How can I balance my life?

Winnifred 2022-03-19 09:01:03

L said, "The King of Wrestling" is his favorite movie, so I watched this movie on such a boring morning, who was only interested in "doing nothing" for a long time. I thought it was full of violence and provocation. , duel, so L likes it, but this movie has more than these, but also persistence, conquest, retention, as well as old age, victory away, betrayal of family, rejection of love, helplessness in life... And everyone can see a predictably vague shadow of themselves.
Many times, I have fallen into deep self-blame and dissatisfaction, such as, in life, you are a complete loser, you did it more than ten years ago, there are no flowers, no sunshine, no applause, and nothing you want, You have been persuading yourself that that is all that an ordinary person lives, and that they should face the suffering and helplessness that comes one after another, whether struggling or working hard, they are nothing but a bird with broken wings, a fish in draining water, and nothing more. When you are tired, you obey.
do you know? Where is the time, where is the wealth, for the past 20 years, Sledgehammer has spent all his time on his wrestling career, practicing day and night, soaking in that jar full of blood, applause and whistling all day long, knocking down opponents every time. When the referee raised his hand to announce the victory, he felt that he had conquered his opponent and conquered the world. However, all this is just one show after another, just to win the applause of the audience. 20 years later, when the winner stood in front of the deli counter as Robin and was criticized and identified, he was completely angry and desperate: "It turns out... I was still forgotten, I worked so hard, but Life still gave me a pile of shit...". When everything was gone, all he could do was return to the stage that made him excited and cheered him forever.
How can I balance my life so that I can do my best in all areas, instead of winning the family and losing the job, winning the career and losing the love, winning the marriage and losing the husband, or winning it all and losing myself? ? My energy is so limited, how can I maximize all the benefits in the limited time? I spent a lot of time reading motivational books and making time management forms, only to find that I was still wasting time. Do you know what goal you want to achieve? Do you have a plan for your life? Do you know what is most important to you at this stage? And to achieve these goals, what kind of efforts do you have to make, what things may be sacrificed, and how to control the risks to the minimum range, have you thought about all these? However, how many people just want to do what they want to do at the right time, we call it casual, as the king of wrestling saw, in the end If you've ever seen a one-legged man then you've seen me, how heartbreaking.

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The Wrestler quotes

  • Necro Butcher: Are you cool with the staples?

    Randy 'The Ram' Robinson: Staples?

    Necro Butcher: Staple gun... Not so bad on the way in, except it's a little scary, you know - you got this metal thing pressed up against you. Gonna leave some marks, have to deal with a little blood loss.

  • Randy 'The Ram' Robinson: Give this to your son, it's an authentic Randy "the Ram" action figure. Tell him not to lose it, it's a $300 collectors item.

    Cassidy: Really?

    Randy 'The Ram' Robinson: No.