Maybe one day, you find a stable job, or do a long-term career, live a regular life, save money slowly, fall in love, buy a house, get married, raise a child, and your life has entered a mature and stable life. During this period, after years of hard work, I gradually understood many truths of life, and I also became smooth and smooth in life.
Maybe one day, you will still be single, have an indecent job, not very stable, you are getting older, and you have not stabilized yet. For you, a house and marriage are just a long way away, and for the time being you can only Occasionally eat some delicious food, or travel to other cities, or buy a bright brand mobile phone clothes or something to comfort yourself.
No matter what you are, youth will pass. We have experienced all kinds of life. Looking back on those years of youth, it is nothing but those things, just like the movies. When we were studying, we faced the pressure of further studies, the pressure of the college entrance examination, the pressure of classmates, and the pressure of family members and friends. It seems that no one taught us how to face the pressure of academic studies since we were young. Study hard, especially when poor parents in rural areas give up their own life for their children's study life, the pressure is so great that it seems that only success, not failure, can repay the parents' efforts and achieve balance. But there are always some children who are not good at reading, and there are always some children who do not know how to deal with stress, which often pushes them to the opposite side of self-defeating.
Love is a double-sided sword, which often causes a lot of stress to many teenagers when they enjoy the benefits brought by the family, and for various random reasons, once the growth trajectory of the children is different from that of the parents, the children will suffer. They will fall into a situation of being lost, thinking that they are worthless, or even desperate, so they will have rebellious or self-defeating thoughts. Smoking, drinking, playing games, and eating are the most common ways to get rid of their misery. However, this method cannot Fundamentally solve emotional problems, whether they are caused by emotional problems or academic or life pressure, as well as parents' expectations, or the frustration of failure, it is these problems that need to be solved.
In the movie, Kang Sheng's parents love their children very much on the surface. They have food, housing, and education. They also signed up for cram schools. As for my father, I seldom communicate with Kang Sheng. He only uses simple moral standards and strict discipline. He is also very temperamental and does not know how to communicate. Therefore, Kang Sheng seems to be happy, but in fact, he lives very lonely. I can't even talk to my parents. I had to play truant, have fun, and find someone to take revenge to divert my inner distress.
When each of us is studying, there are always times when we can’t get into it, especially for subjects we don’t like and are not good at, or because of poor foundation, or because of something in our heart, we can’t concentrate, and we can’t understand it, or because the teacher doesn’t speak well. Good, or because of various problems in diet and daily life, and young people are meeting for the first time in their lives, they don’t know how to deal with them, and their psychology is easily fluctuated. When I was in school, the most embarrassing thing I saw was that many top students with top grades, Later, I suddenly stopped reading or I didn’t like reading, because the great self-esteem turned into a great pressure, or the various life difficulties experienced by myself were unable to handle and turned into psychological and emotional instability.
Another protagonist in the movie is the second brother who dropped out of school, who makes a living by stealing things. The protagonist in the movie "Xiao Wu" is also a thief. The dormitory environment is very poor. I usually work at night, when I have nothing to do during the day, smoking, drinking, playing games, and there is no other positive energy thing to do. Oh yes, driving a hair dryer is not bad. The third protagonist is a girl who works in an ice skating factory. She is young and loves to buy clothes. How to solve sex is to chat on the phone and find a stranger for a one-night stand. The three of them don't need to go to school, they seem to be free, and it seems that Kang Sheng yearns for a life without going to school. However, they have to face the pressure of living, rent, water, electricity, food, food, and food, and the money they need to survive, and they have no formal means of earning a living. Being a thief is not a long-term solution. You can imagine the feeling in your heart. How can you solve your worries? Only cigarettes, beer, and games can make people temporarily leave the scene of reality and live in a short-lived beauty.
Love is so slight and distant to the men and women in the movie. The girl wakes up one night thinking that she has found a relationship, but it is still the same as before. It is a one-night stand, only sex, and there is love. Chatting with parents is short, boys can find happiness in the world of games, and girls' dependence is so unstable that they will feel abandoned at any time. And what about boys? Why not, you need money to open a room, eat and do anything, and your wallet will be empty in a blink of an eye. What can you do to love a girl, do you rely on painting cakes?
Of course, the reaction to the movie is that a large number of people are teenagers, and there will always be many teenagers who do not have these problems. I believe that many people are born in good families, are well-dressed, like to read, have a wide range of hobbies, and only have a small amount of homework pressure. Employment pressure, love and sex are not a big problem, but adolescence is indeed a time to get lost, because I don’t know how to deal with communication with parents, how to deal with the world, and how to deal with myself and myself. The way, hot-blooded, youthful and vigorous, the stage where sex and family relationships begin. No one teaches them about love and sex in the movie, only the pure action in the small movie is similar, but the more extensive love thing does not.
I hope that every adult can teach and impart more knowledge to teenagers, and use scientific methods to teach them how to deal with academic pressure, how to communicate with parents, how to get along with others, and how to deal with sex and love. Wait, not the scripted approach, not the fake science, not the dodgy way of thinking it would, in an avalanche every snowflake has a responsibility, a teenage problem every one of us adults Responsibility, just like when we were confused, how much we hope that someone can solve it scientifically, how we don't want those poisonous thoughts to hurt ourselves, but sometimes teenagers are lonely.
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