I heard about the little boy this morning. At night, I went swimming with my father. I should have been able to swim, so my father didn't notice it for a while. At that time, the lights in the swimming pool were also blurred. When the little boy sank unexpectedly, no one noticed... Life, that's it Sorry to separate each other.
The most emotional thing is, what will the father of the little boy do in the future. The shadow in his heart may follow for a long time, self-blame, hatred and other complex emotions, how will haunt him in the future.
If at this time, even a casual accusation from the family may make him collapse...
because it reminds me of a story. The true story of the movie Going Onward.
Johnny and his brother had a good relationship since childhood. Because of an accidental accident, he went out to play and left his brother to work at home alone. As a result, his brother went to heaven because of an accident.
He was by the river when his father found him. Where were you then? ! the father asked him growling, with disgust.
Although it is a child, the imprint is still too deep. A child has a child's perception.
He grew up, left his hometown, and wandered outside alone.
He sings, gets married, and becomes a father, but never finds a sense of solidarity...until he meets another woman. But they each have a family, so they bury their inner torment.
The wounds of youth have never really healed.
He is very popular and so many people like his songs.
On the surface, he is unruly and rambunctious, but he longs for a real peace more than anyone else. It comes from inner peace.
I have experienced a lot of ups and downs, but there is no way to solve the dead knot in my heart.
Until one day it finally broke out, he also asked his father: Yes! Where am I, but where were you then? !
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Maybe two completely different examples. But it felt a similar feeling.
It is impossible to forget completely. But things that have happened but can no longer be changed, have to change to another positive way to continue to live.
The comfort of family and the support of friends is so important at this time. And self-blame, long-term guilt, will only make yourself more painful, and it can't change anything.
But it is one thing, I always feel that these knots must be opened.
Anything with a backlog of emotions that is too long will make people go to another road, the road that cannot see the light.
Sad for the little boy, and even more sad for the father. I hope I can slowly adjust my mentality and think about everything in a positive way.
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