Maybe that's not a problem in itself

Lottie 2022-03-17 09:01:03

Can Men and Women Be Friends? This seems to be a topic of endless litigation. Many people may say with disdain: I have a boy buddy how hard it is, and it is very likely that this pair of men and women will build a nest of love after many years. Many well-known protagonists step into romantic journeys unexpectedly after the baptism of friendship, like Harry and Sally, Monica and Chandler of Friends: Friendships unknowingly deteriorate, Sex attraction pops out. The gap between friendship and love is already very blurred, and we just communicate with each other by our feelings or intuition, "He is good, but only good, not yet to the point of being together; it is very happy to be with him, But it’s not yet to the point of getting married.” Some people take a fluke and think that such a balance is very good, and I don’t want to destroy it, but one day there will be some topics: after all, men are from Mars, women are from Mars from Venus.

ps: Of course, the men and women in the article refer to specific objects ;) The

first movie I watched was when I was in high school and listened to a CD of Crazy English, and I almost memorized all the classic lines in it. One of the dialogues is quite impressive.
Harry:" I've been doing a lot of thinking. And the thing is, I love you"
Sally:"What?"
Harry:"I love you"
Sally:"how do you expect me to respond to this?"
Harry: "How about you love me too"
Sally:"How about i'm leaving?"
Hearing Sally's answer, he burst into laughter. After so many years apart, Sally is still as willful and straightforward as when he was young, and what follows is Harry's classic confession that everyone is familiar with.

Remember Sally's girlfriends urging her to get married sooner?
Sally: "I said to myself, 'You deserve more than this, you're thirty one years old...' "
Friends:"And The clock is ticking"
Sally: "No,The clock doesn't really start to tick until you are 36~~"
......
Friends:"I'm saying, that the right man for you might be out there right now, and if you don't grab him someone else will and you'll have spend the rest of your life knowing that someone else is married to your husband."

I like the music in the movie, It Had To Be You at the beginning of the movie, Let's Call the Whole Thing Off is more interesting, and the song If you let me a ear I'll sing you a song played in the restaurant, The last classic "Auld Lang Syne" is ironic, "Should old acquaintances be forgotten, and days of long ago! We will take a cup of kindness yet, For old long ago..." Just like Sally and Harry have gray hair at the end of the film, maybe the screenwriter wants to tell everyone that there is no need to deliberately distinguish between love and friendship between men and women, as long as two hearts are happy to know each other, and grow old together is the most real. This video is also perfect for Christmas and New Years ;)

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  • Dorian 2022-03-21 09:01:24

    In the past, watching romantic films always felt vulgar and fake, but now I don't know if it was because I saw a really good film, or if life affected my mentality. This director is really good at making love. Twenty years later, there is another classic - "Heartbeat".

  • Kiley 2022-03-24 09:01:25

    AUO and above, but less than lovers. They are friends, but not just friends. There may be no one else in the world as compatible as they are. "If I want to spend the rest of my life with you, I want the rest of my life to start as soon as possible." So is there any pure friendship between a man and a woman? Maybe the answer is no.

When Harry Met Sally... quotes

  • Sally Albright: You know, I'm so glad I never got involved with you. I just would have ended up being some woman you had to get up out of bed and leave at 3:00 in the morning and go clean your andirons, and you don't even have a fireplace, not that I would know this.

  • [Harry and Sally discussing orgasms]

    Sally Albright: Most women at one time or another have faked it.

    Harry Burns: Well, they haven't faked it with me.

    Sally Albright: How do you know?

    Harry Burns: Because I know.

    Sally Albright: Oh. Right. That's right. I forgot. You're a man.

    Harry Burns: What was that supposed to mean?

    Sally Albright: Nothing. It's just that all men are sure it never happened to them and all women at one time or other have done it, so you do the math.