It can be seen from many comments that most people are still looking at appearances. It is said that sex addiction brings him "shame"; some people think that his sister is here to "rescue" his sex addiction and so on. In fact, judging from the details of the movie, the male protagonist is a polite person with a strong moral code.
Therefore, he will always avoid his love for his sister, and always avoid his sister's love for him. And that love has indeed become a love. From the beginning of the phone call from his sister, which sister called her brother with such a tone?
This kind of sister has always wanted to complete love, and the brother's escape from love under moral pressure started very early. It can be seen from the conversation that the younger sister sang the song, the younger sister has tried to abuse herself since she was fifteen or six years old. So, this movie is really a bit "shameful", and it's a completely incest story.
However, as far as the movie is concerned, it is really a very interesting thing. A lot of detail is arranged to reveal this hidden thread. Let the uninformed people think that it is a person's "sexual perversion". And let those who scrutinize know that this is a "love pervert" thing.
From the beginning of the subway, the hero looks at the married blond woman, and at the end, the hero looks at the married blond woman. It can be said that at the beginning, the male protagonist watched it with love and fantasy; rather than seduce. I guess the male protagonist is thinking about this young woman who is very similar to his sister, "Will I be able to complete love with my sister, and if so, how good it would be." And so on. However, the reality is that that kind of love cannot be tolerated in the world, and the kind that he and his sister really love each other, so Mao Dun appeared. Therefore, his longest relationship was only 4 months. For him, the fact that he did not want to admit is that he has been waiting.
So his sister came. As she herself said, she was here to help him. She came to complete the love of their brother and sister. (However, this love is not only worldly intolerable, but also legally sinful. And the male protagonist is mainly morally unable to accept this fact.)
From the second day, the conversation between the siblings also revealed such details. My sister said, your hair is turning white? The subtext is, when are you going to escape? Just look at this love. Next sentence, do you think I'm fat? It was a questioning between lovers, because the younger sister discovered the earrings that her brother and the prostitute had once had.
Then they went to the subway station to wait for the bus and there was one more detail: the younger sister showed a tendency to self-destruct. The camera looks like it's about to jump off. So, my sister is also hopeful and desperate. She herself didn't know what to do. Had to die for love.
And the younger sister was able to find the thread on the hero's shoulder next, which showed her love for her brother. The brother's move is still to escape.
Next, the song that my sister sang was completely a confession song dedicated to her brother. Use New York to represent her brother, and she is willing to have a fresh start in New York, to go anywhere together, to wander together, it depends on you, her brother. Hearing her brother had tears in his eyes.
In the last conversation between siblings, my brother said, I didn't give birth to you, what responsibility do I have to you? Trying to separate the relationship between the two brothers and sisters. The younger sister's art of speaking seems to be a bit poor. During the conversation, it is "you are my brother" and "you and I are family". The original intention is to think that the elder brother is "responsible" for himself, but the result is that the elder brother becomes moral seat. So, my brother couldn't come down either, so he had to say something brilliant like you're a parasite to cover up. Both of them wanted the other to be the first to be the "bad guy" and to be the "forced" person. I don't want to pierce that layer of paper. It's all hard work.

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Shame quotes

  • Sissy Sullivan: We're not bad people. We just come from a bad place.

  • Sissy Sullivan: I'm trying, I'm trying to help you.

    Brandon Sullivan: How are you helping me, huh? How are you helping me? How are you helping me? Huh? Look at me. You come in here and you're a weight on me. Do you understand me? You're a burden. You're just dragging me down. How are you helping me? You can't even clean up after yourself. Stop playing the victim.

    Sissy Sullivan: I'm not playing the victim. If I left, I would never hear from you again. Don't you think that's sad? Don't you think that's sad? You're my brother.