what's so scary about love

Rowena 2022-03-20 09:01:28

do you know? Mature, I have never been afraid of the twists and turns of love. On the contrary, I think, this is the medicine of love. No waves, no events, love that doesn't need to be tested, it's okay, but, is it possible? Obviously, difficult. It's risky, at least, it gives people more confidence to face what I find most difficult - trivial life.
Different pursuits, no common language, seems to be communicating, but in fact speaking the words of two worlds; different living habits, can't stand it, gasping for breath, embarrassed and unbearable; different ways of thinking, the time difference of love, Loneliness is unbearable; many things like that, when hugs are no longer comforting, when a kiss is no longer a love...
Who gave us the confidence that we swore at the beginning? How to get through this kind of thing. Of course, there are lovers who have been in love with each other for ten years, but ordinary you and me, how do you get over the wall of human hearts?
If, after enough setbacks, we still can't be together... that is? ……

You see, in the film, at least he still loves her. But she didn't want to talk to him anymore.
Blame her? Running around in trivial life, trying to climb up, I feel that he is not man enough.
But how could a man who is not manly marry her when she is vulnerable.
Can you see how he loves her? The warmth is unbearable. Even when aggressive, crazy stupid? I don't think so at all.
You see, at least he is still willing to communicate with her. In the emotional confrontation, he is most afraid of not saying a word to the other party, right?

But in the fireworks, there was only one figure of him left. he wept.

I don't know why you didn't recommend me to watch it, and I don't know what detail made you feel.
However, when I saw dean gently move Cindy's hand away, I thought of you.
I thought of you when I saw dean gently brushing cindy's hair.
You walked to the airport with your luggage in the cold wind, and carefully helped me zip up my coat.

Love is terrible and devours men and women. But without love, how can the road go on?
Let's have the confidence to cross the unknown fireworks, okay?

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Blue Valentine quotes

  • Cindy: [Cindy runs to the car while Dean saunters] Fuck! Give me the keys. I fucking want a divorce!

    [Dean pauses, sucks his ring finger, removes his ring and throws it into the bushes]

  • Dean: [long silence before Dean speaks] You know, it's not just us, we got a little girl we gotta think about.

    [breaks into tears]

    Cindy: I know... I... I can't do this anymore.

    Dean: You're just thinking about yourself. What about Frankie? You want her to grow up in a broken home? Is that what you want?

    Cindy: I am thinking about Frankie.

    Dean: You're not thinking about Frankie.

    Cindy: I am thinking about Frankie.

    Dean: No, you're not. Is this how you want her to grow up?

    Cindy: I don't want her to grow up in a home where her parents treat each other like this.

    [Dean cries and hits the wall four times]

    Cindy: Don't.

    Dean: I'm sorry. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Baby, I'm sorry.

    Cindy: [Cindy sobs] I can't do this anymore.

    Dean: I know. Baby, I'm just fighting, you know? Fighting for my family. I don't know what to do. I don't know what else to do.