somewhere only we know

Ivy 2022-03-21 09:01:47

When I was in junior high school, my spiritual mentor, the person who could see through me the most, my brother often told me "go listen to a xxx song" or "go and read this xxx book".
This somewhere only we know became one of the songs on my music list under such circumstances.
Five years on, it's been used in an ordinary, star-studded movie with a Disney-esque ending.
Three years later, I finally finished watching this movie and accidentally heard the song from eight years ago.

It's an ordinary movie, with the strong American flavor in BJ's Singles Diary and True Love. Bring in a group of stars, tell a few love stories that are on and off, put on some emotional music, run a few lines of subtitles, and say a few seemingly clever words.
But so.

But there are countless young women who see this video as a bible to wake up their confusion - you see, it's just the most simple truth, I'm surprised, why can't you figure it out?
Every word, tone, and action that the two met when they began to analyze the end of a woman's thoughts, there would always be a man who completely forgot that he had just met a woman while playing games and watching football.
Please, we are all animals. Seeing that your appearance is conducive to the development of my family's genes, the genes ordered me to come over and have a few words with you to flirt with you. Then Gene said I'm hungry, I want to eat, I'm bored, I want to play games, so why should I call you with nothing to say?

I understand how women's brains grow, and I understand how men's brains grow.
But I don't understand why you humans are doing this, step by step, the authorities do their best to torture themselves to advance and retreat.

At the end, there is actually a Disney-style "the world is still beautiful and it will be okay no matter what".
So there is the part where you open the door and see you, there is the part where you pack up your old clothes and see the engagement ring, and there is the part where you start a new life again, and there is always another season in your life.
Although I scoffed at it, I was still moved.

Marry or not, love not love, love me but not me, love you but not you, eternity is not eternal, warm and not enthusiastic, the human heart is too complicated.
Together, love is ruined by this relationship. Separation, it is regret and lament.
Married, too much bondage, too much doubt. If you don't get married, you talk about the so-called sense of security.
Even a happy marriage is ruined by others in the end, or is ruined by decoration.
Look at how fragile the human heart is and how unbearable the feelings are.

But there are still worthwhile people, become each other's exception, lie to each other with a "I love you" lie, and lie to each other for a lifetime.

Who knows, I am indeed moved, and I am indeed cynical and doubtful and pessimistic.

Understand why life should be lived. Also, don't watch romantic movies on windy days, it's easy to be discouraged and frustrated.

just to find somewhere only we know

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  • Providenci 2022-03-23 09:01:47

    Only Jen&Ben is a little touching, the rest are clichés and quite satisfactory.

  • Damion 2022-01-26 08:18:21

    He likes you or not, how could you not know. If you have ever seen a person the way someone loves you, how can you not recognize it when you see you again.

He's Just Not That Into You quotes

  • Mary: I had this guy leave me a voice mail at work so I called him at home and then he e-mailed me to my Blackberry and so I texted to his cell and then he e-mailed me to my home account and the whole thing just got out of control. And I miss the days when you had one phone number and one answering machine and that one answering machine has one cassette tape and that one cassette tape either had a message from a guy or it didn't. And now you just have to go around checking all these different portals just to get rejected by seven different technologies. It's exhausting.

  • Angela: They just so sneaky that you think it was your idea.

    Frances: Yeah. You're sitting back and you're like: "Oh, yeah. This my idea. But wait a second, why am I alone? Why am I unhappy?"

    Angela: "Why have I gained 20 pounds?"

    Frances: They Jedi mind-trick you.