She's also not that into you

Edmond 2022-01-26 08:18:21

The rules are, in fact, the same for both men and women.
Men may have a lot of "hidden rules" when it comes to dating, but don't women?
Let me try to summarize one or two.

1. Never believe "I'm not free this weekend" when a
boy asks a girl out, if the girl says that, it basically means that you don't have to call next weekend.
Otherwise, they themselves will add something after this sentence.

2. Never ask, "When are we going to meet next time" or something like that.
At the end of the date, when you find you need to use this sentence to determine the way to meet next time, don't really ask, otherwise, you will never have to say goodbye.

3. Never believe "I don't want to get married in my life", "My family doesn't allow me to fall in love", and "I'm too young".
When you've confessed and found that the answer is these, then the best way is to shut up and get ready for the next date. Never try to teach girls these "principles". You have to know that the girl who says "I don't want to fall in love in college" now will put her arm on a boy who may not be as good as you next week.

4. Never believe "Girls are reserved".
If you find that your date with her requires you to initiate the whole time, and you can't even get a call from her in the next week, then please leave automatically. Otherwise you'll hear her say "I already have a boyfriend" on the next date.

5. Never believe "I need to think about it"
Maybe she really needs to think about it, but it will take a night at most. If she doesn't take the initiative to call the next day, trust me, you definitely don't need to call again to verify.

6. Never send more than two text messages and make more than two phone calls in a row.
I beg you buddy, when your text messages or phone calls are like a dead sea, you should understand that she is rejecting you. Please don't make excuses in your mind like "she might be out of battery" or "she might not have her phone" to get yourself back on the phone.

7. If you hear "The user you dialed is on a call, please try again later" after connecting, please don't really press the prompt tone.
If you call and suddenly hear something like this on the microphone after the beep, trust me, she's definitely not busy with her homework, or her dad is around. Women will have a lot of "inconveniences", but not this one.

8. Never believe that "you and she can start as friends"
trial marriage is fashionable enough. When did you hear about trial marriage?

9. Never believe "she did this to test you" to
keep her principles. If you find her facing your confession and doing something embarrassing to you, please don't think she is testing your psychological endurance. You should understand that she doesn't know how to properly draw a line with you.

10. Never trust the rules, trust your own feelings.
Please forget what I said above.
You just need to remember that when you are with the right person, you should feel natural, relaxed and happy.
When you find yourself needing to deliberately create a date atmosphere, most of the time, you're picking the wrong person.

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He's Just Not That Into You quotes

  • Mary: What if you meet the love of your life, but you already married somebody else, are you supposed to let them pass you by?

  • Alex: I really gotta go to bed.

    Gigi: Is that an invitation?

    Alex: What?

    Gigi: Oh god, That was cheesy.