Essentially, women, especially beautiful women, are a major source of unfreedom in men's minds. What is freedom? That is, you can control yourself very well and be able to do whatever you want. The sad thing is that all men can't do whatever they want psychologically and physically in front of the woman he cares about, and a man's heart follows women. The more beautiful a woman, the more she understands this, so the more manipulative. As the previous "country road" commented: "Men want to help her unknowingly, whether she can get the benefit or not depends on her mood, no matter how much you get the benefit or sacrifice, the men realize that it is willing All she has to do is smile at you and you'll help her move things, fix the computer, treat her to dinner, pay for her, help her at work, praise her, you just give whatever she wants." And finally" Whether she can get the benefits depends on her mood." Men really have no dignity. Are you saying that men are teasing women, or women are teasing men? In the end, the woman, like a reward dog, makes you XX00. Are you saying that you conquered the woman, or did the woman conquer you?
If this beauty is replaced by any other man, the man can control his head and decide at will whether to help him "carry things, fix the computer, invite him to dinner, pay for him."... I'm in a good mood. Help you, I won't help you if you're in a bad mood, I don't care if I can get your benefits or not. If a man can do this in front of beautiful women, it can be said that this man is free. But most men can't do it.
Unfreedom of mind means suffering. Pearl instigated the bartender in the film to cover up her murder and let the bartender rob her boss and a lawyer. In fact, the bartender was very hesitant. The timid bartender who had always followed the law and was unwilling to do these things. I know the consequences of doing these things, but I do it anyway. The bartender is afraid of legal sanctions and has a conscience. Do you think he can feel happy when he is doing these illegal activities, can he not be afraid, and is not psychologically painful? On the other hand, the bartender also knows very well that if Pearl doesn't do what Pearl says, Pearl will leave him and cause him pain. After all, it is pain to do or not to do it. Let's assume that if Pearl didn't exist, the bartender would have always been law-abiding, he would have acted only in his own conscience, and would have never done such spoofing, nor would he have suffered the pain of doing something wrong with his conscience. The root of these pains lies in the fact that men's greed for women's sex is bound by their greed, and when they are bound, how can they be free?
In the same way, the fat policeman in the film also helped Pearl to destroy the evidence and shield Pearl with no conscience. As a result, he felt sorry for his responsibilities, and felt uncomfortable and painful in his heart, so he went to the church to confess to the priest. Knowing that one thing should not be done, but also knowing that if you do it, you will suffer, but you can't control yourself but want to do it, this is called unfreedom.
The lawyer in the film is the bartender's cousin, carrying his wife to seduce Pearl (that is, his cousin-in-law), and playing SM with Pearl. Of course, Pearl abuses the lawyer, and the lawyer is of course very willing. After that, she helped Pearl to sue her cousin. Of course, the lawyer was also very distressed, so he went to see a psychiatrist. He repeatedly emphasized to the psychiatrist: "I was not like this before, I can control my life well, it is not that I can't control my life before. loser.” Can’t control oneself, is it freedom?
If they can transcend their lust for women, they don't care about Pearl's beauty at all. Their minds are free, and when they are free, there is no pain.
I remember when I was in high school, I thought that if you want to be beautiful to affect your studies, you should try hard not to let yourself think, and pinch yourself every time you think about it, but I still can't control my thinking. You say I am free of mind and happy?
Women may never understand why men keep thinking XX00 for no reason at all.
In fact, all men in the world are just as pathetic. There is essentially no difference between men and addicts. Addicts can't control themselves not to take drugs, and men can't control that they don't want to have sex with women. Addicts still want to smoke, men want XX00 and still want XX00. In short, they will never be satisfied, so they will always be poor. Addicts are not free, and men are not free either.
Pickup artists are aware of their unfreedom: "Anyone talking to a woman while simultaneously worrying about what she thinks of him is going to fail. Anyone caught thinking about getting into a woman's pants before she starts thinking about what's in his pants is going to fail. And most men fall into this category. Sasha does. I do. We can't help it: It's our nature." But pick-up artists can only pretend they don't care, pretend they aren't attracted."If the target is attractive and used to men fawning all over her, the pickup artist must intrigue her by pretending to be unaffected by her charm. “ Then use the so-called “neg“:” Neither compliment nor insult, a neg is something in between— an accidental insult or backhanded compliment. The purpose of a neg is to lower a woman's self esteem while actively displaying a lack of interest in her—by telling her she has lipstick on her teeth, for example,or offering her a piece of gum after she speaks.”
A pickup artist can only pretend to not care. The highest level is to really not care. In front of beautiful women, they can take pictures or not. If you don't move, it doesn't matter whether you like me or not, it's all the same. I won't do anything for you against my will, it's business as usual, such a man is a wise man, such a man is a free man.
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