In the movie, the husband made a lot of concessions to save his wife's heart. In addition to the hot butt and cold face conversation, the most decisive thing was to spend the two-person world. Cupid's Nest or Future House?
The wife's attempt at the husband's two-person world was as cold as ever, and she asked a question and poured cold water. Finally, because of time constraints, she chose the future house. Even if there is no time problem, she will not go to the ambiguous cupid's love nest. Just hearing the name is enough for her to avoid her. She refuses to look at her husband, and it is more indifferent to him than to say that she is cold.
The first time I heard the name, Future House, I didn't feel anything at all. When I watched it for the second time, I realized how bloody and vicious the movie was: Everyone, especially unmarried men and women, this is what your future will look like, the future Marriage, your future house! !
What does the future look like, come to the future house! !
First of all, I have to call my daughter. The wife said a few common words, don't forget to pee before going to bed, and the husband is very enthusiastic and imitates the voice of the future person with his daughter, which is miserable and boring. Like, he was trying to liven up the whole atmosphere, and his wife's heart was about to shake and she was about to laugh. When he played the song "you and me", the time went back to the past. There was no lack of deep male accompaniment in the slow and leisurely manner, and the young girl sang it freely and candidly. The wife came out after wiping her hair, swayed to the music, and returned to her youthful appearance without any worries. The lights also seemed to start to soften, and there wasn't a moment when I wanted them to break up, and there wasn't a moment when I dared to say they wouldn't. Even now, I know that this tenderness is only momentary, like an illusion. Don't talk, just look at each other.
The conversation begins, and I believe in it the most. The two hold different opinions, and they each think they are right, but they do not understand each other. This is also our future. This kind of talk that starts with patience and ends with failure has happened more than once. At the end of the movie, my wife said, I can't help it, and you can't help it either. We couldn't help arguing. Every time there is a quarrel, the wife always wants to get to the point, and the husband always holds on to a certain boring detail, or holds a certain point of view that is inconsistent with the secular utilitarianism, and breaks up unhappily. This is how the estrangement is made. The wife is unwilling, and the husband is inferior. The words could not go on, let alone the peace on the bed.
Some small details are very durable. .
At the beginning, when the husband learned that the dog was dead, he sat there crying, and the wife hugged him and comforted him again and again. When he said a fuck, the situation took a turn for the worse, she was no longer affectionate with him, even a little tired. She erected her partition wall, as usual.
Women are always women. When the feeling is gone, there is nothing to say about love. When her emotional life is chaotic, she still yearns for true love, and her grandmother still loves listening to love stories at such an old age. This is the eternal pursuit of all women. Dean said women are always looking for Prince Charming but marrying men with stable incomes. I don't understand, are these two contradictory?
Loved by all, she danced him by standing in front of the heart-shaped sticker door. Young men and women, this lens, this experience, is all-embracing in every era.
The last piece of music, lasts a long time. The same piece of music was used for the marriage and the decision to divorce. The bass is deep and the treble is pleasant. When they got married, the bride and groom left pure and moving tears. When they divorced, the feelings were many times stronger. She looked at his back, and he took heavy steps, but there were no more tears to shed.
He doesn't want his children to live in a broken home, because that's how he grew up. She lives in a rowdy home with her children not far away because her parents are always rowdy. Divorce or quarrel, which one is better? Which do you think is better?
Cupid's love nest has turned into a future house, where there is a quarrel that will eventually divorce.
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