There are thousands of boys in the world, and there are countless types according to various classification methods. But for the two boys in the movie, I want to talk about the difference between the two boys from their completely different expressions of love.
For the expression of love, it actually belongs to the classification of a person's emotional expression. I simply classify it into the type of emotional expression and the awkward type of emotional expression . Alternatively, we can categorize into verbal expressions and action expressions.
Or the difference between being mature and willing to express emotions, and not liking and not accustomed to expressing emotions directly. This classification is also classified by psychologist Carl Jung into feeling (Feeling) and thinking (Thinking) personality . Emotional personality is naturally rich in emotion, able to use and express emotions maturely, and thinking is suppressed. The thinking personality, emotional expression is suppressed, logical thinking can be used maturely.
Obviously, Wang Bode belongs to the type of emotional expression repression, while Zhang Jiahan is more willing to express his emotions. We can see that both of them are deeply in love with each other, but just because of the different ways of expressing their emotions, it is enough to make the conflicts between the two boys continue to be amplified and the distance will be pulled apart.
Salve vs Walnut
In the beginning, both of them expressed love more with actions than words, such as Jia Han's ointment and Birdy's walnut.
Only fools don't know what I mean VS me writing songs for your movie
Until the journey of elopement to Taipei, Birdy quoted Sanmao's words for the first time after kissing him at home to express his willingness to start accepting his love, and then directed and acted in the theater, indirectly telling him "Only a fool doesn't know about me. mean".
In fact, both of them are aware of this hazy expression. After all, the metaphysical intimacy is based on the emotional connection between the two. It’s just that this ambiguity easily makes the relationship unstable when it is influenced by the outside world, and intimacy has an exclusive quality.
Do you dare VS for your own good
At this time, the appearance of the school girl will undoubtedly make the person who has the courage to express his feelings be frustrated. Love that does not get a response is doomed to be beaten by wind and rain . So there is a confrontation at home
"So we can only be good friends?"
"I dare to say who I like, do you dare?"
In the scene of waiting for the name, he ignored the hot air balloon code that the other party gave him, and that code was given to the other party first. After all, love makes people blind, especially in a repressive environment, everyone's emotions will be more or less distorted.
I just want to go somewhere without you VS you can't escape
However, when emotions erupt, they will lose their minds, and what they say when they lose their minds is not credible. So "I just want to go to a place without you" = "I just want to go to a place with only you", and "you can't escape" = "you can't escape from my palm"
Do you want to come up and sit VS another day?
If it hadn't been for Birdy's inner thoughts, I think the audience would have questioned the right words when he reunited and said, "Actually, I really loved you at the time." After all, Birdy's way of expressing his love is so subtle, private, and inconspicuous. Even when they met each other again and asked if they wanted to sit down, they still answered the repressive words of another day.
write at the end
This is a youth movie about "courage". Love in youth is always crazy, young, brave and contradictory. We can see countless conflicting scenes, and this kind of contradiction and conflict requires the settings of these two different boys to form differences.
We are always attracted to people with complementary differences in our lives, but these differences often make intimacy shock and even break. We have to learn to understand the differences between two individuals in order to make intimacy stronger.
Understanding consists of two parts, one is understanding oneself and the other is understanding others.
The former is a prerequisite for the latter.
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