what's so scary about love

Rowena 2022-03-20 09:01:28

do you know? Mature, I have never been afraid of the twists and turns of love. On the contrary, I think, this is the medicine of love. No waves, no events, love that doesn't need to be tested, it's okay, but, is it possible? Obviously, difficult. It's risky, at least, it gives people more confidence to face what I find most difficult - trivial life.
Different pursuits, no common language, seems to be communicating, but in fact speaking the words of two worlds; different living habits, can't stand it, gasping for breath, embarrassed and unbearable; different ways of thinking, the time difference of love, Loneliness is unbearable; many things like that, when hugs are no longer comforting, when a kiss is no longer a love...
Who gave us the confidence that we swore at the beginning? How to get through this kind of thing. Of course, there are lovers who have been in love with each other for ten years, but ordinary you and me, how do you get over the wall of human hearts?
If, after enough setbacks, we still can't be together... that is? ……

You see, in the film, at least he still loves her. But she didn't want to talk to him anymore.
Blame her? Running around in trivial life, trying to climb up, I feel that he is not man enough.
But how could a man who is not manly marry her when she is vulnerable.
Can you see how he loves her? The warmth is unbearable. Even when aggressive, crazy stupid? I don't think so at all.
You see, at least he is still willing to communicate with her. In the emotional confrontation, he is most afraid of not saying a word to the other party, right?

But in the fireworks, there was only one figure of him left. he wept.

I don't know why you didn't recommend me to watch it, and I don't know what detail made you feel.
However, when I saw dean gently move Cindy's hand away, I thought of you.
I thought of you when I saw dean gently brushing cindy's hair.
You walked to the airport with your luggage in the cold wind, and carefully helped me zip up my coat.

Love is terrible and devours men and women. But without love, how can the road go on?
Let's have the confidence to cross the unknown fireworks, okay?

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Blue Valentine quotes

  • Dean: Tell me a joke.

    Cindy: So there's a child molester and a little boy walking into the woods. The child molester and the little boy keep walking further and further. And it's getting darker and darker. And they're going deeper and deeper into the woods. And the child molester... The little boy looks at the child molester and he says, "Gee, mister! I'm getting scared." And the child molester looks down at him and says, "You think you're scared, kid? I gotta walk outta here alone."

    [Dean shakes his head]

    Cindy: You don't think that's funny?

    Dean: No.

    Cindy: I do.

  • Jerry: Cindy doesn't usually bring her boyfriends home for dinner. So, uh, I'm thinking this might be serious.

    Glenda: Don't listen to him.

    Dean: I hope so.

    Jerry: You hope so?

    Dean: Yes, sir. I mean, I'm pretty serious.