Maybe male friends will not be so interested in this movie, or they may be a little inexplicable after watching it, even if they can be in the movie
It is very life to find a woman or your own shadow around you , and there will always be flashes in the process of watching a movie: Huh? Am I not always like this? Then I suddenly realized, oh, here is where I went wrong, it turns out that men's brain waves are like this, huh, so I have a deep understanding. I
read a movie review and thought it was very good, so I took an excerpt of
what it means to not like you So:
1. If he is passive and reserved.
"Maybe he doesn't want to ruin our friendship" "Maybe he's shy" "Maybe he has low self-esteem" "Maybe he just doesn't know how to contact me"...Gerg said that throughout the course of human history, any man will try to get close to you Don't care about breaking "friendship", he can't be too afraid to chase you because of shyness and inferiority, the only thing he is "feared" is that he is so "indifferent" to you, he won't know how to contact you, mobile phone, Email, IM, SNS, twitter... He can use his eyes, mouth, brain, network, google to find you - unless he doesn't want to find you. Maybe some people advocate that this is no longer the Stone Age, girls should take the initiative to pursue the person you like, but I believe that the person who really likes you will not let you go to great lengths to find him - because he will take the initiative to send it to your door.
2. If he doesn't do what he promises you, even if it's just a phone call.
"He was really busy so he forgot" "At least he really apologized to me"... He is very busy, he is about to take office as the President of the United States, and he has to negotiate hundreds of millions of dollars in business an hour. It's crazy busy to not have time to call you. There are mobile phones, speed dials, and even voice dialing. Sometimes, when you don't even want to make a call, the phone is dialed out of your trouser pocket. Why don't you have time to make a call? If you really like you, you won't forget it, if you forget it means he doesn't care about your disappointment. "Busy" is a weapon of mass destruction in a relationship, synonymous with "jerk," the person who perfunctory you with being busy. —(sound) Men know what "priorities" are, as for apologies? Oh no time to listen to his nonsense.
3. If he is ambiguous.
"He was hurt before" "He has a messy life now" "He just broke up/divorced and he wants to take it slow" "He is used to being free"... These are all urban myths to deal with girls that guys don't like, if If he likes you, he will not be ambiguous, and he will declare the ownership of you in the world. He does not want to see your friends and family, saying that because he is with you and not with your mother, he does not want to Take you into his circle and say that because it's just two people's business, if he uses the above excuses to explain the ambiguity between you, then please automatically translate it into "I just want to use you to kill time" "I don't like it very much. you".
4. If he doesn't want to get too close to you.
Gerg said it very directly, "I am a man, if I like you, I will kiss you, and I will want to see you in underwear and without underwear." Although it feels embarrassing and cold, it is true to think about it. If you like you, you should like your inner and outer. Don't you want someone who likes you to say to you "I love you very much, let me be your soul friend"... I guess Plato doesn't like his old man either. would say so.
5. If he betrays you.
"He drank too much" "It was just an occasional accident" "He was careless"...Gerg was right, there was no excuse for betrayal. Betrayal doesn't happen "accidentally", it's impossible for him to say "Oh, I accidentally fell and fell on someone else's bed." Knowing that it will break the rules in love, he has to implement them , you should just dump him, the worst thing is that people may doubt their attractiveness because of this, should they have a plastic surgery or should they lose weight, Gerg said coolly: "You don't need to lose 20 pounds, you need to lose 175 pounds - The weight of your unpromising boyfriend."
6. If he's too drunk to come to you.
He is addicted to alcohol or drugs (this should not be common in China), and he is unwilling to change for you, then he should leave, because long-term life requires sobriety.
7. If the time is right but he still doesn't want to get married.
"Maybe I'm too open-minded" "He was shadowed by his childhood family" "He wasn't ready"...Many men, women, psychologists, sociologists, anthropologists, feminists...all can Give a lecture criticizing the marriage system, telling you that marriage is a backward system and an ancient financial contract, but I'm sorry, first of all you have to understand that "don't want to get married" may just mean "don't want to marry you", Those who say "don't want to get married" will eventually get married, just not with you.
8. If he keeps breaking up with you, and then comes to you to make up.
First of all, please keep your demeanor and stop calling and texting him. If you break up, it's a break up. You don't think that as long as he comes back to you, you can continue to chat, meet, watch movies, cook for him, buy gifts, carve CDs, feed the fish, greet his parents and friends, use his voicemail to check his call log. . . . . The person who really likes you won't break up with you, and won't toss you over and over, so please wake up, unless you want to be a yo-yo champion.
9. If he suddenly disappears inexplicably.
Don't spend a lot of energy trying to solve the "Missing Man Mystery", no matter you find all kinds of evidence and excuses to comfort yourself, the only truth is that he doesn't want to be with you anymore and has no guts to be with you say clearly. Trust me, there's no secret - he's not good enough for you.
10. If he is married.
Not much to say, at least until he gets divorced. If you still can't figure it out, you should probably call the police - someone lost their brain.
Like Liz said, sometimes we would rather believe that a man is too scared, too nervous, too inferior, too holy, too loving his ex, too sensitive, too Oedipus, too busy, too much childhood shadow, too much family pressure, too much Tired, too crazy, too tanned, too suicidal... But he doesn't want to see the simple fact clearly, yes, he is not too busy, not injured, not shadowed by childhood, not encountered earthquake flood, not To be the President of the United States, it's not a concussion and a brief amnesia, or a phone that fell into a hot pot, he's not amnesia, and he's not dead - he just doesn't like you that much.
Here's a summary of some of the movie's classic lines:
No man really wants to get married, get married, what do they think, the woman they missed.
Why do girls love fantasy so much? Fantasizing the trivial things that men do into other meanings?
Girls are taught many things in the process of growing up: if a man punches you, he likes you; never try to trim your bangs; then one day, you will meet a perfect man and get your own happiness At the end, you promised each other; every movie we've seen, every story we've heard, begs us to stop and wait; but sometimes we're so focused on finding a happy ending that we don't learn to read the signs; perhaps Only you, pick up the pieces scattered all over the place and start over again, for a better future, don't shackle yourself; maybe the happy ending is just, just keep moving forward; or maybe the happy ending is this, understand that all Unanswered calls and broken hearts, through all the missteps and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment, but you will never give up hope!
Most women don't know what a man is thinking, especially good women.
Most men don't know what a woman is thinking, especially a good man.
It's normal if you've been in a relationship for 7 years and never got married. On the contrary, it is not normal.
If you quarrel over what kind of food you eat, it is normal, otherwise, it is not normal.
If you are distressed because each of you is in love with someone else, that is normal, otherwise, it is not normal.
We are all people in the rules.
Women always equate men with themselves, and often a message, a phone call, or a thought from a man can make you happy for a long time. But most men only take a minute to send you a text message, a phone call, and a word about you. Maybe next minute to another woman too... Indeed, He's Just Not That Into U.
Actually he didn't call you because he wasn't interested in seeing you again, he didn't call you because he didn't want to call you . If a guy doesn't care about how you act, he really doesn't care about you!
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