Because I don't always have a good death, and I don't have the opportunity to try to live with the person I like to the end or even to a bland life, so I can only guess what that kind of life will be like. The movie "Blue Valentine's Day" was recommended to me by a sister paper, and she said that she had a lot of feelings after watching it. I read it over several nights. Because I've been so tired lately, I can fall asleep easily. But... this movie does have the urge to make me want to talk.
Today is White Day. My best friend told me that there will be discounts in the mall again. For me, it doesn't matter what color Valentine's Day is, the various discounts in the mall may be much more attractive.
What makes this movie still fresh in the memory is its narrative method, various interspersed, happy in love and various contradictions in life after marriage and having children. Every comparison makes my heart hurt. People, always want to avoid things that hurt or look uncomfortable. However, it seems that in practice it is not always such a happy scene.
I forgot whether I had discussed with people, if in the end it was a bland or even a quarrel, what was the point of those happy, sticky times. But now it seems that maybe it doesn't matter. It's scary to be just like this, it's scary to adapt to it, and it's scary to get used to it. The song that they once loved the most may become meaningless after so many years. Reality is scary.
Is it true that many people are on the verge of living a seemingly peaceful life on the surface, and their hearts are long gone, or they are powerless. Even after get off work, even if I didn't cheat, I would find fun by myself, in short, I just didn't want to go home and be with that person. If one day like this, for me. rather die.
So in reality, the fantasist must die after all.
As to whether or not to believe in love, it seems that I have discussed it with many people. But I think the most terrifying answer is, I believe, but I believe in others, not myself. Aha~ this feeling is indescribably wonderful.
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