The male lead looks good, the female lead doesn't look obnoxious, and the Paris cityscape is romantic enough to be spectacular - these premise made me sit down for two hours of "Big City Syndrome" and "Shadows of Psychological Growth" free psychological treatment, and the effect is obvious.
One feels that he has been unlucky all the time, and his life is full of guilt;
A fear of leaving and losing again, always used to please others.
In the restaurant, the male protagonist is not only disinterested and even disgusted by the anecdotes of the year when the alumni named "Hard Disk" kept talking; On the other hand, he refused to accept the superficial harmony symbolized by "eating french fries", but spoke of the inner pain represented by "depression", which seriously damaged the mood of the family and the Christmas atmosphere... This kind of face is unfamiliar, uninteresting, unwilling The inner resistance and unease of blending in and things did make me feel familiar - like attending a stranger's party where chickens and ducks talk, being forced to join colleagues in discussions about parenting and teaching, and fulfilling obligations to go home for the New Year. real picture.
On the other hand, after encountering the great grief of his younger sister's childhood medical history, he always felt that he was unlucky and could not forgive himself for being alive, or even forgiving his colleague's dismissal while he "survived", which once caused panic in his heart. After the psychiatrist gave the advice of "perhaps it's time to stop this guilt; you absolutely have the right to live, and you have the right to be happy", the male protagonist bravely shouted to his parents who have been deliberately avoiding the matter. Do you realize how unbearable this silence is." Indeed, facing the knot bravely is a prerequisite for a complete turnaround, just as understanding your own problems is a prerequisite for solving your own problems—although understanding may not necessarily solve them.
Therefore, the following few sentences are dedicated to my cautious self:
To touch, to do things, don't be afraid to be close to things, people, life, women (?) children;
Don't deliberately withdraw from your speech, don't watch from afar, just do what you like;
Have faith in life, don't think everything is bad;
- This is a positive attitude to life, or the secret to making people live longer.
The heroine's problem and its solution have been clearly stated in her speech, only a note:
"A person leaves, just like a person dies, there are things left to do.
Sometimes vulnerability is also a strength.
This may sound paradoxical at first, but it can be the key to defeating cancer.
The purpose of immunotherapy is to stimulate and strengthen the immune system, with the advantage that if the immune system destroys the tumor, the collateral damage is minimal;
In contrast, chemotherapy destroys everything and compromises the immune system.
Today, we view cancer as an imbalance rather than an aggressive behavior.
Any living relationship must be exchanged with the outside world;
Therefore, exchange is a crucial concept. "
"Meeting someone means finding someone who means something to you;
But, for relationships, social networking is one of the worst inventions;
Social software can give you the happiness of the moment, but it's not what your heart is looking for. "
Finally, in the cheerful dance music, the hero and heroine met. Both of them laughed, and the male protagonist smiled especially well--in other words, people who don't like to laugh usually look really good when they smile.
So, the conclusion is - dance, embrace life, even if you are not mentally prepared, you can fall in love with a "it's too cute" cat in one second, and name it "chicken nugget".
Don't stop me, I want a dog named "Duck Leg".
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