[Involves a lot of spoilers, those who haven't watched it yet be careful! 】
Some people in the comments say it's hypocritical, maybe it's normal for men to beat women. (sarcastic face)
Some men will only endlessly cycle between domestic violence and apology! Some women experience repeated domestic violence all their lives. She will also educate her daughter to be obedient and endure. With this kind of education, her daughter may also face domestic violence men in the future.
Hypocritical people should face up to and understand the meaning and consequences of the term domestic violence. Anti-domestic violence is not supporting women's rights, but equality. Why is slapping not considered domestic violence? By the way, there is another kind of violence called cold violence.
After the heroine was beaten in the film, there was no one nearby to comfort her and help her. (People around think this is normal, terrible)
The mother-in-law said to the hostess, "Let's go, there are guests outside, what will they think?".
After the maid's husband hit her in the film: Do I need a reason to hit you? Go away now.
The female lawyer succeeded in the lawsuit, but did not gain the respect of her partner.
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Say Virgin Mary. The heroine is not the Virgin, which the heroine expressed in the film! It probably means: I chose what I gave up, because I was happy at the time, so I am willing to bear it. But I'm not happy anymore, I choose to leave, I don't want anything, what he has is his, he can't give me the happiness I once wanted, as long as he lets me go. They can be mean and shameless, but I won't stop at nothing because what I want is simple, I won't make divorce a deal. I also don't use children as bargaining chips, because children are priceless and children should not suffer the consequences of their parents. (Why is the Virgin Mary? This is sober!)
I really like the role of the maid in the film. She has a very rich personality. When her mother-in-law scolds her, she will scold her back. Her husband beats her. Although she endured it, she will ask why she beat her. When the hostess was unhappy, the maid said about her unfortunate life and wanted to make the hostess feel better. Tough and cowardly and kind.
Speaking to the heroine that she was domestically abused but had nowhere to escape, her tone was accustomed to it. But the fact is that she has to work while taking care of the family, and she has to be beaten by her husband. In the end, she mustered up the courage to face her husband's slap after another, and fought back frantically, picking up the knife and handing it to her husband, "You might as well kill me." The result was good, it turned out that her husband was a waste who only dared to abuse his wife who did not resist at home. From now on, she no longer has to obey her husband at home. (Seeing her beating that man, I somehow felt that the plot was so cool!)
The film depicts women among three classes: the elite, the middle class, and the bottom people. The latter two were mentioned earlier.
An elite female lawyer with a high degree of education, after winning a sexual harassment lawsuit, she was chased by a bunch of reporters for interviews, and the news was also widely reported. The female lawyer is of course happy, her hard work has been proven! When he got home, the husband felt that it was the other who released the water, and he was not proud of his wife. Seeing that his wife was unhappy, he pretended to praise her, but not because of her ability, but because of her beauty. Then he went on to say that it reminded him of his father, how great his father was, and he felt that the heroine was too proud after her victory, expressing how tolerant and understanding he was Proud, double standard dog). And because of the case he introduced to his wife, he asked his wife to thank him and repay him with her body. What a scumbag, denying his wife and using it as a bed tool.
In this case, the husband she once loved has changed, and she began to look for the shadow of her excellent husband who recognized and praised her in the past in her male friends in college. In the end, I came to my senses, it's not fair to anyone. Leave your husband, leave your husband's father's company, and go to other places where you can fully demonstrate your abilities.
The ending of this film is good. Several women in the film finally walked out of their own way, knowing that giving up pursuit or enduring infinitely cannot make them happy.
Happiness in marriage should not be purely for others, marriage is for two people, they should respect and support each other, happiness is their own, and domestic violence and cold violence should not be taken for granted, and then affect the outlook on life of the next generation.
By the way, there seems to be a single mother in the film? Her daughter is very happy and cheerful because her mother has conveyed a positive attitude towards life! And when the male protagonist found her and hoped that she and Xia Shimu would prove that he did not hit the female protagonist, he firmly refused in front of his daughter! Set a good example for your daughter! This content is good.
The awakening of feminist consciousness, compared with women at the bottom of India, for various reasons, they still do not have the courage to pursue happiness. But middle-class women, as they receive more and more information, have dared to rebel against the traditional idea that wives should always obey their husbands. Stop taking being a submissive housewife as your only pursuit, challenge tradition, keep up with trends, fight in the workplace, and start to become a better woman!
With the development of the times, Indian films have also followed the trend. Some films have reduced the content of singing and dancing, and began to pay more attention to the characterization of the rhythm and plot of the film.
In reality, although some Indian men ignore women's rights and will wantonly hurt women, this situation should be less and less. At the same time as India's economic development, it means that more people in the world are paying attention to India.
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