The beauty of love is like the splendor of fleeting fireworks

Jaron 2022-03-18 09:01:03

Having a feeling for someone is like playing a song you like, and the
music reminds you of it and you can't help but dance.
So my love for this movie
turned into a song "You And Me" in the end.

If the stars don't shine,
if the moon won't rise,
if I never see the setting sun again.
You won't hear me cry, this I testify;
please believe me, boy, you know I wouldn't lie .

You and me, you and me,
Nobody baby but you and me.

Love is by eye. When two people have feelings, one look is often enough.
Before watching "Blue Valentine's Day", Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu issued a divorce statement.
Who can't escape the "seven-year itch"?
Watch the interview with Li Yapeng and Faye Wong later.
Yang Lan asked, "Which of her songs do you like the most?"
Li Yapeng answered "Legend".
"Just because I saw you one more time in the crowd, I can't forget your face again."
He said that he fell in love with her just because of that one glance.

Love is a fairy tale, and reality is a cruel history.
The beginning of "Blue Valentine's Day" is cruel,
exposing the trivial married life naked to the public.
In order not to make the audience too desperate,
all kinds of little beauties of past love are constantly interspersed in reality.
How did you catch sight of her?
How did she spend all her time pursuing her, and finally entered the marriage hall hand in hand?

This kind of faint memory is suitable for slow taste,
but the conflict and contradiction in reality are extremely fierce and rapid.
Dean and Cindy are still in love with each other, and
the scene in the hotel where the two make music together is subtle and enduring.
We hugged, we sang and danced, we had sex...
blue, somber.

Emotional matters, no one can tell.
Some people are full of joy, give with all their hearts, and finally fall to pieces.
Some people have a flash marriage and a flash divorce. There is sweetness in the middle, and pain afterward.
The most regrettable is the couple who have been in love for many years, but the ending of the story still failed to come together.


Love and marriage both need to cross the river by feeling the stones.
Is the reason for separation due to emotional deterioration or is it "eroded" by the surrounding real problems?
Compare the following two words:
"love" in traditional Chinese and "love" in simplified Chinese.
Did you notice any difference? The key lies in everyone's heart.

After watching the movie, I sighed endlessly: the
looming and cruel reality kept swaggering in the distance.
The essence of envy, jealousy and hatred is emptiness, loneliness and coldness.
Fortunately, the fireworks at the end illuminate the sweetness of Dean and Cindy's past,
even if it is a fairy tale that has passed, it can comfort my uneasy heart.

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Extended Reading

Blue Valentine quotes

  • Dean: What the fuck is the matter, you got a glass jaw or something? You can't take one hit? It's one hit.

    [Doctor collapses back on the floor]

  • Dean: I can't really sing. I have to sing goofy, in order to sing. Like, I have to sing stupid. OK?

    [plays "You Always Hurt The One You Love" on a ukulele and sings, while Cindy tap dances]

    Cindy: You're actually good.