The distance between "I really like you" and "I really love you"

Bennie 2022-03-19 09:01:04

In the beginning, you notice that person, often for some specific reason. . . Maybe you catch a glimpse of his trusty palms, maybe his hair smells like your favorite shampoo, maybe she smiles like your dream girl, maybe she's so eccentric that you think about it every day Who would have sex with a woman like her. . . But in any case, this attention only stays at the stage of attracting.

One day in a few years, where did you meet each other, maybe it was an embarrassing occasion that couldn't be more embarrassing, or when you least wanted to meet him, in short, at a not-so-ordinary moment, you met again and found There are some things about each other that are different from what they seem on the surface: the owner of wide, powerful and trustworthy hands is actually a single father, and the big boy with hair that smells of tropical fruits of Ikaru began to date not you but you. The roommate, the eccentric strong woman who had a hysterical fight with the waiter in the supermarket and then cried for no reason, the dream girl suddenly became your line boss just because she had an affair with the big boss. . .

The story has just begun.

You got to know each other, got to know each other, started to get to know each other, found interesting things about each other, felt all the freshness this person brought to you, you found out that a single father needs a woman to manage his life, the big boy found you after dating your roommate It's the dish he wants. The fragility of the female boss makes you have an infinite desire for protection. Dream girl is not the kind of stupid woman with bosoms and no brains, and then some kind of gland starts to secrete some strange and unnamed things. thing.

In an ordinary noon or evening, this strange and unnamed thing accumulates in the body, ferments, expands... Eyes meet, angry and nervous, he kissed you, then you kissed him too, you began to take off your clothes, then you had sex with him.

You like being with him, start thinking about him when you can't see him, who he is with now, you want to tell him you need him, hope he only likes you, and want to take every minute of him , enjoy his present and all future life. When you have a big fight, you realize that you hate him for this, but you want to know if he hates you because of it. Is this like it? Or is this love? If nothing happens, no one will deliberately distinguish this matter, and many people even do not want to distinguish. Why not ? Because " I love you "is much more complicated than " I like you " even though only two letters are different.

Suddenly one day the single father's son says he likes one of his dad's beautiful aunt colleagues as a mom, you find out that the shampoo boy and your roommate are still in a relationship, the strong woman thinks she has to start controlling everything in your life and you hate it the most That's it, dream girl said in a fight that she likes a man with a successful career but you just aren't. . . Yes, you feel hurt, yes, what I'm saying is that when we feel hurt in a relationship, you should realize, love is coming to you, we cannot choose to be loved or not, just follow your heart. A simple truth, Who can really hurt you ? Absolutely someone you do care about.

We can only hurt those who truly love themselves. The people who really care about you will hurt your feelings, sting your heart, and remind you of the happiest but most painful memories. At first, nothing else seems worth mentioning at this moment.

Therefore, not all relationships between men and women have true love. Some only have attraction, only sex, and only some superficial vanity. Although they are not far apart, there is still some distance. Many people may be like Emma in the movie, when they receive a danger signal, they retreat completely. She knows that doing so will hurt, and it will hurt very much, because she also has a kind heart, and she knows how to truly fall in love with the future. The pain and suffering and all the toughness and bravery it needs. So I don't hate Emma at all, and I believe she's a Capricorn because that's how I am. After tangled, I know if I really want to start, promiscuity is okay, but it really can't be promiscuous.

Finally, when this love begins to torment you, you must accept it as bravely as you accept all the good things it brings, because each torment makes you more sure: "you should know, if you come any closer, I'm not letting you go"

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No Strings Attached quotes

  • Adam: Hey, you can't call me and tell me that you miss me. I don't want to have that conversation on the phone. So you can't text me and you can't e-mail me and you can't write on my wall. Like, if you really miss me, you need to grow up and get in your car and come and see me.

  • Sam: I'm the guy she marries, Adam. You're the guy she fucked a couple of times in the handicapped bathroom.