Do you want to cut the vanity of contact?

Alisa 2022-03-21 09:01:21

I only made my first flight when I was 22 years old. When I was very young, I really envied the busy flying trapeze. A high-end suitcase must not be filled, and the pieces are big names that make people stunned. Wearing Bluetooth headsets on your ears at any time, stepping on high heels, a suit showing beautiful calves, always holding your chest up and dragging your suitcase to walk in airports around the world. I had lunch in LA in the morning, PARIS at noon, and rushed to the cocktail party in NY in the evening. When someone calls me, I will say professionally: "I'm sorry, I'm not in China now. I will check it. I will return to Shanghai the next afternoon. Can I contact you then? Or you can meet me in Singapore tomorrow. ." High salary, success, and temperament were all there at that time. For so many years, I have been dreaming about such a day myself.
After watching this film, I realized that this is always a vanity dream about myself. Our family has never appeared before, and my own family has not arranged a time for them to leave the country. I am a totally undesired child, a lonely individual who does not need to contact friends, and I am the only one in my life. In other words, I always admire myself and admire myself. I have always felt that the phrase "good people are lonely" is correct. Because there is no human worldly ties, our goals are clearer, and our decisions are less likely to be influenced and rationalized. But if you are lonely to exchange this busy dream vanity, are you willing? Will we find a confidant in life by stitching in on our journey? Or is it like Eric's kind of knowing that you have a scene and eliminate loneliness? We pursue efficiency in our careers, but can we also be so efficient in emotions? I remember reading Han Han's satirical article on China's puberty love issue: Parents object to our early love in middle and high school, and some parents even object to dating in college. They imagined that immediately after graduating from college, they would have an excellent in every aspect, and they would have a car and a house to marry their son and daughter. Think too beautiful, right? ! I agree with him that emotional matters are feelings. Can you be sure that you must feel at a certain age? Even if you can control yourself, can you control others?
This film discusses just such a thing, although it is trying to add a little inspirational color in order to cater to the layoffs of the financial crisis. But the sentence when Ryan persuaded others to get married seems to be the point: "Do you want to be alone in some special moments? No partner? Like no co-pilot?" It seems that people who are married are excluded. Everyone feels lonely. No matter how good the days in the cloud are, if there is always no one to discuss and appreciate your days in the cloud, just like when Ryan finally completed his 10 million mileage record and got the seventh VIP card, it would be lonely!

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Up in the Air quotes

  • Ryan Bingham: [sitting across from each other on an airplane] What are you working so furiously?

    Natalie Keener: [while typing on her lab top computer] I'm building a work flow of firing techniques its questions and responses, actions and reactions it's a script taking you through the steps of firing someone

    Ryan Bingham: Whose it for?

    Natalie Keener: Theoretically you can put it in the hands of anybody and they can start downsizing immediately all you have to do is follow the steps

  • Ryan Bingham: Life's better with company

    Jim Miller: Yeah.

    Ryan Bingham: Everyone needs a co-pilot