I accidentally saw a group discussing the film "Every Day" out of curiosity, relying on some fragmentary time, after watching this film, it is an American film released in 2010, and there is no delay in the film from beginning to end , the plot screen is interlocking, making people feel the same, touching the softest part of the heart.
This film describes the life dilemma faced by a couple in their 40s. The male and female protagonists face many life confusions in marriage, in career, in educating children, and in treating the elderly. It may be that most ordinary people In the process of experience, it is very realistic, and the expression of the picture is full of delicacy and realism. So it will make people who are going through this period look at it and have an emotional resonance. The emotional details are touched by eyes and actions. At the end of the film, we return to love and accompany each other. After watching it, people can cherish life more, learn to experience the little things in life, and learn to find themselves by living in the roles of different people. inspiration and creativity.
There are some deep plots and dialogues, which are touching.
The heroine doesn't like her father, and she is anxious and tangled to take her elderly, incontinent father to her own home to take care of her. What she worries about her father is that her father often yells at her mother when she is alive, even if she is alive. After the parents lost a son, the mother couldn't restrain her grief and cried bitterly. She was yelled at by her father and said not to cry anymore. The heroine thinks that her father is an indifferent and selfish man, so she has always had a bad impression on her father, but she has to take care of her life. Independent father.
I think a lot of people, myself included, have been unable to develop love for their fathers for a long time because of their machismo or incomprehension or indifference and selfishness. But those are all fathers we see from our own perspective, and we don't actually understand the real father.
One day, the heroine’s father was listening to the heroine’s youngest son practicing the violin, and he stumbled. So the grandfather put forward some opinions to his grandson: “Your playing has no sense of coherence. The way of direct criticism makes the grandson feel frustrated, and makes the heroine feel that his father is incomprehensible. So the heroine explained: "I asked him to learn the violin not to make him a performer, let alone just starting to learn!". The father replied to the heroine: "Then you mean that it doesn't matter if you study well or not? If you don't study correctly, it will be even harder! Criticism is never gentle, criticism is medicine, if you want to become better, just Gotta swallow it!"
If you savor this father's words carefully, it is really full of wisdom. Each of us is enrolling ourselves or enrolling our children in art classes. Sometimes we do not require our children to make a living from it in the future, but can it be used as an excuse for not serious or casual study? Even in order to cultivate artistic cells, the spirit of excellence is also required. From the perspective of the heroine or the mother in general, the father is just picking on faults, but from the perspective of the father, he has put forward a pertinent opinion. Many facts have proved that what makes a child really progress is often the strict requirements of the beginning. But often people cannot reach an agreement at that time, and only time can prove the final fact.
The male protagonist in the film is a person who loves his family, his wife, and his children. He has a stable and conservative personality and is engaged in the career of screenwriter. The plot he wrote has not been approved by the boss for a long time, and has basically been in a state of being denied. Even the boss threw his script on the table and said: I don't want to fire anyone. Later, in order to break through the restrictions, he went to female colleagues twice and asked for inspiration from female colleagues who could write smartly. Until his physical derailment, he finally found inspiration and wrote works that satisfied both himself and his boss. But the price paid was that the wife lied. Claiming to be just communicating work. But his heart also fell into the guilt of lying.
When the male protagonist is immersed in his career, the female protagonist is tired of taking care of the children and father, and is limited by economic pressure. Although the male protagonist seems to be cheating at this time, he actually maintains the bottom line and responsibility and love for the family.
He and his female colleague had a great time swimming together, during which they had a few lines of dialogue:
When a female colleague took the initiative to kiss him, she said, "Listen to your heart and don't care too much about others.
He said: The key is that there are too many voices, and you can't hear your heart at all. "
During the conversation and intimacy with his female colleagues, he gradually relaxed himself and said, "This mansion you live in costs a lot of money? I don't care.
How much I earn, I always have to spend in the future!"
The female colleague kissed him and said, "Your future is now, just enjoy the moment"
The male protagonist's extramarital affair came to an abrupt end after the female colleague's ex-boyfriend intervened.
But the male protagonist has also achieved a great change - he found something in the female colleague that he did not have but was looking forward to, that is to break through the self.
He went beyond his own boundaries, boldly experienced what he longed for in his heart, and created a script that satisfied both himself and his boss.
As the heroine's father's life is about to come to an end, whether to continue hospitalization or go with the flow, the father's words dispelled the heroine's concerns: "Don't hate death, accept him boldly."
The father, who was lying in the hospital bed, said, "My feet are very cold and I can't feel it." At this time, the picture is full of warmth. The female protagonist walked gently to the end of the bed and gently held her father's feet with both hands. The father said, "I feel your hands are very warm. I don't want to die alone."
The hostess smiled and whispered: "No"
The details of the scene between the father and the female protagonist are very touching. One action sentence makes the viewer feel that for the dying person, the love of the companion will give the dying person the courage to face death...
When the male protagonist returns to the family, the female protagonist will not tell the truth about the cheating. She said to the male protagonist: "Parents, children, and maintaining marriage are not easy. Don't worry too much, everything will pass."
The male protagonist broke his own boundaries and wrote a satisfactory script. The boss said to him: "You are right, congratulations on breaking through yourself, coming out and fighting to the end, it's very good, unfettered, keep it up!"
At the end of the film, the male protagonist became more courageous. He directly told the boss that his son was gay, and he got together with a female colleague. The burden of feeling dropped.
And the boss said, "Look, you're not as boring as you pretend to be!"
In fact, everyone has a fresh life in their bones, but in life, we are accustomed to disguising and deceiving because of fear and desire, and our minds have also become rigid, not daring to break through, and a vicious circle.
But if, like the male protagonist, we boldly experience different lives on the premise of maintaining our own psychological bottom line, "every day" we will surely find that there are some unexpected surprises and differences hidden in our lives. Even if we drink a glass of water and eat a meal, we try to experience it in a different way than usual, and we will find that every day is different. Everyone we come into contact with has their own experiences, and if we try to live in each other's bodies, we may be able to bring ourselves some different feelings and inspirations.
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