woman self-improvement

Sylvester 2022-02-07 14:53:07

The story of the movie is so far away from me, and my experience is nowhere near the struggles of a girl. This is a woman's movie, for love to hurt those who love you who don't love you. Although our life is not as ups and downs as in the movie, but you will find a little shadow of you here. As girls, we must have done a lot of stupid things.
Maybe watching this movie a few years ago would have been a different feeling. Always think that the way to protect yourself by hurting others is incorrect. Although you don't feel that you have done something wrong, and even think that it is a matter of justice, it is not right after all. Everyone is an individual worthy of being cherished, and everyone has their own choices. This choice is only his own and has nothing to do with others. You can give him advice, but you can't take away his right to choose. Sometimes what is good for him in your eyes may not be good for others. Just like the ideology imposed on the heroine by the heroine's mother in the movie, the mother's practice of killing her lover because her lover did not choose herself, the heroine's first adoptive mother shoots out of jealousy, etc. They all erupt because their emotions and feelings cannot be understood and comforted. But who said others have to understand you? In your own eyes, you are the most special person and the person who needs to be valued the most. Who stipulates that in the eyes of others, you must also be valued the most? Who must love whom?
Women all hope that others will hold you in the palm of their hands, turn around you, and regard you as the most beautiful diamond. Can't abandon you, can't help but love you, and only love you. It's a pity that reality is not a fairy tale. No matter how much you can't stand it or cry, it can't be changed. If you don't love it, you don't love it anymore, it's as simple as falling in love at the beginning. Poor woman, why bother so much!

Women care so much about whether they are loved or not. If you don't give me the love you deserve, I will destroy you, and you will not have a good life. I am a person who pursues equality, and I do not want to live in the world given by men, nor do I want to stare at men. Some things can't be forced, and some people can't be lost. We do not complain, do not hesitate, do not go crazy, do not be disappointed. We women can only be ourselves! Just live for yourself, live for yourself, you can be strong and get love!


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White Oleander quotes

  • Astrid: You look at me, and you don't like what you see. But this is the price, Mother - the price of belonging to you.

  • Ingrid: I made you. I'm in your blood. You don't go anywhere until I let you go

    Astrid: Then let me go