We often say that when you get married, find someone you love, or find someone who loves you. I always say, if you are in a relationship, find someone you like, and if you get married, of course find someone who loves you and treats you well. How naive and selfish you are when you speak. I never thought that whether it's love or marriage, it's a matter of two people. Happiness belongs to two people, and so does misfortune. How much Dean loves cindy, I've seen so many movies and TV shows, I can't think of anything better than him. Romantic love at first sight, passionate pursuit, and careful sex is like treating a rare treasure. Cindy went to him when he knew that he was pregnant. He knew that the child might not be his own, but he was by his side when cindy chose to have an abortion. The girl on the operating table was frightened and retreated. Dean hugged her and said "let`s be a family". Then I met my parents and was beaten by my fiancee's ex-boyfriend. Dean loves cindy so much, so much that he only recognizes her in this life, so much that he accepts her good and her bad, and loves her like fireworks. When cindy walked into the church with dean with a big belly, he was in love with him, the tears on his face wouldn't lie. Love has really come. So, what exactly made us like this?
When did we start, we couldn't finish a sentence calmly; when did we just complain about each other; when did I start looking at you without a trace of tenderness in my eyes? I think cindy also wants to figure out these issues. Dean has always been so gentle to his wife and daughter, and even more so to hold his daughter in his mouth and palms, which is more than Tom's love for Susan. Dean takes cindy to the love hotel, trying to get back the feeling he once had. In the singing that only belonged to the two of them, Cindy put down his defenses and tension, and the atmosphere seemed to return to the night many years ago. It's a pity that the good feeling was so short-lived, and they fell into disputes and pain again. Ironically, in the hotel's future room, dean and cindy did not find their past and lost their future. He said, I don't want to be someone's husband, it's not in my life, but when I meet you, I want to be your husband and the father of my daughter. He said, let's have another child, a child of ours. This is really, a man's almost humble request.
But we can't understand each other anymore. I don't understand your feelings, you can't understand my feelings, and we can't even say a word between us. I love you so much, I just want to live with you like before, have romance and passion, and raise our daughter well. I know that I am not worthy of you, and in my heart no one is worthy of you. But you finally started to dislike me, didn't you, you started to pick on my work, and complained that I was lazy and didn't want to make progress?
No one can guarantee the future. The vows made in front of the Lord when they get married say that they will love each other forever, and that they will be with you no matter how good or bad they are. But who would have known that in just a few short years we have become so unbearable. It's not your fault, you've always done well, maybe it's my fault, a mistake when I was young changed my destiny and kept me in the shadows. I'm sorry, I don't love you enough.
At the end of the movie, the scene of the two crying in the kitchen and talking about breaking up overlapped with the scene of crying and hugging in the church when they got married. The action was almost the same, but it was already different. Over the music at the end of the movie, I was sobbing, not knowing why I was so sad. Dean's love is really like a firework that illuminates the picture at the end of the film.
The movie is pessimistic and realistic. I deeply believe that all around us, every couple's life is not what it seems on the surface. To choose marriage is to live with one person. Your good and bad, all your quirks, anger, inner panic and darkness must be displayed in front of the other person. Over the years, there has been no winner in this tragedy called marriage. How difficult it is to keep love in the midst of the trials and tribulations of married life. I know that there are people who respect each other and grow old together, but how much love is there in such a marriage? When love slowly recedes, the burden of marriage is exposed like a dry riverbed, so everyone comforts themselves that it is family love. I have a very pessimistic attitude towards marriage. I can't stand the life that I'm tired of but still tied to each other and torture each other. I'm especially afraid of trying to save but unable to do anything. It means that love is really dead. Rather than that, it would be better to get together and leave, leave a handsome back in the memory of the other party, no matter how sad or sad, cry to yourself, and say harsh words to yourself.
No matter how bad the world is, I still believe in love. Love is happiness and freedom, not mutual harm. Yes, if one day, my other half comes to tell me that he can't do anything for me anymore, and can't continue to love me, in the name of love, I will let him go, and there is no resentment.
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