Hard to open in my heart

Marion 2022-03-20 09:01:14

Although the word "人" has two characters, it is extremely difficult to read and understand, and how to learn to be a human being, especially "perfect man", is even more difficult. No one is perfect, so when Nuwa created human beings, she defined us as social beings, social animals, through contact with people, you change me, and I change you. In life, there's no rehearsal, only live telecast. The quality of the live broadcast depends on your attitude of "whether you want to learn and whether you are willing to change". The movie "Love is hard to say in my heart" describes how Melvin, Carol, and Simon support each other in their interactions. Although they are flawed, they can be comforted by complementing each other. The power of redemption in both of them. Melvin also slowly changed himself in the process, and because of this, he gained love with Carol and became good friends with Simon. Almost all of the three characters in the film are very imperfect, and they have various misfortunes and shortcomings in their experiences or personalities, but they are precisely what inspires people deeply: even people who are extremely indifferent will be sexy. change; even if there is no love, there is no longer any hope for love, but maybe there will be dark flowers and bright flowers in another village, and you can find true love around the corner; what if you are abandoned by family love, it is still blood that will continue to be cut, and one day the iceberg will also be melt. The most classic line in the movie is Melvin's words to Carol: You Make Me Want to Be A Better Man (you make me want to be a better person), this is the best explanation for the wonderful fate that the three of them interacted with. Thank you for changing me because of you. If our changes can make others happy and make life less monotonous, isn’t that a proud and beautiful thing? In life, when you plan to open the closed door of the heart, life will come with the breath of sunshine. Suppose you refuse to contact and interact with people, and instead lock yourself in the mode that you think is the safest, and exclude all other external diversity from your mode. I saw white snow, but did not smell the fragrance of plums. Life will leave you behind. Each of us has some unavoidable shortcomings in life and reality, and we don't have to avoid them. Open your heart, be tolerant to yourself, and let your heart find a place to perch. For everyone, every individual has weaknesses and strengths, but some of us often feel ashamed because of our weaknesses and become afraid to face things, while our own strengths are hidden by ourselves, You have always only been paying attention to your most vulnerable areas, so it is difficult to exert your potential, and you will gradually become weaker. Only by looking directly at your weaknesses and facing your heart can you become strong. In addition, when we live in the world, we will meet people of different races, countries, religions, beliefs, etc., but we must learn to appreciate all the people we meet along the way, even if it is a short time. looking back, a slight glance. Every encounter is a secret arrangement, and what we have to do is to compare and think about whether this is my most satisfied self in these encounters. If so, then make persistent efforts. If not, do better. improve myself. Every person in our lives has a reason: People who like you give you warmth and courage. The people you like teach you to love and be self-sufficient. People you don't like teach you tolerance and respect. People who don't like you make you introspect and grow. No one appears in your life for no reason. Everyone appears for a reason, and they are all worthy of gratitude and learning. A sea of ​​people, ebb and flow, we will find that that person actually accompanied us through those days of darkness, light, helplessness, success, depression, or persistence, as well as the dreams that cannot be given up and given up , went so far together. When we look back, we suddenly find that the road we have traveled is so different from the one we came here. At that time, we felt that it was difficult, and it seemed to pass in an instant. There is nothing that can't go through, no hurt that can't be stopped, and no despair that can't go through. Maybe one day you will I can't hear from that person, maybe you won't have the chance to see him again. But please never forget them, because he really shines and lights the way for you. Whether he remembers it or not, whether he knows we like it or not, we just know it. We just remember ourselves and how our lives have been changed little by little, and that's enough. Thank you for your journey in life, along the way or through. Because of you, let me know myself better; because of you, let me understand who is who I want; because of you, let me know how to be myself; because of you, you have changed me, made me become Getting better and better.

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  • Melvin Udall: Did you have sex with her?

    [Carol comes out of the bathroom]

    Melvin Udall: Oh, sorry. I didn't know she was here. Did you have sex with her?

  • Melvin Udall: [dumping Verdell down the garbage chute] This is New York, pal. If you can make it here, you can make it anywhere!