Actually, if I could, I would really like to tell MEW and TONG what a self-deceiving statement "To all the loves that bring us to life" is. If in order to survive, we have to constantly choose and choose, then at least it should not be the soul.
So what kind of love should be in the soul?
There are three scenes (or three plots) in "Love of Siam" that moved me. In the first episode, there is no doubt that MEW sang at TONG's family party. The whole world belongs to MEW, and the whole world in MEW's eyes is only TONG, so he sings and pours out his heart, and the fluctuations in his heart turn into The tenderness in the eyes, thousands of words melted into the singing, such a naked expression of nature, the only reason is love. Love can make a person get carried away, forget hurt and prevent injury, beauty and error, warmth and sadness, everything may not have to be entangled, at that moment the world is so silent that only one person's voice is left, so a kiss obtained is worth more than life. The second episode is that TONG helped his mother hang the puppets on the Christmas tree at home, and repeatedly asked where to hang them. His mother said impatiently, "I said whatever you want." He said, "I'm afraid that if I can't hang it, Well, Mom will be angry." At this time, my heart was so distressed that it seemed like a hand was tearing, the soft hand was tearing slowly, not because of TONG's cleverness, but because of his hard work - a young man is learning to take responsibility, hoping to be able to use his own The meager power brings joy to his relatives, and the first choice he made when he was powerless was to "try not to cause trouble". At this time, he already knew what choice he would definitely make. The third episode is at the end of the film, where the inappropriate puppet's nose is plugged in and MEW looks at it and weeps. I like watching people cry very much, no matter what kind of crying, it seems that not crying is not enough to relieve the mood, because in the end, we get nothing, and the tears are always our own.
Therefore, the so-called strength, choice, responsibility and growth are nothing more than wars of various interest groups. We are both the initiators, the participants and the bearers of the war, including feelings, but also only a part of the interests.
It is a bit cold to say this. When we talk about feelings, we are accustomed to carry some warmth, whether it is family, friendship or love. We insist that those who "save themselves for others" are great and respectable, and those who are "stubborn and selfish" are small and contemptible, because We have to abide by the rules of society in order to maintain a certain established tradition and balance. It's like all human beings are playing the same game. Anyone who violates the rules will be punished and ordered to revise. Therefore, rules are more important than life. Naturally, saying this is a bit exaggerated, and it is suspected of being "anti-human". The truth is not that serious. It is also love and happiness. smooth”, so even if we reach the happy end, the race result is considered invalid.
So, TONG's mom found MEW. "How good are you?" The
young MEW was like an athlete who had just run a few steps, before he could see the finish line, even just instinctively running forward without the awareness of the finish line, and was ordered to stop.
"I only have TONG's son left, so I won't let him go the wrong way... Let's put it this way, in the future, after TONG graduates, he will have a good job, a good income, and then find a good girl, then get married and have children, Taking care of his parents, this is his future..."
This is the heartfelt expression of a stadium supervisor, she is not a referee, and everyone is not a referee, they were all athletes. "Think about it for TONG, MEW
, don't continue with him, no matter how much you love him, you should hope that he will be happy, will you have any results if you continue like this?"
Top, this is his weakness. Likewise, this is the weakness of thousands of comrades. Perhaps, it is also the question that all the different men and women who are in love with each other are thinking about. Yes, if you love someone, you should hope that he will be happy, otherwise, what value and meaning does this love have?
So, this pair of young people who have just entered the world has finally grown up. With some inspirations, some inspirations, some spiritual baptisms and life lessons, they ended a beautiful mistake and left a sentence: "We still don't want to be together, but this does not mean I don't love you" classic lines, and then... we don't know what happened after that. Maybe they "set things right" on the track of the future, maybe they "revisited old dreams" and continued their own attempts and pursuits. This is also the intention of the 26-year-old director. Storytelling always requires superb skills to make people aftertaste. The place where the gorgeous movement stops abruptly is exactly the itch in our hearts.
Therefore, it has won unanimous praise. With tears and sighs, we each meditated, introspected and concluded. There are a lot of opinions on the Internet. They give full attention and associations to TONG's family situation and growth environment, MEW's character causes and orientation judgments, and the positions and practices of each character. However, no one has ever doubted "love", and no one has ever doubted that loving someone should make him happy.
I just want to give happiness to my lover. It's not a scavenger hunt with small gifts, or a heart knot to deliver a complete puppet. Maybe it's an experience that can be fully practiced with each other's lifetime. Many times I think that what I think is good may not be what he thinks is good, what I say is correct may not be what he thinks is correct, the only thing I can do is not to tell him what happiness is.
But if I were MEW, if TONG's mom said in front of me that no matter how much you love him, you should wish him happiness, I would tell her that his happiness is up to him, and if there is me in it, I will be happy because of it .
Everyone's happiness is equal, if you are unfortunate, it is because you think of yourself too high or too low.
In fact, where there is love, there is hope, and one step away from hope and reality, someone will walk a lifetime.
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