I am gay too. I have a lot of feelings for the seventh episode of Modern Love, and I couldn't help but take a look at the three main characters (named Bai Nan, Black Boy, and Boy She Mom) one by one, as shown below:
1. Black man
First of all, although the black man is ten years younger than the white man, in fact it is the black man who has seen the explosion of motherhood in the animal world and suggested to the white man to raise a child. However, during the whole process, in the face of many turmoils on the child's mother's side, the scenes were all controlled by the white man, while the black man was escaping the problem almost from the beginning to the end, and it was left to the white man to solve it.
I guess it may be due to the age difference. The black man always enjoys being taken care of, not the one who finds problems and takes the initiative to solve them.
Of course, there is also a smaller possibility that the black man did not find the problem or did not think that the disturbance was a problem. After all, from the experience of encountering black men and white men, we can find that black men cannot take care of themselves.
From the age difference, I saw myself.
Most of the time, I am the one receiving care. I have difficulties or troubles on my side, I may talk to the other party, and the other party will even take the initiative to find and solve my troubles.
I know this, know and remind myself that I shouldn't be obsessed with being cared for. In a relationship, this should go both ways.
I'm also grateful for that, knowing that receiving care is not something to take for granted. Two people are neither blood relatives nor friends. One person can't help caring for the other person should not be cheap. This is love, and it should be given back with love.
So I want to be a competent boyfriend from the bottom of my heart and do my best to support each other.
If I can't, make enough effort to be able to provide support.
In the process of getting along with two people, it is best to make efforts to balance giving and getting, and it is best to grow together.
Even if you try, you can't provide support, and this attitude itself will make up and help build the balance.
You know you are loved and he knows you love him. It is pleasing to enjoy being loved and to give love to those you love. You are very happy to be spoiled, and I am happy to pay for you.
1+1>>2. What a beautiful thing.
Although the black man did not try his best to provide support, his relationship with the white man was very good. I guess behind this is the white man's reckless dedication and tolerance, or the black man is filling him with love in other ways. (fog)
This kind of vigor and vigor brought about by self-recklessness is what makes love attractive, and allows life to hatch treasures and shine brightly.
I believe that love can be so beautiful, and this is my pursuit of love.
2. White man
The white man's maturity and adaptability to capitalist society are very high. The contrast with him is very strong, the mother of the cosmopolitan child.
For ordinary people, fish and bear's paw cannot have both. To have a fucking level of freedom is to endure the downsides of freedom, such as poverty and its consequences. The moment I watched Bai Nan took over the newborn, I felt that Bai Nan would definitely take good care of this child.
Even if the white man's personality does not change, if the white man's income is extremely low and he is a subsistence-guarantee household, the child's mother will never give the child to him.
There are many gays who decide not to get married, especially many unmarried gays choose to come to a more liberal and tolerant first-tier city in order to be themselves, because their family members are not in their hometown to be pointed out, and in order to be able to hold their boyfriends in the sunshine. Sadly, the housing prices in first-tier cities are staggering. What supports this house price is the N wallets of two families that many heterosexuals get through marriage, but gays do not have the option of marriage. Without the protection of the marriage law, coupled with the male nature of love for broadcasting, there are very few husbands in the circle who are so affectionate and stable that they can provide a house together.
The vast majority of gays are neither the ivy of Qingbei reunion, nor can they succeed in starting a business in the grass-roots, and there are very few people with strong earning ability. It's too difficult, so gay needs to have a strong ability to make money to support all this, and to meet the basic needs can it be romantic.
Gay as a man is still like this, other people in LGBT can't even think about the pressure.
So we hear people say that gays are generally good.
Because, at least compared to straight people, it's really hard to mix without being good.
3. Fuck the kid
Babies are people who live in their own world. But people are still social creatures after all, no matter how much they like freedom, losing the intersection with people will make people doubt the meaning of life. The child didn't care on the surface, but when the white man said on the spot that she had made no contribution to society, she was hit in the weak spot and collapsed and fled the scene.
I have not come out to anyone in my daily life except my cousin. He also did not come out to them due to his knowledge of friends and other factors.
In recent years I have noticed that I have fewer friends and not many new friends. I know why, if you are not honest with your friends, the friendship will of course cool down. Good friends should know each other a lot and help each other, but I can't do it now.
In the past, before I completed my self-identification, I could do it, so I had many friends, and even the circle of friends from childhood to adulthood was almost established with me as the central contact.
But now, especially after I start living alone, I'm more of living in a small world like a child, trying to find some interesting things. I can't bear the loneliness, so I call my friends who are getting more and more uninterested. Come out and play script killing; don't care about work, just reach the level of completing the task, and it is not among the best in the same period.
I am grateful that the world is so colorful, and there are very few times when I can't stand loneliness.
Every time there are various festivals, my parents will call me and ask me if I have gone out to dinner, for fear that I will be alone.
I told my parents that I feel that I basically don’t work overtime now, and my daily routine is stable and orderly. I go home every day, read books, watch movies, and cook for myself. I don’t know how happy I am. If I am interested in architecture, I read a lot of Western architectural history, because I am interested in suspense, and I also study how to write mystery novels. I feel that I have new harvests every week.
I said that I was very satisfied with this life, that I could be alone.
I can be alone, right?
I just occasionally miss the days when I used to call friends with friends.
Finish.
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