I have always liked to listen to Rene Liu's songs, because her nickname is Milk Tea Bar. I always feel that her singing, lyrics and melody are like a cup of hot milk tea, giving me warmth and a sense of stability. For love and marriage, I also admire her very much, she is too maverick. In his new book "I Dare to Be Lonely in Your Arms", Rene Liu expressed the view that the best state between lovers is "loneliness in the arms of a lover". It's not scary that the two have nothing to say, and it's not scary to get together less and more. Although the physical distance is far, the heart is so close. Regarding the relationship with her husband, Rene Liu concluded that they are close at heart and independent in life. They have their own separate spaces at home, do their own things, respect each other, do not disturb each other, and enjoy themselves. Rene Liu has been working since she got married, flying all over the world, often going out for half a month without going home, and her husband will not contact her too much.
For Liu Ruoying's view of marriage and love, I express my support. Although their husband and wife are not always sticky together like other loving couples, even after marriage, they have their own personal space, do not interfere with each other, and the two have their own independent careers. When both parties encounter difficulties, appropriate suggestions will be made. What's wrong with such a feeling? After all, whether it is before marriage or after marriage, both parties are doing themselves and are independent individuals.
With Rene Liu's view on marriage and love, Yu Meng would like to recommend a movie, a comedy love movie - "Love Holiday". After watching this movie, everyone must have some personal experiences about the correct way to open up adult love.
This movie is carried out in the way of two female protagonists. The content of the movie is a bit like the deformation meter of Mango Channel's variety show, but it is a completely different mode of operation. The movie tells the story of two beauties: Amanda Woods and Alice Simpkins because they were both betrayed by their boyfriends, the two happened to meet online, and the two made a bold decision: to put their house After exchanging everything with him for the other party's vacation, when the two reached their destination, Amanda fell in love with the English boy Graham, and Alice also met the American boy Mills.
Since it is a comedy movie, the ending is of course to satisfy the audience's appetite and end with a happy reunion, but the process is still a bit tortuous, and those who have experienced similar experiences must be able to empathize with it!
Alice, played by Kate Winslet, is no longer the radiant Ruth in "Titanic". In "Love Vacation", she is just a small editor in a company. She has been unrequitedly in love with her ex-boyfriend for three years, and also It's not a one-sided love, and I spent a short time with my ex-boyfriend in the middle of it. Unfortunately, my ex-boyfriend is a scumbag in our mouth. While in love with Alice, he cheated on a colleague of the company. Finally, just when her ex-boyfriend announced his marriage to a colleague in the company, he invited Alice to be the editor of their marriage announcement, and Alice collapsed. Alice had been holding back her tears from the party, all the way back to the cozy cottage at home, and she didn't burst into tears until the moment she entered the house. With developed lacrimal glands, she cried non-stop, and even thought of suicide for a moment.
In her relationship, Alice always felt that she was humble and unconfident, and was always needed by the other party, but she couldn't see the other party's need for her. Maybe a small gift from the other party, "I need you", she can immediately appear to the other party. In fact, in the eyes of outsiders, she is very feminine, kind, and has a good ability to empathize. She is also what we often call empathy! That's why after she escaped from a place she was familiar with, she lived a more flamboyant life. She could help the old man next door find the way home, she could comfort a friend she knew not long ago about broken love, and she could help the old neighbor to find a new way Get back your self-confidence and attend the award ceremony that everyone admires. The most important thing is that after these two weeks of vacation, she can drive her ex-boyfriend out of the house where she lives, and she can walk the red carpet with confidence. It turns out that she is so radiant! At this time, she also gained a good love because of her charm.
Alice said: "After going through all this, people will still start over, meet people who are worth paying for, and then regain self-confidence little by little." In a relationship, you are not afraid to meet bad people , I'm afraid of losing myself, I don't know my own good, it's too humble. Even our fat temperature will have such dark moments, what are you afraid of, cute?
Another heroine in the movie, Amanda, is a veritable strong woman. She has her own film editing company, supercars, mansions, and men. But she suddenly lost the ability to love people after her parents divorced. She couldn't even shed a tear when she broke up with her boyfriend. This vacation made her unexpectedly meet Alice's brother, Graham, who had lost his lover and two lovely daughters. She thought it was just a wonderful affair, but she didn't expect them to fall in love. She loved Graham's shy smile, handsome face, and most importantly, his sense of responsibility for his two daughters, all of which seemed to Amanda to live in another world. Graham took her to eat, date, and play outdoors, which made her tense and single re-experience the beauty of love. Just as she was about to return to the taxi, she shed long-lost tears.
The female character Amanda represents many older single and financially independent women. It seems that as they grow older, they become less and less in love except for work. This is an American movie. The United States does not have any criticism of older single women, and thinks these are normal, but such women are more attractive because they are mature, financially independent, and independent in thinking, and do not need more care from others. In China, an older single woman is a sin. People will think that you are the original sin. What is the use of studying well, what is the use of earning more money, and what is the use of having a car and a house? No one wants it. Most areas or people in China will still look at this type of people with colored glasses, because for men, they will always like girls around 25 years old, because they are young and beautiful, and once a woman is over 25 years old, Everything will start to go downhill, crow's feet will slowly appear at the corners of the eyes, nasolabial lines will appear at the corners of the mouth, and the chest will begin to sag due to gravity. These women can only delay their aging through beauty salons or medical beauty technology, and some even go to plastic surgery, cut double eyelids, and breast augmentation. In addition to pleasing ourselves, doing all of these must be more to please our general public.
I couldn't help but play the role of Amanda. Indeed, China's national conditions are like this. It makes people hate it but can't get rid of it.
Going the comedy route for a better holiday is a gift we've received. It's really nice to watch such a comedy romance movie on such a sunny weekend. Although some of the plot here is still unrealistic, it does not prevent us from watching it. In real life, such an opportunity to exchange a house for a vacation is rare because there are so many factors to consider. In real life, people are exhausted for work, mortgages, car loans, and parental pension issues. It seems that there is no chance to throw everything away and have a good vacation like the plot of a movie, or even have a good relationship in a foreign country. It's too far for us. But the audience still gets something out of Alice and Amanda's romance, and it's worth it.
For the best way to be yourself in love and marriage, my favorite is papi sauce. "10 years of love, 5 years of marriage, each going back to their respective homes during the New Year, and each looking for their own mother. No wedding banquets, no honeymoon. From dating to marriage, both parents have never met each other" papi sauce often mentioned in some programs My husband, Lao Hu, and the two are classmates. They have the same opinion on many things, as well as the concept of marriage. They believe that parents have their parents' lives and they have their own lives, in a relationship that is both interconnected and independent of each other. It can be said that with the support of Lao Hu, the marriage of papi sauce can be different. At the same time, the concept of both parents is also very important. They are open-minded, respect their children's choices, and give children more open space, so that you can have an independent marriage.
Immortal love and marriage like papi sauce are really hard to come by, and it requires the right time and place to be in harmony with each other. Of course, envy is envy. For China, this method is still a bit too special, and not every family can afford it. A few years before the marriage, the parents of both parties can not see each other, but it is not good for a long time. After all, two people are married, which is equivalent to forming an in-law family, and it is better to meet each other. If you don't have a wedding, how will you get the money back from the family back then? Of course, this is just a joke. In papi sauce's concept of marriage and love, I saw an independent woman who lived her life, a husband who loved her so much and her parents who were so enlightened. It was perfect.
For many single women, I find that we lack the ability to wait today, and lose a lot of our growth in the anxiety of waiting. It seems that the person I am waiting for is also the person others are waiting for, but it is not at all. You could have studied photography, studied music, and traveled. This is the opportunity that history gave you at this stage, but many people think that this is not an opportunity, that it is a disaster or a pain for themselves, which is misplaced.
Today only those who wait will have real happiness, and many people will not wait halfway. Now an 18-year-old girl must find a romantic lover. At the age of 23, she feels that she must find a smart and talented person. After graduating from college, she must find a more stable economic condition. Many people have this rhythm preset in their minds, so there are many cases of self-discount. This is the lack of an ability deep inside. A person who can truly achieve happiness will first live a very happy life, and his life will be rich and full, and then he will see another equal person. Instead of saying that one person is particularly scarce and urgent, and then someone else is your savior, this will cause a lot of problems, this person is ok, it’s almost enough, and I don’t know that there will be a real person in a few years. The happiest person is there It will appear in the distance, but you are completely unaware of it and have given up, so it is far from true happiness.
In fact, a person in this world has two problems and two main goals. One is to find a favorite thing in this world. This thing has social value, era value, and significance. Another thing is to find someone who is emotionally and spiritually compatible with you and can move forward together. In many cases, especially in youth, it is most important to find the thing first, you find the thing and then there is someone in it. But the reality is that many people are upside-down, busy looking for people, and things are simply cloudy. This will cause us to have a huge haze and a huge loss in our life, so in our life, it can be said that not expecting is the best waiting, that is, you don't want to find this person, first put the whole spirit on things, and then people came out during the process.
The best way for adults to open their love is like this: 1. To maintain independence, spiritual independence and economic independence, a person can also live a rich and colorful life. 2. Have the ability to love people, have the ability to empathize, and have the ability to understand and tolerate. I hope that every single woman can harvest her own standard love like the two heroines in "Love Holiday".
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