【Remember your childhood dream? You don't have to think about it, just blurt out what you want to do, the person you want to be. ] There was "Old Boy" that I was so embarrassed about before, and now I watched another "Sunny" (also known as "Sunshine Sisters"), which made me burst into tears in the middle of the night. Originally a traditional Korean warm-hearted film, it tells the story of finding the members of the sisters "sunny" who were 20 years ago for a seriously ill friend. The content is very simple, and the whole film also strives to create a pure and deep friendship among the members. As the members are retrieved one by one, the former emotions are also awakened. At the same time, the sisters slowly find the buried The complete, self in dull or harsh reality. A transfer student, Nami, said, "I want to be a painter. The captain wants to mingle in the world of men and create his own world. The language teacher's daughter said, I want to gather all the handsome guys in the country. The fat girl Rose only wanted to open her double eyelids. The beauty shop manager's daughter wants to be Miss Korea. The only daughter of Jinzhiyuye wants to be a writer. Leng Meiren's school flower didn't say anything, she just learned to pose as a model. The high school students recorded it with dv, and in a positive tone, they talked and laughed to themselves who have successfully achieved their dreams in the future. But who would have thought that reality was always cruel. 20 years later, Nami plays the role of her wife and mother well all day long as if according to a schedule, but "Ren Nami has always lived in her distant memory". Even such an attentive performance is based on the daughter stealing money, being raped, and the indifference of the mother-daughter relationship. And husbands who rarely communicate just keep using money to satisfy their wives' longing eyes. The other members are either similar, or in a more bleak situation. Such a view of reality feels cruel, but this is the real world, isn't it. None of us walk out of society with dreams. When reality is cruel to us, we will tolerate it a little bit, and then we will be cruel, and we will tolerate it again. When reality polishes all of our edges and corners, it also buries our original selves. To put it mildly, we have become human, mature, and able to handle things. In fact, we have become sophisticated and tactful, and we are no longer who we were. We always say to ourselves, it’s okay, there is still time, and some things can be done later when there is a chance. But there are a few people who understand that this is just a form of self-relief. In fact, deep down, we also know that if we don’t do something now, we probably won’t do it for a lifetime. Thinking like this, it's always too cruel, so memory helps us heal, and slowly what we want to do at first is slowly buried in a corner of memory, and then one day I don't know what is touched, those buried Our emotions will be surging, instantly shattering the strong coat wrapped in our memory, so an "Old Boy" once touched the hearts of countless people. Now, I read "sunny" and then wrote a lot of nagging here. I don't want to call those things dreams. Dreams are too beautiful and great, they can only be used for collection and worship. And what I'm talking about is more of what we can do with effort or breath and always have an excuse to give up. For example, we who love to travel, envy the old backpacker's world tour itinerary, why dare not follow suit? And why is my Tibet, my Daocheng always only in my plans and expectations? This is not to encourage everyone to sell a house tomorrow, but to hope that when we have a goal, we must make some actions for it, such as a detailed plan, an effort to execute according to the plan. If we can’t set off immediately, set a date and a timetable for the departure first, otherwise we will always regret why we didn’t have enough courage and effort. It’s not scary to be out of reach for a while, but it’s scary to bury yourself slowly, because after a long burial, it will really be forgotten and abandoned by you. Do you remember when you were 17 and you blurted out what you wanted to do, what kind of person you wanted to be? The 17-year-old Nami fell out of love and sat alone on the train crying. The arrogant and lonely figure fell into the camera, full of the beauty and pain of youth. And 20 years later, Nami was also sitting on the train. It was difficult to tell how she felt when she faced her original self and felt distressed? pity? Or feel the same way? And they came from different directions of the camera, and went to the same place, and the 20-year time-space difference was so integrated. 17-year-old Nami walks alone on the street. She is so young that she longs for someone to understand her pain, and resists others from entering her heart, because no one can really understand herself, because everyone thinks that what they have experienced is the most painful. Therefore, the self after 20 years is the best person to talk to. She doesn't need to say anything, she just hugs her silently, because she is herself, so she understands her, because she is herself, so what she has experienced is what she has experienced, and because it is herself, so she can vent so at ease . This is my favorite shot of the whole film. The 17-year-old youth, the pain of first love, the loneliness of youth, and the calm and peaceful after the vicissitudes of life are all quietly displayed through the camera. This is also the reason why I like Korean literary films. The pictures are beautiful, the music is moving, there is no language, but there are thousands of emotions surging. They always easily capture some small and highly emotional relationships between people. Details, even a look, an action. This is also another sub-line emotion that the whole film shows by jumping out of the sisterhood, Nami's love. From the beginning to the end, none of the sisters knew that Nami Dugu's secret love, and she fell out of love in a hurry, and before she even had time to say it, Nami faced it alone. Humans are so strange, they are born alone, and they tend to live in groups. Because how can anyone know themselves better than they do? And no matter how much other people know and support you, when you finally need to face it, you can only face it alone. Because life is yours and no one can help you. You are not brave, who is strong for you? Three [Ren Nami, what do you want to do, or who do you want to be? What kind of person can you be at this age, let's make do with it. 】 This conversation scares me. I never thought about what I would be like ten years from now, and I don’t even dare to think about it twenty years later, but the only thing I think about is that I was counting the days in the desert and I was afraid that I would make do with it. , I am even more afraid of mediocrity and quiet life. Everyone's verdict on success is different. I'm not a strong woman, and I'm not trying to make a career out of it. I just want to live a simple, calm and peaceful life, never lose my love and yearning for life, and always have motivation in my heart. Just like participating in a small activity on Weibo some time ago, I wrote a message to myself ten years later: [You can love him very much, but you have to love your parents more; You can take the child as your life, but you must understand that his life is his own; You can be very fond of family, but you must maintain a complete self; Every touch that life has to offer. Finally, I hope that ten years later, you will still have a heart that is neither impetuous nor complicated. ] Enjoying life is the secret to my happiness all the time. Growing up every day is my secret to enjoying life. Even a movie, a book, can make me grow, even if it's just a little epiphany. Just like I watched "sunny", I have more motivation to live the life I want. Everyone's life is full of stress, setbacks, and pain. With these people, there is detachment and growth. This is the beauty of life. Don't make a shell for yourself for various reasons. It is safe to wrap it up, but if you don't break the cocoon, you will lose the possibility of spreading your wings. Life is not afraid of ups and downs, the most afraid of "make do with". If one day I get old, I must not forget it. Be brave all the time, grow every day, and know how to enjoy life. Sunny, sunshine, thank you for shining into my heart at this moment. ———————————————————— Postscript: Dear friends, my Daocheng plan has entered the countdown. Tibet has also been included in the specific itinerary plan. To take advantage of this life, there is still strength, energy, and dreams, to take a good look at the world! Bless me! ________________________________________ Postscript: In 2014, I have completed the trip, from Chongqing--Chengdu--Cambodia--Malaysia--Nepal--Tibet, which took more than 1 month. I didn't expect that the dream of Tibet would be realized like this, and I didn't expect to complete this journey alone. . . Writing this here, I just want to answer my original words, so as to prove that I am not the one who is always planning. . . However, due to various reasons, I haven't been able to go to Daocheng yet, but as long as I'm still on the road, I will be able to reach it one day. Enjoying life is my secret to being happy all the time. Growing up every day is my secret to enjoying life. Even a movie, a book, can make me grow, even if it's just a little epiphany. Just like I watched "sunny", I have more motivation to live the life I want. Everyone's life is full of stress, setbacks, and pain. With these people, there is detachment and growth. This is the beauty of life. Don't make a shell for yourself for various reasons. It is safe to wrap it up, but if you don't break the cocoon, you will lose the possibility of spreading your wings. Life is not afraid of ups and downs, the most afraid of "make do with". If one day I get old, I must not forget it. Be brave all the time, grow every day, and know how to enjoy life. Sunny, sunshine, thank you for shining into my heart at this moment. ———————————————————— Postscript: Dear friends, my Daocheng plan has entered the countdown. Tibet has also been included in the specific itinerary plan. To take advantage of this life, there is still strength, energy, and dreams, to take a good look at the world! Bless me! ________________________________________ Postscript: In 2014, I have completed the trip, from Chongqing--Chengdu--Cambodia--Malaysia--Nepal--Tibet, which took more than 1 month. I didn't expect that the dream of Tibet would be realized like this, and I didn't expect to complete this journey alone. . . Writing this here, I just want to answer my original words, so as to prove that I am not the one who is always planning. . . However, due to various reasons, I haven't been able to go to Daocheng yet, but as long as I'm still on the road, I will be able to reach it one day. Enjoying life is my secret to being happy all the time. Growing up every day is my secret to enjoying life. Even a movie, a book, can make me grow, even if it's just a little epiphany. Just like I watched "sunny", I have more motivation to live the life I want. Everyone's life is full of stress, setbacks, and pain. With these people, there is detachment and growth. This is the beauty of life. Don't make a shell for yourself for various reasons. It is safe to wrap it up, but if you don't break the cocoon, you will lose the possibility of spreading your wings. Life is not afraid of ups and downs, the most afraid of "make do with". If one day I get old, I must not forget it. Be brave all the time, grow every day, and know how to enjoy life. Sunny, sunshine, thank you for shining into my heart at this moment. ———————————————————— Postscript: Dear friends, my Daocheng plan has entered the countdown. Tibet has also been included in the specific itinerary plan. To take advantage of this life, there is still strength, energy, and dreams, to take a good look at the world! Bless me! ________________________________________ Postscript: In 2014, I have completed the trip, from Chongqing--Chengdu--Cambodia--Malaysia--Nepal--Tibet, which took more than 1 month. I didn't expect that the dream of Tibet would be realized like this, and I didn't expect to complete this journey alone. . . Writing this here, I just want to answer my original words, so as to prove that I am not the one who is always planning. . . However, due to various reasons, I haven't been able to go to Daocheng yet, but as long as I'm still on the road, I will be able to reach it one day. Sunny, sunshine, thank you for shining into my heart at this moment. ———————————————————— Postscript: Dear friends, my Daocheng plan has entered the countdown. Tibet has also been included in the specific itinerary plan. To take advantage of this life, there is still strength, energy, and dreams, to take a good look at the world! Bless me! ________________________________________ Postscript: In 2014, I have completed the trip, from Chongqing--Chengdu--Cambodia--Malaysia--Nepal--Tibet, which took more than 1 month. I didn't expect that the dream of Tibet would be realized like this, and I didn't expect to complete this journey alone. . . Writing this here, I just want to answer my original words, so as to prove that I am not the one who is always planning. . . However, due to various reasons, I haven't been able to go to Daocheng yet, but as long as I'm still on the road, I will be able to reach it one day. Sunny, sunshine, thank you for shining into my heart at this moment. ———————————————————— Postscript: Dear friends, my Daocheng plan has entered the countdown. Tibet has also been included in the specific itinerary plan. To take advantage of this life, there is still strength, energy, and dreams, to take a good look at the world! Bless me! ________________________________________ Postscript: In 2014, I have completed the trip, from Chongqing--Chengdu--Cambodia--Malaysia--Nepal--Tibet, which took more than 1 month. I didn't expect that the dream of Tibet would be realized like this, and I didn't expect to complete this journey alone. . . Writing this here, I just want to answer my original words, so as to prove that I am not the one who is always planning. . . However, due to various reasons, I haven't been able to go to Daocheng yet, but as long as I'm still on the road, I will be able to reach it one day.
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Postscript: Some time ago (2021.05.23) I brought my two daughters to Dujiangyan. Originally, I planned to take them to Daocheng and try to drive as far as possible (because the youngest daughter is only 2 years old) , if the high-level reaction is serious, return) Helpless, in the event of the Yunnan earthquake, Western Sichuan and Yunnan are too close, and our family members unanimously opposed us to enter Western Sichuan, so we stopped in Dujiangyan, which is probably the closest I have come to Daocheng Yading! But that's okay, I've already planned to do it again next year, and this year I'm going to plan to train them both! Try to get to Daocheng once!
I feel that everyone is still paying attention to me, because I have been living abroad in recent years, and it is actually difficult to have the opportunity to achieve it, especially after having two little cuties before and after, my concerns have increased... However, they are slowly growing up now. I have been traveling with us since a few months, so I believe it will not be long before our family can go to Daocheng together!
I just saw that a friend was asking me about my current situation, so I couldn't help answering it. I also encouraged everyone to work hard for what you think in your heart at any time! let's work hard together!
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