Each of us spends our entire lives healing the wounds of childhood! In this sense, Joe has been growing and healing himself! He is brave!
Throughout the first and second seasons of "You", looking back, I understand everything about Joe! Do not persuade others to be kind without their suffering! Joe is pathetic but definitely not hateful! He's just been searching for love! His desires are nothing but his desires!
His childhood trauma has determined that he has longed for that powerful protection from a young age. But he never got it until he was an adult! As an adult, he gradually became obsessed with the role of protector! Because he had always longed to be protected, but the protector never appeared. So later he disguised himself as the protector to show the public, this is a kind of reverse compensation! His target has always been those who are traditionally weak (such as women or children) and these women are also Fragile/Elegant symbiotic contradictions. In the first season, he believes that love is protection! He could cast upon them the power he had always desired but never had! Because if the power of desire can be exerted on the so-called loved one, it is equivalent to being able to empathize with him. But how can the world feel this way! So Joe is naive again! He's just lost! But no one has ever given him a correct demonstration! He's been exploring! Obsessed in that so-called protector role! Joe is brave again!
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