This is the first article in the Mingxian sci-fi "Deadly Woman" series
01 Human marriage
99% of women are Scarlett before marriage and Black Widow after marriage; 99% of men are Ben Solo before marriage and Jedi kills after marriage.
When watching "Marriage Story", it's hard to imagine that the heroine was a red-haired, good-looking female agent who could go to the world for nine days. To put it plainly and secretly: Scarlett is really like a house-hating wife.
Male protagonist: The image of the domineering black warrior who dances the lightsaber, commands thousands of troops, and speaks the truth, has disappeared at all, and has become a divorced middle-aged man trapped in a trivial dilemma.
This is the beauty of the movie: Black Widow and Warrior Lun can't escape the torture of marriage, let alone ordinary audiences of all living beings?
When the audience came over, the movie was over.
Pulling other successful commercial films of male and female protagonists into the plight of life in reality, and then generating interaction and connection, this is a movie viewing experience beyond this movie.
This kind of feeling that goes straight into the heart after being pulled away is created by the delicate brushwork of the screenwriter and director and the subtle acting skills of the actors, and the skill is very deep.
Delicate and nuanced, the film's many details are worth chewing on, intriguing and fascinating.
For example, the male protagonist cheated once. ❏ The audience didn't know the story at the beginning; ❏ The male protagonist thought the female protagonist didn't know, and pretended to be stunned; ❏ Unfortunately, the female protagonist hacked into the male protagonist's email and found out that she was cheating, so she decided to divorce her, and find the most powerful divorce lawyer to torture the male Lord; ❏ The male protagonist does not know why, and his delusions ended peacefully. At this time, the female protagonist broke out, and the thrill of revenge gave her and the audience; ❏ However, the final point of this incident fell in the climax of the play. Ultimate damage: You should be sad not because I slept with her, but because I was happy with her.
If it is possible to save the previous marriage, then, after saying this, this marriage is destined to be broken, and the difference is only the breakdown of politeness or the breakdown of the big fight. Because the male protagonist blamed all the faults on the female protagonist, including his own derailment - I derailed because I was not happy with you! what? !
In the end, the heroine chose a polite rupture. As the injured party, she took the initiative to appease the male protagonist, as if the male protagonist was the one who was injured-although in the eyes of the male protagonist, she was indeed injured. The lyrics are well sung, the breakup should be decent. After all, the two have children and a new life to live.
The story begins with a reading - the marriage mediator asks both parties to recite each other's strengths aloud according to the manuscript they wrote, and the heroine looks embarrassed and refuses to do so.
The story ends with a reading - the male protagonist takes his son to read the manuscript written by the female protagonist, which is the content of the title that the female protagonist cannot read. The male protagonist sheds tears as he recites it. Only after people lose it can they know how to cherish it. If you know how much the other person once loved you, how can you leave?
But everything came to a conclusion at the moment he cheated, and there was no turning back.
Yes, this is married life, with all kinds of unforgivable mistakes that haunt both parties until they suffocate.
The incinerator of love, the tomb of happiness.
What is the real reason?
In married life, quarrels between husbands and wives are usually inevitable. Why do they quarrel? Usually it's because of inconsistencies.
So the question is, are there people in this world who have exactly the same three views?
does not exist!
So quarrels are inevitable. Since it is inevitable, whether the two can continue, the important thing is often the attitude after the quarrel.
The male protagonist's performance and attitude after cheating greatly hurt the female protagonist. Many times, a woman's cruel departure is not a manifestation of hysteria and frenzy, but a polite way of getting along with you like a passerby .
02 Three-body marriage
In The Three-Body Problem, there is very little description of marriage. Because in the vast and boundless cosmic story, marriage is a small thing after all. But for men and women in marriage, it may be the whole of life.
The civilization that can perfectly solve "marriage is the grave of love" is probably not a human being on earth, but a trisolaran. Because they have no love at all.
There is only one Trisolaran in the book who yearns for love, and that is No. 1379.
"I am a small person, living at the bottom of the society, no one notices me, a lonely life, no status, no love, and no hope. If I can save a distant beautiful world that I fell in love with, then at least this life will not be in vain. live."
First, let’s talk about how trisomies reproduce. They are composed of the parent body and the mother body, and two-thirds of the body material is used as energy to help the remaining one-third of the cells generate a new body, and finally split into several new children.
The memory and knowledge of the Trisolaran are passed down in this process, from father to son, and from son to grandson.
This family structure is completely different from human social relations. The most important thing is that there is absolutely no lie and deception in communication, love and marriage. Those whose conditions are not good will naturally die of loneliness and be eliminated. Genes are better from generation to generation.
Memory inheritance means that parents or their grandparents have long been immune to love through romance, routine and sincerity.
Love has no living soil. What's more, they have gone through the cruel reality of survival, and I am afraid that even their family will disappear. One of the solutions to the seven-year itch of marriage that modern humans often say is that love is transformed into family affection, which I am afraid does not exist in the three-body society.
The function of memory inheritance saves a lot of communication and education time for Trisolarans in the harsh living environment of this galaxy.
The offspring of the earthlings who make friends, fall in love, and marry have only instincts. Children's memory and knowledge are acquired through the day after tomorrow. In fact, the efficiency of this kind of nurturing young children is very low.
The most efficient way should be like the Trisolaran, where parents directly copy the most useful knowledge and experience to their children, just like copying hard disk files. Children can live, live and work directly.
It is a pity that human beings have not evolved such an organ of communication, and can only teach by words and deeds. In this teaching process, the loss of knowledge and experience information is high, and the error is large.
As an evolutionary compensation, Earth humans have acquired many additional abilities, such as the ability to express and understand complex emotions. Most importantly, humans have the ability to disguise and deceive.
The specific process is more complicated and is not detailed. Married life is full of such disguises, because no husband can always be a decent gentleman like on his wedding day, and no wife can always wear a wedding dress and become a stunner of all kinds. In "Marriage Story", the male protagonist cheated on the female protagonist, and the female protagonist peeked at the male protagonist's emails without the knowledge of the male protagonist; their sons followed their father and mother early, and learned to speak to their father in front of their father, and to their mother in front of their mother. Talking, but the adults are like a mirror in their hearts, but they are used to it and don't care at all.
Whether this ability is benign or malignant depends on the spiritual inclination of the master. However, in the cosmic world depicted in "The Three-Body Problem", the ability to deceive is undoubtedly a huge strategic advantage of Earth civilization.
Especially when the human front is just no more than the Trisolaran.
Later, the most deceitful ones among human beings will defeat the Trisolaran civilization. The three scholars will describe in other articles, so stay tuned.
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