——If you want to have love, love alone is not enough, you still need to work hard .
01
"weird" her
The woman, Maria , was the new quality inspector at the slaughterhouse.
She became the object of everyone's talk because she was "weird" enough .
During dinner, facing the male protagonist Ender who came to say hello , he stood up, sorted his clothes, shook hands, and introduced himself, all in one go.
Ender asked in a joking tone, "As long as there's bisque here, I'll order it, you know why?"
her answer is
Well, should you praise your observation skills, honesty, or...
He never took the initiative to contact other workers in the slaughterhouse, and was so cold that even the female worker had to struggle to invite her for coffee.
When grading meat in a slaughterhouse, it is graded as a B because it is "a little" fat, and what is this "a little"?
That's right, mm. Because for her, the rules are the rules .
Excellent memory, even remember the specific time period when he got chickenpox.
Of course, you can also completely remember all your conversations with Ender.
And can analyze Ender and his own psychological activities.
"Seeing that I was alone, so he came over."
"She must be nervous. I have to pick a topic that's everyday."
"If I say something at this time, we can chat."
However, why didn't you say it? Why did you recreate the scene with two cups after a not-so-pleasant chat?
02
Blessed by "misfortune"
There is an accident at the slaughterhouse, and Ender, on the advice of the police, brings in a psychiatrist to assist in the investigation.
After a private conversation, the psychiatrist discovered that Ender and Maria had the same dream .
The doctor, exhausted from working long hours, was furious when he mistook it for a complicit farce.
After a round of investigation, the two were called into the office at the same time.
She would never have thought that this was a fate bestowed upon them by God.
It was only at this time that the two of them learned that there were people in this world who had the same dream as me. Does that mean that I am no longer alone?
Ender was very happy because of this, and took the initiative to show his love to Maria.
After that, the two of them compared each other's dreams every day and found that they were always the same.
The relationship gradually heats up, but the more contact, the more problems are exposed.
When Ender wants to exchange contact information with Maria, he finds that Maria doesn't even have a cell phone.
When Ender tried to touch Maria, Maria reflexively avoided.
Ender withdrew his hand very stiffly and said sadly.
"I've also dated some women, and every time I think it's okay, I get rejected."
" I used to think it didn't matter, but now I don't think so. Do you think I would like to be embarrassed in front of you ?"
Of course, the truth is that Maria is just afraid of physical touch . But the misunderstanding brought the relationship between the two into a bottleneck.
03
Work hard, get a little closer
Been in the dark for so long that I've become accustomed to it, thinking this is life.
Until one day, a ray of sunshine came into my world, and I thought, maybe if I work hard, I can catch it too.
So Maria began to try various methods to change, so that she could accept physical touch.
Eating candy while watching porn with a blank face
Follow the advice of a psychiatrist and listen to music to relax
Come to the outdoors to observe
touch
Undoubtedly, Maria is a brave girl, and it is not as easy as imagined to go from "weird" to normal.
Because you're going to try a lot of things that haven't been done before.
This means that you not only have to overcome your inner resistance, but also accept the "attention" from the outside world.
After all, who would touch a cow for a long time?
And Maria can do "go her own way and let others do it", isn't it great?
Finally, Maria was ready and warmly invited Ender
However, Ender refused.
" But it doesn't make sense to do this . At least we tried it. It's not a pity, and we can still be good friends."
I bought a mobile phone not to connect with the world but to connect with you, and I touch the world also to touch you.
If it doesn't make sense, what's the point of my existence?
The disheartened Maria did not explain too much, but took a more extreme approach.
Choose a good hammer to break glass, choose a suitable piece of glass, and…
Shanxi Evening News commented: " The scene where the audience laughed the most in the whole movie was actually the bloody scene when the heroine cut her wrist.
Because the director's handling method is really special, he pretends to be serious and depicts a funny and absurd picture. "
As for why it's funny, let's see for yourself!
Later, Maria and Ender slept together. The caring Maria even remembered to gently push Ender's crippled left hand into the bed.
The two had no dreams all night, yes, the dreams disappeared.
It is worth mentioning that before this, Ender had to send his "girlfriends" away even in the middle of the night, because he could not accept sleeping with them.
Perhaps as Milan Kundera wrote in "The Unbearable Lightness of Life": "To make love to a woman and to sleep with a woman are two very different, even almost opposite, feelings.
Love is manifested not by the desire to make love (which can be the desire for countless women), but by the desire to sleep with her (which can only be the desire for one woman).
As for what this same dream in the film is, I won't spoil it.
In fact, it is a bit inaccurate to say that it is the same dream, it should be said that it is a matching. (Said secretly, the picture of the dream is very beautiful, and the picture is attached)
If dreams are "spirit", then physical contact should be "flesh". Flesh and spirit are indispensable.
May we all find the other half who is compatible with both body and soul .
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