The Heart Sutra of the Second Girl

Celestine 2022-03-21 09:01:47

When I was still taught by mainstream values, I read a book, the second daughter of the Lin family. I almost forgot about this book later, but I remember the word, second daughter.

People are talking about the second daughter in the family, the little daughter who is doted on by thousands, but as time washes away my memory, I gradually found that it is particularly appropriate to describe a type of girl—the second daughter.

In my dictionary, what kind of person is the second daughter? Well, let's talk about another type of girls first. They regard themselves as the center of the world, they are so beautiful that they are stunningly beautiful. They are the center of sight, the protagonists of the story, and every man's dream lover. The world revolves around them, and everything depends on their will. Ding-ting-ting, you must have seen such a person in reality or in movies, right? That's right, the heroines of most commercial romance films, or rather, contemporary princesses.

Humans are group animals, no man is an island. Princesses also need friends, at least so-called friends. These beautiful flowers also need green leaves to accompany them, otherwise the composition will be solitary and unsightly. But it is self-evident that these green leaves naturally need to be plain-looking, good-hearted, and agree to everything. Their legal obligation is to be a good valet and a good assistant, a good entourage to the princess, and helping the princess to marry the prince is their life career. Everything about yourself is ignored.

To sum up, ahem, let's call the little Luye little follower in this situation the second daughter. They are the bridge between the male and female protagonists, the eternal reconciler, and the modern maids who can answer every question better than Jeeve. At the same time, they are also the silent postman microphones who can't remember the name of the hero and can't remember the appearance. They admire them. The viewer looks for the corner of the princess's photo that was directly cropped, a species with a thin sense of existence that is always turned a blind eye when encountering on the road.

In fact, if you think about it carefully, the second daughter is still very common, do you often see ordinary girls next to Chimei girls, they are like the blurred background in the picture, always staying in a large aperture Outside the range, the image is permanently blurred. Like Hana in Flowers and Alice, the senior loves Yu Aoi the most, and the country is overwhelming and irresistible. For him, Hana's love is just the admiration of an ordinary girl.

The heroine of this film just fits the definition of a second daughter the most—sympathetic and compassionate without limit, never saying no to anyone or anything, eager to help other people’s marriages, secretly in love with excellent old men, keen on Happy Ending’s newspaper marriage and love stories, she believes in friendship and love, The flowers are blooming hard, but she is always, always, always a bridesmaid...
Happiness seems to never knock on her door, she has no looks, no body, work, and her subordinates are disobedient. The man and the younger sister got into the marriage hall in two weeks, and they were in a hurry and were surrounded by enemies. Her bleak life was exploded into a big news that the whole city knew, but it was the second prince who she had admired for a long time and had just sparked... ...the phrase from the Gospel of Matthew could not be more appropriate here:
Whoever has, with all, give more, and make it rich; and whoever loses, with her, take away and consume it .

The second daughter saw that the princess deceived the prince she had a crush on for a long time, trampled on the wedding dress of her mother who cherished her whole life, and the second daughter who was taken away from everything was really nothing to lose, and her anger finally broke out. But the second daughter has always been kind-hearted, how can she be really ruthless?
What's more, princesses aren't always disgusting. There are never simple things in this world, so simple conclusions and simple characters are all wrong.
So what should the second daughter do?

In fact, the best living condition for the second daughter is to stay away from the princess. Primary and secondary are originally relative concepts. Without a princess, naturally there is no secondary daughter. But the second daughter's sympathetic nature is about to erupt again: no friends? What a pitiful princess! No one deserves a miserable life without friendship.
Answer: First, they have a prince, they are not miserable, they are not miserable without you;
Second, if one wants to have friends, one should properly abandon fanatical egocentrism, the earth revolves around you? Do you want to overthrow the Copernicus theory? Then turn around slowly, the second daughter will not accompany you~

Because the second daughter is cautious and not good at talking, it is easy to fall into a secret love battle, and the most common ending is: the princess found the prince through the second daughter's sight, and the two fell in love at first sight. In the hall, the second daughter left the stage sadly, packed her bags, packed her luggage, prepared wedding chores, and acted as a bridesmaid.
Olala! It's the 21st century, why hasn't feminism emerged yet? Second daughter wow, life is your own, to live happily! Like it is your own, to live capriciously!
Rui Ying scolded Shen Xiuzhen at the time: Seeing other people's happiness is very good, are you going to grab it? !
This sentence, in turn, is given to the second daughters, that is: your own happiness is yours, do you want to let others take it away? !

But I remembered Nana pointing at Sachiko who was swayed by Sachiko: "Aba, that's your man, go get him back!"
Later, Nana still didn't grab anything from Sachiko. She cried bitterly and said helplessly: "No need....
Everyone's love is equally precious and worth cherishing." , the second daughter is no exception. A person who despised betrayal and betrayed his second daughter's love seems to have no need to snatch it back. Let go and let him go, for this man. not worth it.

In my opinion, the second daughter can also live a happy and unrestrained life, as long as the second daughter does not lose herself because of her own situation and her kindness, immersed in the myth of helping others and unable to extricate herself. You must know that the second daughter is not a second time. Every flower has the right to work hard and bloom to the fullest. A person only lives for more than 20,000 days at the age of eighty. Fertilizer, like the second daughter in the film, was asked about selfless giving and replied: I'm Jesus...well I'm an atheist...
Second daughter, in this web of interweaving In the city, travel back and forth, love and hate freely, love squandering when you love, and don't hold back when you should let go. You must firmly believe that every sincerity is worth cherishing, and firmly say loudly to those who take advantage of you: No! ! ! !
Cherish yourself and live a life with a cheerful disposition.
Do more of the things you enjoy.

In fact, this feeling can be extended to small people, human beings who have no right to speak, and this is the story that 249 told. We don't look good, we don't have a father of official luck, but we are not chopping wood, we also cherish our lives, you can't really use us as cannon fodder just because we look like cannon fodder! We are like you, we have two eyes and one mouth. When we are thirsty, we need to drink water and when we are hungry, we need to eat. You cannot use us as chopping wood as cannon fodder! We have no reason to charge for you and be the first to die!

I really went too far this time... Let’s go back to the script, the plot is still relatively rigid, but presumably the screenwriter and director have a lot of research on the second daughter’s secret love heart scriptures, and many small details are amazing: the second daughter will always Every little bit in life will unconsciously be related to the prince who is secretly in love with, the second daughter tossing and resting after the date of the younger sister and the prince who is secretly in love, and so on, etc. The details are quite in place.
Therefore, this is not a brilliant script, but it is a good story. It will always be a good story that can tell your heart and tears.

There are two details that I particularly like:
① The second daughter and the second prince are getting to know each other gradually. The second daughter is unrestrained in front of him, she speaks freely, sings and drinks, and to be honest, the one who can open your heart is a person worthy of love.
②The second daughter was still immersed in the myth of her crush on her boss. His ambiguous words made the second daughter fascinated. When it was, the second daughter's friend immediately slapped her and pulled her back to reality.
This is definitely a lifelong friend!
Second daughter, this is the most precious friendship in life.


------------------------Gossip is everywhere---------------------- --------
When it comes to chick-flicks like this one, you can't help but talk about gossip:
The weird thing is that when I just turned off the unbearable enchanted, I found out that this is actually the same protagonist! Classmate James Marsden, I said that your prince's performance is outrageous, and you will shine when you are a feature writer. Your logic is so weird... Welcome to the journalism school for a feature class! Having said that, this classmate really looks like a combination of Kaka and Casillas. My Real Madrid, the Galaxy Fleet, whether it is the first team or the second team, have all perished...... ...

and the one who waved and slapped the heroine when she was crazy Say: You know, every day I think of seeing you when I get home, I can't help but cry while driving.... The

heroine fits the standard of a second daughter (sorry), but her acting is great, especially After finding out that she was cheated, she glared sharply, oh, it was so sharp, the second daughter finally broke out...
Burn it, Little Universe!

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  • Jane's Aunt: Must be so hard to watch your younger sister get married before you.

    Jane: Yes. Then I remember that I still get to have hot hate sex with random strangers and I feel SO much better!

  • Jane: You would rather hang out with Italian models than come with me to my *awesome* work party?