Cohabitation before marriage appears to be necessary

Erling 2022-06-15 10:34:55

When I was in high school, I was chatting with a classmate, and I remember him saying that it is necessary to live together before marriage, because it is one thing to love each other, but another thing to live with each other. Once the two live together, many differences in life will come out, which is to test whether we are really suitable for each other, and bring love deeply into life, rather than simple fantasy love.
Personally, I once doubted this idea, because the risk of being together before marriage is a bit high. Once it is found that it is not suitable, it is the result of being helpless. You clearly love each other but choose to break up, and cohabitation is not so popular in today's society. accepted.
Rigorous German rigorous love attitude gave me the answer.
While watching the movie, I felt like I was completely drawn into the world of the heroine, who I actually thought was cute and kind. He loves Chris a lot, but maybe not in the way Chris wants.
However, in the face of her boyfriend's indifference, of course, I know that Chris also loves Kitty, but not in the way Kitty wants.
So two people keep repeating "I love you", "You don't love me anymore, right" and so on, maybe they don't know each other well? But I think they really know each other so well that they want to make each other happy. The director portrayed the hearts of the two people very well. After all, I feel that both of them realized that
Chris' introverted character would be bleak if he lost Kitty's cheerfulness. Although they know that they can't do without each other, they can't do the best.
I think this is one of the must-see movies before marriage, and I gave it 5 stars because I was really moved by the ending. Kitty played Snow White, and Chris finally understood after a long time that all Kitty wanted was a kiss from the prince, so they both understood each other, the film came to an abrupt end, and the audience was left to live on. We really know each other Chris and Kitty, we will still love each other forever, if we are still immersed in the simple level of love, the two will still break up. Of course I hope Chris and Kitty end up together.
Now I think this experience is really needed before marriage. I'm starting to feel that living together for a while before marriage is the ultimate test of love. Really know what he needs, and whether she can really live on his own.

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  • Chris: Hans is such a "coincidental" guy. He coincidentally comes by when something coincidentally happens, and he coincidentally meets someone who introduces him, like with Documenta, when he was called by accident.

  • Gitti: The giraffe only trusted Hans.