After watching the first ten episodes and the past few American dramas, I have a new understanding of feelings (love)

Albertha 2022-03-04 08:01:47

From yesterday afternoon to today, I have been sitting in front of the computer watching "Displaced Youth" (crazy? Indeed, I am a little bit reluctant to give up what I like). This American drama mainly tells a series of stories that happened after two girls were wrongly reported in the hospital when they were born. The two girls' names are Bay and Dephne.

Before writing this article, I watched 10 episodes, 18 in total. In episode 10, both Bay and Dephne fall in love with the same boy, Emmett. Neither Dephne nor Emmett can hear.

I could have watched it forever, but I really don't want the plot to continue because I want to know if Dephne can end up with Emmett. I have a hunch that the two of them will definitely not be together in this play. Wondering why? Because I like Emmett, although I can't hear it, but my mind is more mature than those normal boys; I have a silent crush on Dephne for eight years without telling Dephne, and bear all the grievances that Dephne ignores alone (it should be because he is afraid of confessing, and his friends have no friends. I have to do it); I really pay attention to the girls I like, and I put a lot of thought into the gifts he gave to Bay and Dephne on their birthdays (is it because people who can't hear pay more attention than people who can hear? Is it because Emmett just doesn't have the ego of other boys, selfish?); Finally, Emmett is blond, blue-eyed, tall, a very sunny, handsome, and clean boy (such a boy is obviously more wretched than he looks , unhygienic boys to be attractive).

I actually don't know why I don't like Bay, maybe at the beginning of the plot, she was very self-conscious, likes to cause trouble, hurts others easily, never cares about other people's feelings, her love life is very chaotic, Start living among the rich. But Dephne was very considerate, sensible, and gentle from the very beginning. The characters in the play were all around her, she never got into trouble, and she lost her hearing at a young age, and her family conditions were not good (single parent, her father After losing her hearing, she left that house. Although the reason for leaving is not only explained in the follow-up plot, the fact is that she had almost half her life, and when she needed a complete family most, her father left), growing up all the way Endured too much ridicule, experienced too much suffering.

I love Dephne, and I do now. But she does have something I don't like. Emmett had a crush on her for eight years, was she really ignorant, or was it just that the selfishness and vanity of a little girl who could have Emmett as a backup at any time covered her normal emotional radar? I'm not Dephne, so, I don't know. But I really hope she's not because of vanity, because that kind of girl really doesn't deserve Emmett, but I also don't want Dephne to be really ignorant. In this way, I will feel that Dephne's emotional intelligence is very low, and it's really boring to Emmett, Just treat Emmett as a brother or a good friend, so the two of my favorite characters really don't fit together, because when two people are together, doesn't it mean that both sides like each other and are attracted to each other? Just like Bay and Emmett, although Bay can easily start a new relationship, but at least she is very real, she will stick to it if she likes it, she will be very honest from beginning to end, there will be no secret love, no fruitless, hurt Ambiguous, will be very bold to express their feelings, one kiss, and follow the heart. And Emmett also likes her (to be honest, so far, Emmett seems to like both, I'm not Emmett, I don't know what Emmett and the two are What is the difference between individuals being together), so the two of them should come to the end, right?

I think my own prejudice is largely influenced by traditional culture, because in Chinese romance films, it seems that the hero and heroine must stick to each other for life, and they have to be each other. They will never have feelings for another person. Nor can it be compared to the heroine (male lead). So, in my impression, relationship, love or marriage must find the one and only Mr.right. But I am an English fan, I like to watch all kinds of American dramas, starting from "Friends", the feelings in it It's a bit casual and chaotic, to "Gossip Girl", the emotional world of Even Worse, which completely turned my traditional view of love upside down, and then to "The L Word" and "Weeds", including this one "Switched at Birth", I don't. If you believe that one person can only fall in love with one person, like on the whole earth, it is absolutely two points and one line, and this line can only be composed of these two points. I no longer believe. Because I slowly began to feel that one you, you can find countless that he (she) in the world. It's just that it depends on which of them you have a deeper relationship with and met earlier. Also, are the two of you mature and lucky enough to have a relationship long enough to last the rest of your life.

Prejudice aside, I find it easier to deal with Bay, Dephne and Emmett's tangled love triangle. Can't say that Bay stole Emmett from Dephne, Emmett is a normal person too (at least I hope he's not a dumb asshole who doesn't even know who he really likes), so does Bay, Dephne, I'm not sure, but hopefully (Because of the eight-year crush, I began to doubt Dephne's emotional intelligence). In this way, no matter who is with whom, as long as both of them feel happy and their relatives and friends are happy, that's enough.

Just like ourselves, as long as we find something that can make each other happy and make our relatives and friends happy, we will actually find the one that belongs to you. Don’t be greedy~~~

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