The biggest highlight of the film is Aniston and Nicole Kidman. Interestingly, the ex-wives of the two most handsome men in the world met. Aside from Aniston, who has a hot body and has repeatedly gone into battle, in fact, what the film really wants to illustrate is a love phenomenon: which is more reliable, love at first sight or love after a long time?
The film's introduction is due to a misunderstanding at the beginning. Sandler's successful plastic surgeon meets a sweet 23-year-old girl and decides to settle down with Aniston's colleague pretending to be his ex-wife. . While in Hawaii, Sandler discovered that he and Aniston knew each other so well. Familiar with all his preferences, her frowns and smiles are actually in each other's hearts. In the past, two people found that they fell in love with each other, and they were already inseparable.
But many times, the feeling of love is a momentary thing. For example, when you meet a handsome and unfamiliar man on the road and he asks you the time, or a beautiful and tall woman asks for directions, you may produce sex hormones and secrete testosterone and estrogen, and you may think you are in love at first sight. And people who believe in love at first sight and experience love at first sight in real life, I believe they all have dominant genes, and they are all romantic. Well, even if you both have a shape that attracts the opposite sex and you are in a relationship, you don't know each other. At this stage, everyone relies on imagination to fall in love, and the other person is not the real person in their brains, but a projection of their ideal object. That is the ending of Sandler and the Sweet Woman in the film.
People who believe in love over time are relatively mature and rational people. They have a relatively strong ability to control themselves, and they will not let their emotional floodgates flood at will, nor will they close themselves. In terms of emotional grasp, they can delay gratification, and sufficient patience also comes from self-confidence.
However, for people who have a narrow social circle and do not know the opposite sex, it is actually more unrealistic and unreliable than falling in love at first sight. According to the "2009 Survey Report on Chinese Marriage and Love", nearly 62% of people believe that the social circle is too narrow, and about 30% of single people think that they will never meet a reliable and developmental opposite sex in a year. Women are often reluctant to lower their mate selection standards, and many single beautiful women miss the opportunity.
On the other hand, love is entirely the result of chance. Even if there are people of the opposite sex around, but there is always no call or feeling, what should I do? Let’s take a step back and talk about it, what should I do if the opposite sex around me has been in love for a long time, but the other party doesn’t feel it or I don’t feel it?
Therefore, there is a formula like this: the total number of people you meet in a lifetime: 29200*1000=29200000 people, the probability of two people falling in love within the selectable range is: 0.007*0.007=0.000049 (forty-nine millionths.. .
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So, at 21, I started to feel oppressed.
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