I have read a lot of posts about blind dates on the Internet, and a few lucky people finally found the one through blind dates, but more are some ridiculous stories of encounters with JP men/women.
As Ge You said in the film, blind date is actually a very unreliable thing. We don’t like those who are crooked and cracked, but anyone who looks good and looks pleasing to the eye is either indifferent or has a ghost and is mentally healthy. Where are all the innocent girls in history, why can't I meet any of them?
I have encountered an old colleague who became gay, a cemetery salesman, an unmarried mother who found a father for her baby, a shrewd female investor who chooses men like stocks, and a widow who is sexually indifferent once a year. But indomitable, he carried his backpack again and again and embarked on the long road of blind date.
What a realistic picture this is! Among our group of single leftover men and women, how many people are like this, overturning the river in love, fighting wits and courage in blind dates, but encountering all kinds of unreliable things again and again.
I saw a post saying that blind date is actually a process of looking for shortcomings with a magnifying glass. Both men and women have been introduced by Hu Chuihai, and they will inevitably compare them one by one after meeting. Everyone has a scale in their heart, add a little here, take a little away there, and if the scale can still be balanced after adding and subtracting, it will be over. If the scales are out of balance, then bye bye.
A few days ago, a JJ laughed at herself and said to me that she had spent more than 20 years in her life, and she had used it all to meet rotten peach blossoms.
That JJ is actually a very good girl, but for so many years, she has been rude to people. When the people around her get married, she is left behind. Although it is not enough to become a resentful woman, it is inevitable that when you are with friends, you will complain about how unreliable the love in this life is.
It is said that the pain is engraved in our hearts, but on the surface, we still have to be tenacious and look for the other half on the road of life with a smile and a smile. Because no one dares to say that they are strong enough to be alone and grow old alone, and they are willing to be magnanimous. Even Samantha, who is so independent and confident in SACT, is actually not willing to spend her 50th birthday with her best friends when she gets old. What's more, we ordinary people always need to find someone to grow old together.
But the people around us, no matter whether he lowers his eyebrows to please you, or approaches you ambiguous in words and deeds, how many secrets are hidden in their hearts that cannot be told, and how can they be known through blind dates?
Just like the smile when he first saw Qin Fen, his eyes were sad, and he felt inferior. Qin Fen, who was smiling at the first sight, was slick, talking a lot but seldom mentioned himself.
If you can't be a lover anyway, then be a drinking buddy. I just didn't expect that under such an unreliable appearance, there is an honest heart in today's society.
The scene of Qin Fen confessing in the church left a deep impression on me.
In a small church in a foreign land, facing an old priest who couldn't understand what he was saying, did he dare to let the desire to talk for many years to be uncontrollable like a flood that opened the floodgates.
Modern people, how many secrets and stories are hidden in their hearts, but they cannot find anyone to share. We are tired of the process of getting to know each other and adapting to each other, and hope to find another half circle that suits us in an efficient and fast way.
Years later, the friends who drank and bragged together in those days were far apart. In the end, I found that I still couldn't find the person around me who could share my story.
Usan sang the Japanese folk song that I couldn't understand, and loneliness hit, and finally lost his voice in pain on the empty road.
The camera opened, what a beautiful and pleasant pastoral scenery. However, if there is no one to share, no matter how beautiful the scenery is, it will be desolate.
The long road is long, who will accompany you? Please think twice, if you are the one, do not disturb.
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