When I was a child, I was so stupid to look forward to growing up

Sigurd 2022-03-20 09:01:25

When I was young, I was so stupid that I wanted to grow up.

2021.7.20, I finished watching "Girl's Dream Thirty". The heroine rushed from 13 years old to 30 years old with the help of wishing fans. In the 27 years in between, she stole her purity, kindness, and original intention. and love.

Jenny's 13-year-old is very real, and she is anxious to grow up and get rid of her inferiority complex. She envies the sparkling "six girls" on campus, longs for the favor of handsome boys, rejects the blessings of her parents, ignores Matt's sincerity, and mistrusts the hypocritical Lucy. When she pushed Matt away, I couldn't help slandering her superficiality and ignorance, but understanding her simplicity and ambition. The girl's feelings are always poetry. Compared with the honest and gentle Matt, she yearns for fashion and the stage. This became a watershed in fate...

Jenny's 30-year-old is very realistic, all dreams come true. Being a well-known editor is the envy of everyone, and the suitors of the wire rod are always beautiful. Lucy has become a best friend. The full cloakroom made Jenny from panic to reluctance. At the party, she smiled brightly and used a dance to save the cold scene. I will feel that 30 years old is not bad, and I can enjoy more with less struggle. However, life cannot be immersed in the high society of the rich and the money for a long time, and Jenny gradually finds out that it is abnormal.

She became hypocritical, selfish, indifferent and alienated, no longer chatted with her parents, parted ways with Matt, physically cheated on her best friend husband, Lucy was just a plastic sister... In the end, Matt was once tempted, but he still chose Wen Ti, he reluctantly said that time cannot be turned back, and we must all be responsible for our own choices and move forward. Although Matt loves her dearly, they are doomed to miss out because of their former willfulness.

Seeing this scene, I was very sad. When Jenny was getting dressed up and going to find Matt, the happy bubble disappeared at the moment when she opened the door, and the rain made her even more depressed. Why is all this? Because time is not forgiving, because it is too late and can't let go.

People say that the game is life, but the game can be repeated, but people are no longer young. Each of us is made up of countless pasts, which cannot be copied or escaped. Regret only increases grief. Fortunately, this movie lived up to the label of comedy. When Jenny cried with Matt's dream house, Jenny returned to 13 years old, more mature and more determined, they embraced until they got married, I really am a cheesy person, seeing big The reunion ending couldn't hold back all of a sudden, and the moment the tears flowed out, there was a sense of relief.

Looking at my husband who was packing his clothes, I asked him if he looked forward to growing up when he was a child, and he said yes, because reading is very boring, and there is pressure to come out of the society. He bent over and said again, but I still prefer my life now. I asked him again if he wanted to go back to a time in the past to change something, and he blinked slowly and said as he went out to dry his clothes, I want to meet you sooner.

His answer made me smile. However, there is a real chance, and I don't want him to meet me sooner. Because if I was young, I might not know how to love and cherish. I want to go with the flow and grow old with him. Looking back at the reality, we always want to go to the sky in one step, or get rich overnight, but the result of the lack of process is always unstable. The ups and downs of life, we can not be absent, only experience can give meaning to the wall, some truths not only need to be understood, but also need to be practiced.

Thirteen-year-old Jenny was, in my opinion, unmistakably vain, like any girl I've ever seen, careful to maintain a fragile decency, with no depth at heart and a lackluster presence. Their delicate skins are no match for Homecoming, and their desolate cognition cannot bloom any surprise flowers. Only then did we believe that no matter how gorgeous the costumes were, no amount of dazzling achievements was worth the company of a loved one, and no amount of prosperous banquets was worth the long-lasting happiness. I hope that in this impetuous society, our original intention will always shine!

Huang Liang's dream, the floating life has passed, is an irony and a warning. When Jenny woke up from her dream, it was also a moving moment for me.

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13 Going on 30 quotes

  • Pete Hansen: [Pete suddenly grabs her, and starts kissing her] What's wrong, Pookie?

    Jenna: [disgusted] Pookie? Uh... Pukie! You're married!

  • Lucy: [at a big party] Speaking of disasters, what is she doing here?

    Jenna: Who?

    Lucy: Sparkle's editor-in-chief, Trish Sackett. Twelve o'clock and headed our way.

    Trish Sackett: [smug] Hi, girls. Our J. Lo issue is selling like hotcakes. How's yours doing?

    Lucy: [sarcastic] My God, are things so bad you had to come to our party to eat free food? Put some crab in your purse for later.

    Trish Sackett: You might want to keep some of that biting wit for your magazine. Or you could change the name "Poise" to something more appropriate, like Poison, or Pitiful, whatever's more Pathetic.

    Jenna: You know what? You are rude, and mean, and sloppy, and frizzy -- and I don't like you at all.