Loyalty is an effect of love, not a condition

Kamron 2022-02-24 08:02:09

Man: She will prove her infidelity that she betrayed me. Woman: He will prove his cowardice, he pushed me away. Loyalty in marriage is meaningful only when it comes naturally. Love is unconditional acceptance of all without feeling sacrificed. Loyalty is an effect of love, not a condition. When loyalty is regarded as a moral obligation to be deliberately maintained, a whirlpool of crisis has arisen, some details that were not cared about at first seem out of place, and the opposing interpretation of values ​​is projected to all aspects, gradually developing into a comprehensive negation or even contempt for the other party. . Loyalty as a moral obligation can also make people cunning. On the surface, they are full of contempt, and they can no longer effectively empathize with the other party, and even expect the other party to become the unfaithful party. Therefore, what is precious is the natural revelation of disposition. Seeking psychological comfort with a hypocritical sense of morality in irreparable feelings will only make people more despicable. As long as there is disgust in the heart, outward loyalty will never work. You will also become disgusting in the eyes of others.

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Contempt quotes

  • Camille Javal: [voice-over] I've noticed the more we doubt, the more we cling to a false lucidity, in hope of rationalizing what feelings have made murky.

  • Paul Javal: You don't want to make love?

    Camille Javal: Listen to the jerk.

    Paul Javal: Is that a mocking smile or a tender smile?

    Camille Javal: A tender smile.

    Paul Javal: So, answer me!

    Camille Javal: If it were true, I'd tell you. A woman can always find an excuse not to make love. But you're really a jerk.

    Paul Javal: Vulgar language doesn't suit you.

    Camille Javal: It doesn't suit me? Listen to this: Asshole. Cunt. Shit. Christ almighty. Craphole. Son of a bitch. Goddamn. So, still think it doesn't suit me?