Some time ago, a female friend just finished watching Gone with the Wind and called me to ask: Does Rhett really love Scarlet? I replied: Of course it is true. She continued to ask: If it was true, why did he leave her in the end? I said some reasons far-fetched, and I don't remember what I said. At that time, I had almost forgotten "Gone with the Wind", and I don't even remember whether he left her at the end. How can I know the reason? I watched the novel "Gone with the Wind" when I was in junior high school, and the movie was watched at an Internet cafe one night when I was in the Ministry of Nationalities. It looks good, but I forgot where it looks good. I was more impressed that "Gone with the Wind" is a surprisingly long movie. The time I watched it at night, I didn't know how many times I slept midway. I watched "Gone with the Wind" again last night. Apart from the length of the film, there were no shortcomings.
This time I watched "Gone with the Wind", from midnight to 4:30 this morning, I did not doze off. A person watching a movie quietly, especially in the middle of the night, is easy to be led by the movie to think about a lot of things, love, hate, and hatred, and nothing is left-especially last night. I fully understand why I fell asleep when I watched this movie for the first time. Its rhythm is too slow, just like making a TV series. I was still blank at the time, especially in terms of emotions. Before that, I had never experienced a decent relationship. When I watched "Gone with the Wind", I couldn't understand its meaning more deeply, so I was naturally not attracted by it too much. Although some things do not have to be experienced to understand, but if you have experienced it, you will definitely understand better. After leaving the Ministry of Nationalities, I have experienced life and emotions that I have never experienced in my life. Although I have been exposed to a lot of descriptions about these before, I only realized when I really met, the feeling was so different. I suddenly discovered that I understood Rhett so well, including that he absolutely left Scarlet he loved so much in the end, yes, he loved Scarlet so much.
Last year, the detective repeated a line in the DV filmed by Wang Xiaofeng in "Surrounded Women": This life is like a movie (Tianjin dialect). I think there are many girls who like Rhett in the movie, because he is just right and suave and can force girls to say three words: You are so bad! And it doesn’t work. But if you put it in reality, a living Rhett is in front of all the beauties, and they are quite polite not to spit on him-the kind of love is limited to the movies, just like a woman who is as determined as Scarlet, reality China is also very rare, especially in the upper class. In fact, they like Rhett in movies for only one reason: it's movies. For movies, we are always off-screen, so we can always see everything clearly, and naturally see the sultry tenderness under Rhett's romantic and suave mask, but Scarlet is on the screen with Rhett Yes, she is not as sober as we are, so she tortured Rhett in every way, just like we tortured our lover in reality. There is a scene I remember very clearly, that is, Rhett took their daughter Bonnie to London. Because the little girl missed her mother so much, Rhett decisively gave up the idea of leaving Scarlet with her daughter before and took her daughter home. After Scarlet hugged Bonnie in a pleasant surprise, he saw Rhett approaching humblely, and he also bowed deeply to Scarlet incomparably gentlemanly. Notice the expression on Scarlet's face before he bowed. I'm sure that is the expression that a woman can only have when she is extremely happy. This should be the beginning of a family reunion and a harmonious and happy life. However, Rhett's bow broke this harmony. Turns the story in another direction. My understanding is that Rhett's bow was a mockery of Scarlet. It was caused by jealousy. This mentality was because Scarlet had never forgotten the Ashley in her dream. This was the real reason why Rhett chose to leave her in the end. Seeing this, my heart feels particularly uncomfortable. Once upon a time, I was also like Rhett makes such actions to those who love him, in order to blatantly make the other person uncomfortable. The purpose is to find some psychological comfort from the other person’s pain, but can I really gain anything from the other person’s pain? ? If you have to say there is a gain, it must be more painful than before. Of course, the premise is that both parties are still in love with each other, and this kind of deliberate harm is just to blame the other for not loving themselves enough. Life is a movie. We are just different roles, with love and hatred mixed in. We are consciously or unconsciously creating all kinds of fancy pain and joy. No one needs to buy tickets to watch this theater, everyone is an actor.
After watching "Gone with the Wind", apart from feeling that it is particularly long, I am also very grateful that it is so long and makes the analysis of the picture so vivid. If it is only an ordinary 120 minutes, I dare not imagine that this movie is still What's the good thing. I think the poorest thing is Ashley in the movie, because he has been hesitant, he doesn't know whether he really loves Melanie or Scarlet. Being a man, Scarlet has no reason not to like it, because she has almost all the beauty and temperament that a woman can have. So there are always men around her at the dance, but she has always been in love with Ashley, very passionately. As a man, Ashley, of course, can hardly give up the swan in front of him. However, Melanie's quality is that both the upper class and the lower class take it all. Standard Christians are not good enough. She was so good to tolerate the improper behavior of her husband Ashley and Scarlet, although it was not sexual. Such a woman is the best person to live together. Of course, Ashley can't give up. Besides, she is his wife. This entanglement surrounds Ashley until Melanie dies in childbirth. At this time Ashley realized that Melanie was so indispensable to herself and Scarlet was so insignificant. A lot of things are like this. Whether in movies or in life, you have to wait until you can't stand it before you understand the beauty. We often fail to see who we are, we always think that what we think is now who we are. In fact, this so-called truth cannot be verified, so it cannot stand scrutiny. Speaking of Rhett, his experience is very inspiring, especially men. Rhett made me temporarily forget the pain I was in and think about love and hate seriously.
Rhett finally left Scarlet even though many people were puzzled or sentimental. But his departure was so reasonable and reasonable. In the movie of life, I always thought that I was the director of the role and content I played. But then I found out that sometimes it is not. Because of some special and unpredictable circumstances, you will completely disrupt the arrangement of your original story. Perhaps a determined person can pull the camera back to the original script, but the many images inserted into it are enough to make you unforgettable for a long time. This is because we don’t know who is the director of the play we acted in? Where? Is it our faith? Or a person in life? We are often led by the nose by something we don't understand. Only sigh, life is much more than a movie.
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