Children are originally highly sensitive and have a particularly outstanding ability to perceive. Just like a little beast exploring a new world, with curious eyes, it uses its tender tentacles to explore the world tremblingly. Good, evil, beauty and ugliness are just meaningless concepts for children.
A child with autism and a child with ADHD are the same kind of child. They are born with the ability to feel the splendor and magnificence of the world in ordinary details or subtle moments. With so much to feel, it's a bit like a processor overload for a young child - it doesn't know what to do. Negative emotions such as anxiety and fear arise. Driven by instinct, the self-protection mechanism is activated, and somatic manifestations are divided into two types, either rejecting the crowd or being extremely excited in the crowd. The former has been given the name autism, while the latter is often referred to as ADHD when it appears in human pups.
What's in the dark? The source of fear is unknown. Children are completely unknown to the world, and when faced with unknown things, they are most afraid of knowing little. Children's ability to observe and imitate is very strong, like a blank sheet of paper, which can be smeared at will. What a child becomes depends on who guides it. Parents are the first imitators a child encounters after birth, and in most cases they spend the longest time together.
Love is the source of confidence. A child who has been assured from an early age that he is loved is lucky.
The accountant has a strong father but an absent mother. Therefore, after being domesticated for a long time, an autistic character was formed.
I belong to the latter. Both my parents were extremely strong, but luckily, there was no lack of love.
I have also resented, struggled, and humbled myself...even when it was the most painful, I questioned them: "My parents are so hard to repay, I would rather cut the flesh and eviscerate the grace of your life. But when you gave me life , did I agree? Have you asked me if I am willing to come to this world?" I don't know how hurtful this sentence is. Now that I think about it, my parents must be heartbroken at that moment.
As I grew up, I realized that my parents might not know how to express themselves, but they loved me in their own way.
There is only one kind of love that aims at separation. It is the love of parents. Parents who know how to love can let their children live independently and be loved by others after they leave them.
Thank my parents for their unconditional acceptance of me, for teaching me love, for teaching me the beauty of life, for teaching me hope, for teaching me the fun of all kinds of knowledge in the world. Their love and tolerance gave me enough courage and confidence to face the unknown in life.
When children have a heartfelt love for life, no cruel society can defeat them.
Child, I will always believe that what you are doing is right and good for the group and society. If parents could express it, I am sure they would tell us so.
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