The following from the movie "He's Just Not That Into You":
1, if he passively reserved.
"Maybe he doesn't want to ruin our friendship"
"Maybe he's shy" "Maybe he has low self-esteem"
"Maybe he just doesn't know how to get in touch with me"...
Gerg said that throughout the course of human history,
any man will try to get close to you Don't care about breaking "friendship",
he can't be too afraid to chase you because of shyness and inferiority complex, the
only thing he is "frightened" is that he is so "indifferent" to you,
he won't know how to contact you, mobile phone, Email, IM, SNS, twitter...
He can use his eyes, mouth, brain, network, google to find you - unless he doesn't want to find you.
Maybe some people advocate that this is no longer the Stone Age,
girls should take the initiative to pursue the person
you like , but I believe that the person who really likes you will not let you go to great lengths to find him - because he will take the initiative to send it to your door.
2. If he doesn't do what he promises you, even if it's just a phone call.
"He really busy so forget the" "at least he actually apologized to me" ...... he is very busy,
the incoming US president, one hour hundreds of millions of business to talk, too busy going crazy,
one day simply did It's crazy busy to not have time to call you.
There are mobile phones, speed dials, and even voice dialing.
Sometimes, when
you don't even want to make a call, the phone is dialed out of your trouser pocket. Why don't you have time to make a call?
If you really like you, you won't forget it, if you forget it means he doesn't care about your disappointment.
"Busy" is a weapon of mass destruction in a relationship, synonymous with "jerk," the
person who perfunctory you with being busy.
—(sound) Men know what "priorities" are, as for apologies?
Oh, no time to listen to his nonsense.
3. If he is ambiguous.
"He was hurt before" "He has a messy life now"
"He just broke up/divorced and he wants to take it slow" "He is used to being free"...
These are all urban myths to deal with girls that guys don't like,
if If he likes you, he will not be ambiguous, and
he will declare the ownership of you in the world. He does not want to see your friends and family,
saying that because he is with you and not with your mother,
he does not want to Take you into his circle and say that because it's just two people's business,
if he uses the above excuses to explain the ambiguity between you,
then please automatically translate it into "I just want to use you to kill time" "I don't like it very much. you".
4. If he doesn't want to get too close to you.
Gerg said it very directly,
"I'm a man, if I like you, I'll kiss you, and I'll want to see you in underwear and without it."
Although it feels embarrassing and cold, it 's true to think about it,
If you like you, you should like your inner and outer.
Don't you want someone who likes you to say to you "I love you very much, let me be your soul friend"...
I guess Plato doesn't like his old man either. would say so.
5. If he betrays you.
"He drank too much" "That was just an occasional accident" "He was careless"...
Gerg was right, there was no excuse for betrayal.
Betrayal doesn't happen "accidentally",
it's impossible for him to say "Oh, I accidentally fell and fell on someone else's bed."
Knowing that it will break the rules in love, he has to implement them ,
you should just dump him, and the worst part is that people may doubt their attractiveness,
whether they should have a plastic surgery or not, and
Gerg said it coolly: "You don't need to lose 20 pounds, you need to lose
175 pounds. - The weight of your unpromising boyfriend."
6. If he's too drunk to come to you.
He is addicted to alcohol or drugs (this should not be common in China),
and he is unwilling to change for you, then he should leave, because long-term life requires sobriety.
7. If the time is right but he still doesn't want to get married.
"Maybe I'm too open-minded" "He was shadowed by his childhood family" "He wasn't ready"...
Many men, women, psychologists, sociologists, anthropologists, feminists...
all can
Give a lecture criticizing the marriage system, telling you that marriage is a backward system and an ancient financial contract,
but I'm sorry, first of all you have to understand that "don't want to get married" may just mean "don't want to marry you",
Those who say "don't want to get married" will eventually get married, just not with you.
8. If he keeps breaking up with you, and then comes to you to make up.
First of all, please keep your demeanor and stop calling and texting him. If you break up, it's a break up.
You don't think that as long as he comes back to you, you can continue to chat, meet, watch movies,
cook for him, buy gifts, carve CDs, feed fish, greet his parents and friends,
Stealing his voicemail to check his call history. . . . .
The person who really likes you won't break up with you, and won't toss you over and over,
so please wake up, unless you want to be a yo-yo champion.
9. If he suddenly disappears inexplicably.
Don't spend a lot of energy trying to solve the "Missing Man Mystery",
no matter you find all kinds of evidence and excuses to comfort yourself, the
only truth is that he doesn't want to be with you anymore
and has no guts to be with you say clearly.
Trust me, there's no secret - he's not good enough for you.
10. If he is married.
Not much to say, at least until he gets divorced.
If you still can't figure it out, you should probably call the police - someone lost their brain.
Sometimes we would rather believe that a man is too scared, too nervous, too low self-esteem, too holy,
too fond of his ex-girlfriend, too sensitive, too Oedipus, too busy, too much childhood shadow, too much
family pressure, too tired, too crazy, too tan Too dark, too suicidal...
But he doesn't want to see the simple fact clearly,
yes, he's not too busy, he's not injured, he does
n't have childhood shadows, he didn't encounter earthquakes and floods, he
didn't want to be the president of the United States, no The concussion had transient amnesia, it was
n't that the phone fell into the hot pot, he wasn't amnesiac, and
he wasn't dead - he just didn't like you that much.
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