Love is not you being cheap or I am being cheap

Dorothy 2022-03-16 09:01:03

The biggest advantage of watching movies in a country where copyright is not protected is that the economic cost is low. If the Internet speed is strong, even the time cost of downloading can be ignored. The biggest cost of watching a movie is the time invested in watching it. And modern society is a society that advertises time as money, so to balance the two, modern people should learn to resolutely attack bad films and resolutely crack down on shameful behaviors that steal our "money". But having said that, watching a bad movie is like deciding whether to go to a party or not. Although I know that this time will be the same again and again, I am afraid that if something wonderful happens, I will be absent. Reluctantly to participate, wait until the end of the song and then scolding and wasting time is really pitiful. Even so, this masochism will be staged at the next party. No Strings Attached—translated into "Love Wirelessly", "Meeting with Rice", "No Sex and No Love"... It's really varied—it's just tailor-made for the psychology of modern people. If it weren't for the two pretty faces of Natalie Portman and Ashton Kutcher, this film really makes people unable to even carry on self-abuse.

All in all, more than 100 minutes of film can be summed up in one sentence: the hero and heroine decide to become friends after an accidental relationship. Later, the male protagonist was not satisfied and decided to transfer the relationship from the lower body to both the upper and lower body. The heroine was afraid of love and escaped. When the heroine wakes up and goes after the hero, the hero doesn't seem to care anymore. In the end, the film takes a twist and turns, and the hero and heroine fall in love with each other - so old-fashioned that modern people can make up a plot script with their toenails. In fact, it is still too long to use a paragraph. It can be summed up in one sentence: after men and women are finished, the first man will be mean, the second woman will be mean, and finally everyone will be mean. So, this is a movie about love being cheap and keeping balance.

Jianghu rumor: In a relationship, there will always be one person who is cheap. So, love is not you being cheap or I am being cheap. In terms of total amount, the cheapness committed is conserved. As far as the individual is concerned, the cheapness of committing is not necessarily balanced. There are two main modes of cheating: unilateral cheating and double cheating games.

Unilateral humiliation can be further divided into conditional and unconditional humiliation. Conditional humiliation includes a "protein-based" relationship like Engels said, where "protein" can be money, power or status, and where there is desire, there is a transaction. And playboy sentiment. If being cheap is an investment in a relationship and pleasure is an output, playboy-style people are definitely speculators, because they don’t think about long-term, high input, high output, quick results and short time; unconditional being cheap is like Eileen Chang. It's "low to the dust", it's not bad to be able to bloom, but I'm afraid that, like Qin Xianglian, she will be used as a rag and thrown aside, and she will be trampled on a few times. Of course, the world is vast, the arrangement of relationships is endless, and unilateral humiliation presents the characteristics of a variety of special circumstances. But in essence, people are cheap, and more or less hope that such a person can be unconditional against themselves. In fact, if the scope is not limited to love, this is not an unattainable luxury. The relationship that is closest to the unilateral mode of debauchery is the relationship between parents and children.

The types of two-sided cheap games can be found in the types of games, which can be divided into dynamic games with complete information, static games with incomplete information, static games with complete information and dynamic games with incomplete information. By the nature of being cheap, people want to maximize the benefit of others who are cheap to themselves. "Even if I don't go, Zining won't continue." Look, our ancestors started to think like this thousands of years ago. Mr. Qian Zhongshu said clearly: "'Zi Ning won't come?' It's too small to blame yourself and high expectations for others." He clearly endured the lovesickness that he didn't see for three days, but he was still holding back, waiting for the other party to let go of his body first. . Whether it is selfishness or self-esteem, people are sensitive and fragile after all, and they are afraid to deliver their sincerity but not get rewarded, or even trample them in exchange. So I was careful, preferring to go around a few more bends and climb a few more slopes in order to gain a favorable position in this game. Some people may say that true love does not care about giving and returning, and this is true, and the world has and will continue to give such examples. But how long can this "true love" last? It's just that the only person who has never expected to pay back is Santa Claus.

If you make a fool of yourself, I make a fool of yourself, and finally find a balance between making a fool of each other. It is good to achieve a balance between making a fool of yourself. The most fear is that you are affectionate and I have intentions, but you care too much about the gains and losses. All games are exhausted. After all, you are cheap and I am cheap. In the end, you can come together after a detour. Sometimes it only happens in movies.

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No Strings Attached quotes

  • Adam: Hey, you can't call me and tell me that you miss me. I don't want to have that conversation on the phone. So you can't text me and you can't e-mail me and you can't write on my wall. Like, if you really miss me, you need to grow up and get in your car and come and see me.

  • Sam: I'm the guy she marries, Adam. You're the guy she fucked a couple of times in the handicapped bathroom.