If a man won't call you - check out the textbook "You Don't Actually Know His Heart"

Johanna 2022-03-15 09:01:04

If a guy acts like you're not very important all the time. Well, please believe it, then he really doesn't care about you. Because this is the norm.
So what is unconventional?
Exceptions like "the cat breastfeeds the monkey".

"Actually You Don't Know His Heart" is like a modern emotional textbook. The highlight that caught my eye the most was that the director used a group of sexy goddesses who could turn their life upside down and play ordinary women. They are not only ordinary and ordinary, but they are so ordinary that it makes people worry. I don't know if this method will really help, those of us who are still in the sea of ​​love can see the truth.
Aniston's boyfriend of 7 years just refuses to marry. The monkey's words were the excuse he used to speak his mind.
Barrymore is a cute magazine editor, and the object of online dating is the kind of virtuous man who calls to flirt, and he can't tell whether he is calling Mary or Jenny.
Jennifer Connor has a seemingly happy family. She firmly believes that even if he calls back 11 days after the first date, he could be the most precious man in your life. Because she and her Mr.Right entered into marriage together like this. However, this is also Mr.Right, when she was busy with family life but neglected her heart, she couldn't resist the temptation to have an affair.
Connor's colleague and close friend is a total blind date bad luck. After every date, I fell into the curse of anticipation. Catch any suspected possibility, hold on to the phone, and look for all kinds of unscrupulous reasons for men.

Maybe he's just too busy.
He encountered some accidents.
He lost my phone number.
He...

actually everyone, man or woman, has someone who makes him stunned and overwhelmed by checking 100 emails and 1000 text messages a day. The only difference is whether or not you are right.
You like him, he misses her, and she cares about him... turn around, turn around. This kind of group play where stars get together always best reflects the "Six Degrees Theory". In the end, everyone is connected to each other, but the energy of love is always difficult to equal, so it can flow between any one of the men and women, and maintain the 80 minutes of the plot before the happy ending finale.
There are also eyes to each other, but helpless to make you have a wife. The director made the plump and lovely Scarlett Johansson, as the only character in the film to show her amorous feelings, gave her a fate, but she was a very affectionate and sexual woman who pursued true love even though she became a "little third". So, the one who loves her can't light her fire, and the one she loves can't get it.

Such a ratio of mutual affection is comparable to the probability of our shit luck in real life. As a result, the audience in front of the screen has achieved a great psychological balance and a real sense of substitution, and can easily become the idiot in the play who often waits stupidly, but does not understand what the other party is thinking.
Yes, I sit firmly. But why am I alone? Am I the unhappy one? I am the one who gained 20 pounds?
So, bravely rush over! What if you meet the love of your life? !

What if? Just in case. Every pair of men and women who can move forward bravely in love or in unrequited love has this kind of courage. I don't need to make a lot of people love me. As long as that small probability event belongs to my other half.
Where is he? It's too much of a hassle to wait. See you again and again, see you again. I can't fight, I'm afraid that one will miss.
In this case, I understand a little bit about the blind date girl in the film, who is relatively beautiful. When I was a child, I didn't understand the kind of woman who likes to be "self-conscious". Talk to her one more word, and she will catch her goodwill, how terrible. But when I get older, I finally understand that the struggle for love requires this kind of courage that is not afraid of failure and perseverance.
We can still take her stupidity as a joke. But who dares to say that he has never been such a fool?
The unfortunate one is the one that has never been done.

In fact, from the beginning to the end, the screenwriter and director did not teach us the method of "understanding each other's mind".
Or, there is no such rule at all.
What we need to learn is to face reality bravely. Then, learn to understand yourself, and then love yourself.
The unlucky girl's expression to her sweetheart, Jennifer's separation from her cheating husband, Aniston's re-trust with her boyfriend, Scarlett's pursuit of her heart, and Barrymore's sweet smile to her friend's ex-boyfriend.
Who can we know at a glance, who is the right person for us?
Understand his heart, maybe it's not that important at all. You really know what you want and what you have, just fine.

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Extended Reading
  • Albertha 2022-03-23 09:01:47

    Reluctantly, I admit that these are the truths.

  • Newell 2022-04-24 07:01:05

    Rare love education film star-studded

He's Just Not That Into You quotes

  • Mary: I had this guy leave me a voice mail at work so I called him at home and then he e-mailed me to my Blackberry and so I texted to his cell and then he e-mailed me to my home account and the whole thing just got out of control. And I miss the days when you had one phone number and one answering machine and that one answering machine has one cassette tape and that one cassette tape either had a message from a guy or it didn't. And now you just have to go around checking all these different portals just to get rejected by seven different technologies. It's exhausting.

  • Angela: They just so sneaky that you think it was your idea.

    Frances: Yeah. You're sitting back and you're like: "Oh, yeah. This my idea. But wait a second, why am I alone? Why am I unhappy?"

    Angela: "Why have I gained 20 pounds?"

    Frances: They Jedi mind-trick you.