Fantasy people must die in the end

Kiley 2022-03-19 09:01:04

I have some doubts and curiosity about many things, especially ones I haven't tried myself. So film has become a medium that allows us to see the stories in other ordinary people's lives through the lives of others, allowing us to discover some differences or find some resonance.
Because I don't always have a good death, and I don't have the opportunity to try to live with the person I like to the end or even to a bland life, so I can only guess what that kind of life will be like. The movie "Blue Valentine's Day" was recommended to me by a sister paper, and she said that she had a lot of feelings after watching it. I read it over several nights. Because I've been so tired lately, I can fall asleep easily. But... this movie does have the urge to make me want to talk.
Today is White Day. My best friend told me that there will be discounts in the mall again. For me, it doesn't matter what color Valentine's Day is, the various discounts in the mall may be much more attractive.
What makes this movie still fresh in the memory is its narrative method, various interspersed, happy in love and various contradictions in life after marriage and having children. Every comparison makes my heart hurt. People, always want to avoid things that hurt or look uncomfortable. However, it seems that in practice it is not always such a happy scene.
I forgot whether I had discussed with people, if in the end it was a bland or even a quarrel, what was the point of those happy, sticky times. But now it seems that maybe it doesn't matter. It's scary to be just like this, it's scary to adapt to it, and it's scary to get used to it. The song that they once loved the most may become meaningless after so many years. Reality is scary.
Is it true that many people are on the verge of living a seemingly peaceful life on the surface, and their hearts are long gone, or they are powerless. Even after get off work, even if I didn't cheat, I would find fun by myself, in short, I just didn't want to go home and be with that person. If one day like this, for me. rather die.
So in reality, the fantasist must die after all.
As to whether or not to believe in love, it seems that I have discussed it with many people. But I think the most terrifying answer is, I believe, but I believe in others, not myself. Aha~ this feeling is indescribably wonderful.

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  • Dane 2022-03-23 09:01:34

    What a good man, he accepts her who is pregnant with other people's children, and treats other people's children like his own, but it's a pity that he is too idealistic, has no career, and is a little chatty

  • Antwon 2021-11-12 08:01:15

    Love will blur the distance between two people, compromise and sacrifice are willing. But life will only enlarge the gap between the two and make a relationship out of control. I don't blame her for reality, she wants stability, she looks forward to the future of this man; I don't blame him for being impetuous, what he wants is passion, what he misses is the past of this woman. A successful marriage is to maintain a balance between love and life, so that two people are always at a reachable distance.

Blue Valentine quotes

  • Dean: We're inside a robot's vagina

  • Dean: Look, I didn't want to be somebody's husband and I didn't want to be somebody's dad. That wasn't my... goal in life. For some guys it is - wasn't mine. But somehow, I've... it was what I wanted. I didn't know that and it's all I wanna do. I don't want to do anything else. That's all I want to do. I work so I can do that.