Born as a human, I want to get married? I'm very sorry

Angel 2022-03-22 09:01:21

Writing about a relationship is far more beautiful than confronting it.

I recently watched this year's Oscar-nominated film "Marriage Story". The rhythm of the whole film is similar to the look and feel of most European literary and artistic dramas. Or the confrontation in the courtroom and the battle in the living room, how cruel it is , I hack the computer and you steal, I drink alcohol and you widow your children, and the lawyers fan the flames to boost the big moves. The arrangement is also very similar to the relatives who can't figure out what the situation is and do a disservice.

Rather than a marriage story, it is better for parents to "love". After having children, in fact, we all live around our children and learn about each other's habits by the way. We are used to accusing each other, even insulting each other for no reason. A day without bickering is not good.

Don't want to admit it, but it's true.

We thought it was also love.

Rather than a marriage story, it is better for parents to "love". After having children, in fact, we all live around our children and learn about each other's habits by the way. We are used to accusing each other, even insulting each other for no reason. A day without bickering is not good.

Don't want to admit it, but it's true.

We thought it was also love.

The trivial and real plots can be applied to almost any real family. The two can argue endlessly about where to live in New York and Los Angeles, just like all the things that will appear after a southerner and a northerner are combined The contradictions caused by the differences are the same, and I unconsciously imagine that it is the state of Emma and High Commander of "La La Land" after they tied the knot——

Probably any relationship, or love, is completely unable to get rid of the existence without pathology. And marriage is a hospital, bringing together all kinds of patients, where people seek self-help, or help others, or are terminally ill and just want to speed up their destruction.

But no one can tell the answer of how to prevent the production of antibodies after taking a single drug for a lifetime.

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Extended Reading
  • Mason 2022-03-24 09:01:23

    Very beautiful! Every frame, every schedule, every line, every piece of music is filled with the Oscar winner's style, lock the best screenplay and best actress, nominate best film, best director, best actor , The best soundtrack did not run. Several scenes were extremely exciting, especially the first time the two parties and lawyers met (not the first trial) in the speech wrestling. The editor's rhythm of controlling the audience's thoughts was accurate to the millisecond level, which was really cool. In fact, the final outcome (Charlie goes to Los Angeles to work + Nicole is nominated for best director) was originally possible without a divorce, Charlie moved to Los Angeles to work, but if it weren’t for the divorce, Charlie would not be able to make concessions. It is a paradox, and even more a metaphor. Why is the woman's concession justified and the man's concession is the last resort? Nicole, who is divorced, is full of spirits, but Charlie, who has a home, and who has no home, are different. The man who needs home more than the woman is actually the man. Between self-realization, a genius director in the world and self tolerance, and a happy family in the world, Ni chose the former. I agree with this choice.

  • Curtis 2021-10-20 19:02:58

    While they were arguing, I was crying. In the end he read the merits of her writing, and cried all around in the cinema. But my horror film sequence headed by "Road to Revolution" is not going to be included, because it can retain its original tenderness after being riddled with defects. @BIFF

Marriage Story quotes

  • Nora Fanshaw: People don't accept mothers who drink too much wine and yell at their child and call him an asshole. I get it. I do it too. We can accept an imperfect dad. Let's face it, the idea of a good father was only invented like 30 years ago. Before that, fathers were expected to be silent and absent and unreliable and selfish, and can all say we want them to be different. But on some basic level, we accept them. We love them for their fallibilities, but people absolutely don't accept those same failings in mothers. We don't accept it structurally and we don't accept it spiritually. Because the basis of our Judeo-Christian whatever is Mary, Mother of Jesus, and she's perfect. She's a virgin who gives birth, unwaveringly supports her child and holds his dead body when he's gone. And the dad isn't there. He didn't even do the fucking. God is in heaven. God is the father and God didn't show up. So, you have to be perfect, and Charlie can be a fuck up and it doesn't matter. You will always be held to a different, higher standard. And it's fucked up, but that's the way it is.

  • Bert Spitz: You know what this is like? This is like that joke about the woman at the hairdresser, she's going to Rome. You know this?

    Charlie: I don't.

    Bert Spitz: This woman is at her hairdresser, and she says, "I'm going to Rome on Holiday." And he says, "Oh, really? What airline are you taking?" She says, "Alitalia." He says, "Alitalia? Are you crazy? That's the worst - that's terrible. Don't take that. Where you gonna stay?" She says, "I'm gonna stay at the Hassler." "The Hassler? What, are you kidding? They're renovating the Hassler. You'll hear hammering all night long. You won't sleep. What are you gonna see?" She says, "I think I'm gonna try to go the Vatican." "The Vatican? You'll be standing in line all day long. You'll never get to see anything."

    Charlie: I'm sorry, Bert, am I paying for this joke?