I grew up on a process of autosuggestion but the exact opposite. The little girl's mother would tell her that boys bullied her because they liked her. Then, when I was riding a bicycle when I was a child, I was knocked down and cried by a boy whose name I can't remember. My dad went to sue him and hurt him. Does the case of being beaten up mean he likes me? This is a bit self-deprecating, but it doesn't explain anything after all.
Then he lived for many years in a kind of self-suggestion liking. This serious case also shows that if people do not live and grow in an environment, those so-called common topics and favorite emotions are all farts. Comforting oneself by oneself is a wonderful fantasy brought out by the breeding ground of imagination, and all will fall down to reality.
It's really trivial, but I still think it's true when I think about it, I became sensitive and suspicious, even like the married woman in the film who was bored and asked each other for her own principles, asked for honesty, and asked to be consistent with me. Just as romantic as the beginning. It's ridiculous, and I'm even a little scared, because that kind of unity that requires honesty even more than knowing that the other party has slept with someone but taking the initiative to tell her that she cares about the same mentality of the former, I think it's really scary.
To put it simply, I used to want to find a soul partner, and I used to want a specific type of myself. So far, although I despise ambiguity, I still haven't done it well, and I will still be told by those in real life that these phenomena are normal. All such people get angry. What about getting married in June? It still cares where the sense of loss that a diamond king's fifth child calls her every day without calling her for a day comes from? Are people crazy now. In fact, this is still a good case of good nature. The bad ones are as early as I don’t know about the marriage before and after marriage. I don’t know about it, and then I find reasons to vent and say that the marriage is unhappy.... Doing things like this people, marriage can be happy? I'm afraid the pig will go to heaven...
Maybe yes, people are vulnerable and need to find a reason not to be responsible, but no matter how difficult it is, the road to finding true love will not be smooth.
In fact, I didn't know whether I had no confidence in myself or in the man at first. There are many vivid examples that warned me that today this man died for you, and after the sadness and pain, he can be sweet with others tomorrow. Just like the small real estate businessman who fell in love with anna immediately in the film. This is the norm, and it is the mindset that one must learn to find true love. How contradictory? Because of this, I still feel that people are very sad. On the way of growing up, I also feel how ridiculous
my mentality is... I want to say something stupid to the self who was obsessed with fantasy before.
I also want to say something to myself who insists on principles, insists on honesty, and insists on being consistent is true love, silly hat.
I still don't know what it means to really care, but I want to say sorry to the person who silently pays no matter how cold my reaction is.
It's time to wake up, and then continue to look for the heart that is still willing to exchange completely in this fragmented world.
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