The choice of marrying or not marrying is desolate, youth has made me

Frank 2022-02-07 14:57:34

Through Becoming Jane, I began to know something about Miss Austen, and the most tangled thing was the fact that she never married. So the Miss Austen Regrets movie has been on the computer for a long time, but it has never been opened. Just worried, seeing Austen dying alone, seeing the ending full of regrets.
I finally finished watching this film on a good night, and it turned out that my worries were completely unnecessary. I forgot that Austen is a very open-minded woman, at least her works are full of humor, and she has her own way of facing such a tragic event of being unmarried and lonely. She said the only regret she had for not marrying Mr. Harris was the failure to leave some fortune to her mother and sister. She has always believed that a marriage without love is the most miserable. Therefore, in her last scene, she used the word happy to express her heart, and she did not have any regrets for marrying someone she didn't love because of money.

To marry, or not to marry. Austen 200 years ago hesitated, thought for a night, and gave up. Two hundred years later, this choice continues.
It's a choice we always have to face.
He may not be Mr. Darcy, he may not be handsome enough, he may be dull, and he may not even have the courage to fall in love with ordinary people, but we always have to choose.
Behind any choice is to give up all other possibilities, whether to marry or not, between hesitation, youth may be barren. Behind it is another life, another possibility.

At the age of 20, the problem was just an occasional gust of wind and disappeared immediately. Love is high above, everything else can be put aside, regardless.
At the age of 30, this problem turned into a snowflake, and it got colder and colder, and love turned to ice without a warm fire. We must find something that warms us. Inevitably fall into the cliché, inevitably the world begins to value material things. It's all a matter of time.

And Jane, who is nearly 40 years old, still hasn't given up her firmness and expectation for love. However, no matter how respected he is, he can never win love. Because youth is gone, and Mr. Darcy, only inThe face was revealed inside, and it was never seen again.
Time is always cruel to women. And a heart that always dares to love is a woman's most powerful weapon.

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Miss Austen Regrets quotes

  • Fanny Austen-Knight: You like Mr. Haden!

    Jane Austen: He has very good teeth.

  • Mme. Bigeon: [late at night, both in nightgowns; strong French accent] My friend in Paris has read a wonderful new book called 'Raison and Sensibilite'

    Jane Austen: Sense and Sensibility?

    Mme. Bigeon: My friend says, whoever the woman is who wrote this book, she knows more about love than anyone else in the world

    Jane Austen: Like someone who can't cook writing a recipe book

    Mme. Bigeon: Passion is for the young. It fades so quickly.

    Jane Austen: [wistfully] Not in our dreams

    Mme. Bigeon: Comfort remains, friendship remains, if you are lucky as I was.

    Jane Austen: Happiness in marriage remains a matter of chance

    Mme. Bigeon: But the fuss we make about who to choose. And love still dies and money still vanishes. And, spinster, lover, wife, every woman has regrets. So we read about your heroines and feel young again. And in love. And full of hope. As if we can make that choice again.

    Jane Austen: And do it right this time

    Mme. Bigeon: This is the gift which God has given you.

    [Jane Austen looks up sharply]

    Mme. Bigeon: It is enough, I think.