Hey, girl, spare some love for yourself

Dayana 2022-03-16 09:01:03

Hey, girl, you are a strong woman.
You can work hard and cut 75 clips a year;
you can be dedicated and move the editing room to your home and sleep with your BlackBerry.
You can be very smart and creative at work, surpassing all men;
you can be strong, trying to control and restrain
yourself from falling tears; you are the opposite of weakness, a coquettish insulator, but you also belong own dream.
You want to eat nutritious food, want to read a book, not a magazine, but a good book, not just read the synopsis, and then imagine the whole picture of the book, but you never have time to read it carefully, Let the dust settle on your favorite books.
You don't like dark circles under your eyes, you don't like the grayness of your face, you don't like watching the sunrise the next day in the studio, and who doesn't like being beautiful? Who doesn't want to take a beauty sleep in peace? Excessive stress can make women age faster. But you are really used to this frequency.
Hey, girl, you are a kind girl.
You can be very persistent, do anything for him, as long as he opens his mouth;
you can be very quiet, never go far, just want to live in a city with him;
you can be very generous, go against your true will, and never It will make others embarrassed;
you can be very firm and believe that your waiting will eventually pay off, he will eventually come back to you and only love you;
although she is flirting with others, although he is flirting with others, as long as he You will always be by his side if you need him. He firmly believes that as long as you move your little finger, you will obediently come back to him. He knows your every weakness. As long as you have a look, and a word of concern, you will come back to him without hesitation and help him do anything.
You can laugh at yourself occasionally, it's more like a mother than a girlfriend of a fraction of his. You don't like to make yourself so embarrassed and throw your pride into the corner, but you are really used to this frequency.

Amanda and Iris are such girls. One has his own film advertising company, and he devotes himself to work, and often forgets his boyfriend; How many shadows of us are there in her and her.
While watching this film, I can't help but think of a lot of silhouettes. The way I worked until I fell asleep with my hands on the keyboard; the way I finished writing the manuscript at 11 o'clock at night and walked back to the bedroom on the deserted road of the east gate in horror; the way I got up and wrote the document as soon as I turned on the switch in the morning; the way it was in winter The appearance of waiting for the school bus at the fair after the meeting; the appearance of helping the teacher organize the recording before the exam...
Many people have seen so many good opportunities that I have obtained, but they have never seen it. To the bitterness and hard work I put behind this.
I also thought of the experiences of many friends. Maybe the love is long gone, but I still have to stick to it, I only hope that my boyfriend can come back to him. She was seen crying many times, on the stairs, on the alleys of the campus, anywhere. I will do everything possible to get him back, the offensive of friends, the way of anonymous QQ friends, the way of waiting downstairs, the way of visiting the school, I dare not tell you, this will only make him farther and farther away from you.
We all forget that before we want to be loved by others, we must give ourselves a little bit of love.

Like Amanda and Iris, give yourself a chance, a deviant exile. The strangers on the E-House website, the distant English countryside, the unknown LA city, the brand-new environment, the brand-new encounters, just to find their lost dreams.
I laughed as Amanda freely pushed her shopping cart and drank red wine, idly wandering the supermarket and buying her favorite food. In this unfamiliar place, you don't have to care about your image in the eyes of others. The people you know don't have the eyes to cross the ocean and can't see what you are now. You don't have to pretend to be the dignified and capable they like, just be yourself.
Iris It was also found that the world was much bigger than she had imagined, and that bad men were just a speck of dust in the world. Swim in the embrace of water, enjoy the shock of audio and video, be excited by the joy of dynamic music, and enjoy the experience of meeting new friends. Those tears shed for him evaporated in the clear sky one afternoon for a long time. A smile that had not been seen for a long time finally appeared on her face. Really happy for her.
If you can't make yourself happy, how can you make the man you love happy?
The principle of attraction says that every thought has a certain amount of energy, and things that vibrate at the same frequency will attract and resonate with each other. If a person is full of happy, positive thoughts, then good people, things, and things will resonate with him and be attracted to him. Likewise, if a person has a constant frequency of pessimistic, cynical thoughts, it is no wonder that bad luck often happens to him.
Amanda and Iris, who have been happy, may not know that a beautiful love affair is quietly approaching. As long as you are willing to let go of the original bondage, accept his invitation, join his world, go to the bar to raise a glass and talk about life, and help the elderly in the neighbors realize their dreams, happiness can be so simple. The only thing we can control is our choices.

Reminds me of what I said in "The World They Live In", there is a phenomenon called snow blindness. Blizzard weather, snow all over the sky, the sky and the earth are completely covered, people can't find their way in the snow. In this vast expanse of whiteness, heaven and earth are integrated, and the world also fades away. It is impossible to distinguish the boundaries, and it is impossible to know whether the front is a way out or a cliff.
In our life, we occasionally experience a state similar to "snow blindness". When you are overwhelmed and panicked, when you cannot protect yourself from harm, you cannot tell whether it is a dream or reality.
At the beginning of the film, Amanda and Iris' lives undoubtedly encountered the "snow blindness" in front of them. At this time there is no other way but to stop everything at hand, this is the only feasible way. She and she should both stop crying for a while, let go of the past for a while, and find their own happiness again.
Although there will still be infatuation, after all, you have poured too much into him, but life is not easy. Happiness and unhappiness, reconciliation and entanglement, resentment and longing, wounds and healing, ideal and reality, beginning and end, these diametrically opposed factors cannot be resolved, and finally come together and coexist in contradiction. This is life. Those moments of entanglement, the infinite tossing life, will also return to tranquility, and we will eventually survive.
Hey, girl, just spare some love for yourself.

PS:
Snow blindness: Loss of direction or even blindness due to white light reflection in a snowstorm.

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The Holiday quotes

  • Miles: [reaching across Iris to grab something on counter] Okay, sorry about that.

    [pregnant pause]

    Miles: Boob graze.

    [Iris briefly surprised, then burst into merry laughter, with Miles joining in with a chuckle]

    Miles: That was accidental.

    [gazing around with sheepish smile]

    Miles: Accidental boob graze. I'm sorry.

    Iris: Change of subject.

    [trying to restrain laughter]

    Miles: Okay.

  • Jasper: You know what I was thinking? When you get back to London, maybe we could sneak off somewhere together. Maybe Venice. You and me in Venice could be good.

    Iris: Do you mean that? I mean, are you free to do that?

    Jasper: Darling, I've just traveled halfway across the world to see you, haven't I?

    Iris: [Iris & Jasper almost kiss before Iris pulls away] Yeah, that doesn't exactly answer my question. So, are you not with Sarah anymore? I mean, is that what you've come here to tell me?

    Jasper: I wish you could just accept knowing how confused I am about all this.

    Iris: Okay, let me translate that. So, you are still engaged to be married?

    Jasper: Yes, but, I mean...

    Iris: Oh, my God.

    [Iris gets up from the couch]

    Iris: This was a really close call. You know, I never really though I'd say this, literally never, but I think you were absolutely right about us. Very square peg, very round hole.

    Jasper: You cannot mean that.

    Iris: The great thing is I actually do. And I'm about three years late in telling you this, but nevertheless I need to say it. Jasper. Wait, I need the lights on. Jasper, you have never treated me right. Ever.

    Jasper: Oh, babe.

    Iris: Shush. You broke my heart. And you acted like somehow it was my fault, my misunderstanding, and I was too in love with you to ever be mad at you, so I just punished myself! For years! But you waltzing in here on my lovely Christmas holiday, and telling me that you don't want to lose me whilst you're about to get MARRIED, somehow newly entitles me to say, it's over. This - This twisted, toxic THING between us, is finally finished! I'm miraculously done being in love with you! Ha! I've got a life to start living.

    [Picks up Jasper's jacket, walking to the door]

    Iris: And you're not going to be in it.

    Jasper: Darling.

    Iris: Now I've got somewhere really important to be, and you have got to get the hell out.

    [Opens the door]

    Iris: Now!

    Jasper: What exactly has got into you?

    Iris: I don't know.

    [Pushes Jasper out the door]

    Iris: But I think what I've got is something slightly resembling, gumption.

    [Slams door shut in Jasper's face. Lifts hands up and screams with joy]