This sentence comes from the movie This Means War, which is actually translated into "Love Rival War" in Chinese! Lauren, a single woman who said this, moved from Atlanta to a big city with her boyfriend, but found out that her boyfriend was cheating on him and broke up. She thought it was a mistake to fall in love with this boyfriend and follow him to move to a big city because of love. Yet another man who liked her said it wasn't a mistake because it made you who you are! This sentence appeared many times in the movie later (There's no mistake in life), which roughly means that there are no mistakes in life, because every mistake has a reason, and this reason makes everyone's path. Everyone's opportunities are different. In other words, every so-called mistake creates an ending, and this ending may completely change you and change your life. For better or worse, this is your life, and the reason why you become you!
If you think about it, that's true. You see, if Lauren hadn't moved to a new city with the boyfriend who made her emotionally wrong, she wouldn't have met the man she liked later, and she wouldn't have been because of it. And find lifelong happiness. Therefore, looking back, her so-called mistake was actually an opportunity to create her happiness in the future!
In our life, each of us believes that we have made more or less mistakes at each stage, so we have more or less regrets, and even hope that time can be reversed and that we can change these mistakes. In fact, if we look at the problem from another angle, without these mistakes, we would not have learned the lessons, and we would not have been more successful on the road of life in the future.
Women are often prone to think that they have made mistakes on the emotional road and chose the wrong man, which has caused all kinds of pain in their lives. We often hear mothers say to their daughters, I've said it long ago, if you didn't choose the wrong man, your life would be better! Being a mother is naturally for the good of her daughter. I hope that my daughter will not encounter the wrong man on the road of life, and it will be smoother. In fact, there is such a thing as smooth sailing in life, especially emotionally, sometimes you don't need a reason to fall in love with someone, because love itself is blind. When you really love someone, even if the person is obviously a badass, women can't extricate themselves. According to the theory that there are no mistakes in life, we do not need to regard the things that lead to the low tide of life as mistakes, because the future of every low tide may be a high tide, and those who have not experienced pain will not cherish happiness, or when happiness comes, Nor will it recognize that this is an opportunity for happiness!
In fact, if we Chinese women were taught from childhood that there are no mistakes in life, you should be brave to try. We may be very different, not be brooding about the hurt a man has done to us, not ruin a pot of soup because of a mouse poop, and not be wrong because a mistake has been made, let Pain follows you all your life. If there are no mistakes in life, we will liberate our spirit and the shackles of our thoughts, and have the courage to find what we love, even hate, and learn the true meaning of life in this love and hate, and become a A more successful self!
The single woman Lauren in the movie later chose this man who told her life was not wrong among the two men she liked equally, because a smart woman should not choose a better man, but choose a man The man who could make her a better man. This sentence has also made me ponder for a long time. If there are no mistakes in life, and women wisely choose a man who can make themselves better, then not only our life, but the world we live in will become a better place, right? !
Although the movie "Rivals of Love" is not very reliable, these few words about emotions have opened my eyes and even re-examined my life. In fact, looking back at the past, it was the so-called mistakes that changed the trajectory of our life, and the change in this trajectory made us who we are today. If we hadn’t encountered these mistakes and changed the original trajectory, our lives would have been changed. It's better or worse than it is now, we don't know, but when we see the people and things in our life that make us satisfied, such as children, such as family, such as friends, such as career and work, etc. As long as what we have now makes us happy, we have to say, the mistakes are worth it.
Next time, when my own mother tells me that it was a mistake, I'll tell her that there are no mistakes in life, when a certain mistake can make our own life better, or bring us a A better ending, that's it! (Editor-in-charge: Perfect Film Distribution)
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