The weather has been so hot recently, the sky is like an endless charcoal basin, and there is a raging fire in it.
In fact, in the busy life, many people's hearts seem to be being roasted, it is "roasting", not "burning", that kind of sultry feeling, that kind of smoky mist, that kind of unspeakable discomfort.
So where is the problem?
There may be some answers in the French film Somewhere, Someone .
This is a romantic and realistic movie.
He and she both lived alone in Paris.
They live in two separate buildings, but the floors are next to each other. I especially like their balconies. When I walk out, I can see the train passing by in the distance. The scenery outside is empty and unobstructed.
Their work is also very good, you don't have to get up too early in the morning, you can get there by taking the subway. In the evening, I came back at almost the same time. I entered the supermarket next to the building in tandem, bought some things, and chatted with the owner.
There were some layoffs in his position, but he was moved to another position because of his ability.
She is doing scientific research, and her research results are used by leaders to give presentations.
It felt like their days were full and comfortable.
However, the problem soon spilled over to the surface. The body began to call the police, and their sleep was out of order.
Of course, if there is a problem, it must be solved. Taking medicine can help you sleep.
How many people today find a problem but choose to avoid it. They always think that it will get better after a while, and they always look down on this kind of symptom that does not cause pain. Over time, it was gradually swallowed up.
They went to the pharmacy to buy medicine, but he took the medicine and it didn't work, and even passed out on one commute.
After she ate it, it was just that the index did not cure the root cause, and she seemed to be getting more and more nervous.
So, they all found a psychiatrist.
A psychiatrist is actually the one who chats with you, finds your heart knot from your trivial matters and guides you forward. This is what I realized after watching this movie, we don't have a psychiatrist, we only have a psychiatrist who will judge you are sick based on your own judgment after giving you a series of expensive assessments.
However, in fact, most people are not sick, human bodies are very strong, they are only slightly vulnerable sometimes. They will have depression, but they will not suffer from depression as easily.
He was speechless in front of the psychiatrist at first because he didn't know what to say, and he felt that his affairs were ordinary and had nothing to say.
And she talked eloquently at the psychiatrist, about her getting along with her ex-boyfriend, about her humbleness and willingness in this relationship, and about the embarrassment and reluctance of breaking up.
Christmas is coming.
He went home to reunite with his family, and she watched her sister's train leave, still reluctant to visit her mother.
One day, a neighbor gave him a cat.
He refused at first, but it didn't take long for it to be really fragrant. He fed it, played with it, surfed the Internet with it, and named it "chicken nuggets".
There is one scene that is particularly cute. He has always been compromising on his expression. He imitated a kitten's action, and a small head appeared at the door of the room, then suddenly hid outside the door, and then suddenly showed his head under the door, meowing with a smile on his face, and then took a step. Step by step towards the chick on the bed, she gently waved her hand pretending to be a cat scratcher, as if she was teasing a little baby.
In fact, sometimes, if your autism attacks, you can consider animal companionship. Don't feel that they are troublesome to raise, and don't feel that they have soiled the house. Cleanliness sometimes looks desolate, and getting along with animals is also an exercise.
But raising animals still requires a kind of psychological preparation, that is, whether you can bear the pain after separation.
His kitten suddenly disappeared one day, and he anxiously looked around downstairs and concluded that it must have escaped onto the tracks and was crushed by the train, so he was in great pain.
However, his psychiatrist told him not to think in a negative direction all the time.
In order to get rid of her emotional hurt, she played social software under the introduction of her friends. The amazing thing is that the object of her face-to-face is not fake every time, but it is really only about appearance. Her psychiatrist told her that social software was the worst invention ever.
She picked up his cat next to a trash can and adopted it.
Life is still going on smoothly, changing silently. Until an emergency happened. It didn't happen to them either. A small fire nearby suddenly touched them.
He once again remembered the eyes of his younger sister when he was a child, the little life that died at the age of 7, and the little life that the whole family never wanted to mention since then was actually the knot in his heart. In his childhood, the kind-hearted man felt the deep humiliation of the lucky for the unfortunate. Since then, this shame has been with him forever.
As someone who has not been laid off, he is full of shame for those who have been laid off by the company. He blames a lot of things on himself, and his luck is also a weapon to hurt others, so he is not happy, he lives sadly and sinful.
As for her, she thought of her weak self from the fire. Parents divorced and each had a new life of his own. She and her sister seemed to be abandoned, so she lived in fear and lack of self-confidence, so she refused to forgive her mother. If she didn't forgive, she would not let herself go.
He and she are actually very fragile. Yet the film says that vulnerability is also a strength. Vulnerability, will bring treasure, will bring new insights.
All they have to do now is love themselves.
Don't blame yourself anymore. If you still feel guilty about working at your job, change jobs. Don't worry about finding a good job, we must always have positive thoughts.
She, let go of herself. She called her mother and finally faced each other. She also dismissed the idea of treating loneliness by meeting a new partner.
At the suggestion of the owner of the supermarket next door, he went to participate in dance training. She, too.
Then, they finally met.
At the end of the movie, he and she introduced themselves to each other for the first time. In the cheerful music, they held hands and danced.
At this time, they all happened to find the best version of themselves.
And this kind of encounter, sooner or later, is precisely the most beautiful encounter.
PS. The reality of this film lies in the depression and loneliness of urban life, and its romance lies in the fact that the hero and heroine live next door to each other, so close that they can even hear each other's music. They often visit the same supermarket, chat with the same boss, walk on the same road one after the other, buy medicines at the same pharmacy, and even consult with a psychiatrist who is still a friend. The cat he lost ran to her. They were touched by the same fire and saved by the same vulnerability. Then after they were healed, they danced the same dance together. The movie comes to an abrupt end at this point, and we know a sweet story is about to happen.
We also look forward to our lives as in the movies. Find the problem and heal yourself. Has your problem been cured? My problem doesn't seem to be found yet. But we have to tell ourselves that we should always have good thoughts. One day, you will stop gaining weight, you will stop losing hair, and you will be fearless.
One day.
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