How will you think of me without me?

Dana 2022-01-27 08:23:03

She has a pair of crystal clear eyes, as if she can see through everything.

See through the natural law of life and death, see through everything in the world is nothing but fleeting time, see through the chemical reaction of the human body between people.

Her eyes were foggy when life told her weeks in advance that it was coming to an end.

We all live in a certain way, or are looking for a certain way. We are all working hard. However, one day life abandons us, like throwing away a waste paper full of drafts, at that moment, we are vulnerable. Laughter, pain, smiles, tears, fear, just turned into a cloud of smoke between the lightning and flint, and disappeared in front of those who love you.

Ann cried. She has two angelic daughters, a husband Don who married when she was seventeen, a mother who complains about the world, and a father who has not seen each other in prison for a long time.

"Can't you listen to something normal people listen to?"

"Mom, there are no normal people in this world."

"I like the cold, it makes me feel real."

Ann has insight and a fragile heart that ordinary people don't notice. Eager to be cared for but unwilling to say a word about yourself. Facing her husband and children, she would hide her tiredness. When she was alone, the loneliness was not just an imagination.

She was terminally ill, and she chose to take it upon herself. And in these last days, she decided to give this time to herself. She wrote down what she was going to do. She recorded her own wishes and blessings for her daughter's every birthday. Find another man and love yourself. Go to see your own father. For husband, mother, lover, recorded tapes, let them live a good life.

What is life like without yourself?

Maybe there will be an ann with the same name as himself, who will love his daughter and husband the same, the daughter will not cry because she doesn't see her mother, and if she disappears, what will be left?

I love you, you have to remember.

She and her husband met at Nirvana's last concert. don wipes ann's tears with his crew neck shirt. Love entered ann's life prematurely, a girl who was urged to grow up by the hardships and fatigue of life. Ann might understand the pain of her idol Kurt.

And his lover, perhaps not because of this disease, he would not have the courage to feel the arms of another person. She and him didn't know each other and didn't ask each other, but they both fell in love with each other. Ann didn't tell him about his illness. After he died, the only thing left to him was the tape, and his coat was always on. on ann's body.

When the screen slowly turned white, the suppressed emotions that had been suppressed for an hour and a half were slowly released at that moment.

I stand in the rain, fly in the cold wind, the rain seeps through my shirt, and now I feel the earth with my feet and breathe the air around me.

It wasn't until the end of the movie that she realized the conversation that Ann started, she was so reluctant to let the world go.

In the days without me, every character is an artist, ann's philosophical muttering, the neighbor's sentimental story, mother's sadness over old movies, father's sincere apology, mili vanilla, whom Miss Hairdresser likes ?????

in my opinion, not my day, very "Wong Kar-wai," it's not because I like Wong Kar-wai, the movie will all say, "Wong Kar-wai." As long as you are friends who have seen this movie, I am sure that you will feel the same way as me. Neon streets, bars, those poetic dialogues, against the interweaving halo of red and blue, are bright and seductive.

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My Life Without Me quotes

  • Dr. Thompson: Hello, Ann.

    Ann: [about Dr. Thompson giving her eye contact when he speaks to her] Is this some sort of therapy to help you get over your shyness?

    Dr. Thompson: ...Something like that.

  • Penny: [watching Laurie eat eight ribs at once] You're a PIG!