If love is impossible!

Kody 2022-03-17 09:01:03

I don't know since when, the Internet atmosphere in China has suddenly changed drastically. Everyone's views on marriage, love, marriage change, cheating, and cheating make me wonder, are we back in the Middle Ages?

I saw a video on Weibo earlier.

In the video, a woman and a group of people beat another woman, scratching her hair, pulling her clothes, and kicking her private parts with her feet. I was shocked.

But what shocked me the most was the comments from netizens.

Almost unanimously support the beaters.

It turned out that the woman who was beaten was Xiaosan.

For the time being, I will not evaluate Xiaosan from a moral point of view. From a legal point of view, who gave these people the right to beat others?

Where do these people put the law?

Hollywood had a movie in 2012 called "The Line of Happiness behind the Dark Clouds" starring big cousins ​​Jennifer Lawrence and Bradley Cooper.

The actor played by Cooper in the movie was sent to a mental hospital after seeing his wife cheating and seriously injuring his lover.

It is really "oranges are born in Huainan as oranges, and born in Huaibei as oranges", the same behavior, in China, in the United States, is worlds apart.

What really pushed this trend to its peak was the "Liu Yang cheating on Hanzo Forest" incident that was hotly debated on the Internet some time ago.

To be honest, before that, I didn't know A Qin, Liu Yang, and Hanzo Forest, and I didn't even know their names.

After this matter, these three people, no one in the world does not know you!

I don't believe it if there is no hype factor.

The most suitable audience for "Marriage Story" is these people.

There are also those netizens who fuel the flames and claim to be just.

The male and female protagonists fell in love at first sight, and later achieved mutual success, and finally came to the step of separation.

At the beginning of the film, the two wrote down the scenes about each other's advantages at the marriage mediation office.

Some words are easy to write, but hard to read!

After the marriage mediation failed to mediate, the two went in different directions.

Nicole, played by Scarlett Johansson, has hired a divorce lawyer to end the relationship legally.

Husband Charlie pinned his hopes on dialogue between the two sides, and even turned down an olive branch from a New York lawyer, which was extremely beneficial to him, but might put his wife in an extremely embarrassing situation.

Seeing this, I was a little confused to Nicole. The two sides had agreed to negotiate, but now there is a lawsuit.

Why! woman!

But a phone call between Scarlett and her husband made my attitude take a 180-degree turn.

Husband cheated!

Why! Scumbag!

As the story continued, the husband was under pressure from the lawyer of the other party, and for the child's custody and visitation rights, he had to find the lawyer in New York again, hoping to gain more benefits for himself.

The two sides fought in court.

This courtroom scene was so well filmed that the young mafia brother turned into a famous lawyer in New York City.

Just kidding ha!

He was aggressive in court, accusing Scarlett of drinking and taking drugs.

Of course, Scarlett's lawyer is not a "good person" and also accused her husband of cheating.

It turned out that the American situation was also torn apart.

It's just that people tear it up in court, we tear it up on Weibo!

After the trial, the husband and wife returned home and another ripped.

Wife accuses husband of cheating.

The husband asked back: It's been a year and you haven't let me touch you.

Then, the two put on the table the fact that Chen Millet had rotten sesame seeds for several years.

You call me ruthless, and I call you unreasonable.

In the end, both cried.

The result of the verdict has also come out, the two sides are evenly matched, and there are not too many demands.

The husband moved to Los Angeles from New York in order to have more time with the children, and probably to make up for the guilt he had felt for his wife over the years.

That day, he went to see the child.

It happened that the child was doing reading exercises, so he approached and read aloud with the child.

Only to find out that this is the letter his wife wrote to him at the marriage mediation office.

He read and read and cried.

I watched and cried.

I was wondering, if they had read the letter to each other aloud and read it to each other, would the ending have been different?

Unfortunately not if.

They once loved each other deeply and blamed each other irrationally, but in the end, in their hearts, they must be the kind, wise, and considerate person from the beginning!

How can there be a percentage of victims, wrongdoers in love and marriage?

However, some people remember their good, some people only remember their bad.

Remember those who are good, they are all well, and they are still friends when they meet again;

Remember those bad people, who are tearing at each other online, making the whole world uneasy.

Scarlett Johansson talked about the relationship in an interview, saying that "a relationship is like any job, and it takes a lot of effort to keep it going."

If one day this relationship will end, she does not shy away from telling the child:

"My dad and I are better friends!"

Widow sister is worthy of being a widow sister, in and out of the play, she is a life mentor every minute.

Recently, I listened to a lot of Hong Kong and Taiwan songs in the 1990s, and found that many songs are "betrayal, derailment, love triangle".

Power Train's "So Be It", when I listened to this song, I was only a teenager, and I was ignorant, but I felt that the protagonist in the song was very manly!

Gigi Leung's "Short Hair", "You have her hair on your coat", how can this be explained?

Tanya Cai and Stefanie Sun sing "Origin", two girls who have a good relationship fall in love with a boy at the same time, what should I do?

Doll's "Across the Ocean to See You", that "you" is a man with a wife on the other side.

In Lin Yilian's "Blowing in the Cold Wind for You and Me", "If love is impossible, you understand it doesn't matter", no need to say more.

The previous songs did not have positive energy, but they all became classics;

Now the songs are full of positive energy, no one cares.

The former stars have changed, cheated, and cheated, leaving an immortal classic;

Today's stars have changed, cheated, cheated, and quarreled in the dark, leaving a lot of chicken feathers and becoming the laughing stock of netizens.

I hope that in the future, whether it is a star or an internet celebrity, the private affairs of my family will not be shown.

According to my suggestion, those who can write songs can write songs, and those who can’t write songs can also find people, or, write a little story.

One day in the future, I can't say for sure, it will really become a classic!

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Marriage Story quotes

  • Nora Fanshaw: People don't accept mothers who drink too much wine and yell at their child and call him an asshole. I get it. I do it too. We can accept an imperfect dad. Let's face it, the idea of a good father was only invented like 30 years ago. Before that, fathers were expected to be silent and absent and unreliable and selfish, and can all say we want them to be different. But on some basic level, we accept them. We love them for their fallibilities, but people absolutely don't accept those same failings in mothers. We don't accept it structurally and we don't accept it spiritually. Because the basis of our Judeo-Christian whatever is Mary, Mother of Jesus, and she's perfect. She's a virgin who gives birth, unwaveringly supports her child and holds his dead body when he's gone. And the dad isn't there. He didn't even do the fucking. God is in heaven. God is the father and God didn't show up. So, you have to be perfect, and Charlie can be a fuck up and it doesn't matter. You will always be held to a different, higher standard. And it's fucked up, but that's the way it is.

  • Bert Spitz: You know what this is like? This is like that joke about the woman at the hairdresser, she's going to Rome. You know this?

    Charlie: I don't.

    Bert Spitz: This woman is at her hairdresser, and she says, "I'm going to Rome on Holiday." And he says, "Oh, really? What airline are you taking?" She says, "Alitalia." He says, "Alitalia? Are you crazy? That's the worst - that's terrible. Don't take that. Where you gonna stay?" She says, "I'm gonna stay at the Hassler." "The Hassler? What, are you kidding? They're renovating the Hassler. You'll hear hammering all night long. You won't sleep. What are you gonna see?" She says, "I think I'm gonna try to go the Vatican." "The Vatican? You'll be standing in line all day long. You'll never get to see anything."

    Charlie: I'm sorry, Bert, am I paying for this joke?